Personal Identity and the Internet
Technology is changing rapidly. Now more than ever before, the Internet plays a vital role in everyday life. With the click of a mouse, people all over the world can exchange information with one another almost instantaneously. This changing technology allows people to broaden their horizons, exploring different cultures and learning new information. In addition to learning about others, the Internet provides people with a means of learning about themselves. Online, they can assume different identities, exploring multiple facets of their personalities. In the words of Justin Lewis, a student at the Ohio State University who frequently chats online in multi-user domains, “When you are online, you are
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The socially inept are able to be confident and popular online, initiating conversations with complete strangers.
While there are those who find themselves behaving differently online, others argue that they do not change any aspect of themselves when online. According to user Drew Maguire, a student at Denison University, “I don’t pretend to be someone else when I’m online. I am just myself.” However, what Harrah is saying holds true for all users, whether they take on a role to play or not. All of the users are “being themselves;” they just have more control over which aspect of their personality they want to emphasize. A person who is normally reserved may open up and act confident online, but he is still being himself. There is a confident side to him, and although he may only be able to portray this when chatting on the Internet, it is still a part of who he is.
Some critics tend to disagree with the notion that one’s experiences online can help them discover and explore different aspects of their selves. According to Immanuel Kant, author of Critique of Pure Reason, “The self cannot be encountered through experience. We must accept the epistemic connectedness of the unitary self ” (Goldsworth, online). But while Kant does not believe that one’s experiences can help him define his sense of self, there is much evidence to contradict his beliefs concerning the existence of a unitary self. Today, due to the amount of technology available, the
Currently, I am in the process of not only becoming comfortable in my identity, a black queer woman, but, also attempting to find solace in my identity as well. Something that all women, especially black queer women, should achieve in their lifetime. It is that dream that inspires me to travel to experience other cultures and to unite with women from various cultures across the black diaspora. Throughout many cultures, women’s identities are defined by their male counterparts and the labor they provide to them. Therefore, a major goal of mine is to create a space where women are able to exist outside the scope of their relationships with men and live uninhibitedly to become their best selves. That is why I find it pertinent to travel not only
Do people ever wonder what it was like back when there wasn’t technology? Do they wonder about how different it would be? Does it get annoying when parents and grandparents nag about how much people use the phone? Well, they are right in some ways, society relies on technology to survive. In “Growing up Digital: How the Internet Affects Teen Identity” Chandra Johnson talks about how easy it has become to bully kids over the internet it makes teens want to fake who they are just to be accepted.
For extroverts, social media use can lead to more FTF interactions when planned via social media and are more open to meeting new people. While on the other hand with introverts, who may already have difficulty in FTF situations, will use social networking sites as a way to stay connected with people they already know and use the internet as a more comfortable setting to communicate. Social media has become a whole other reality where people can express themselves freely on their own terms, and can control and set the tone. Face to face communication is less controlled and is more raw. It has less room for interpretation and misunderstanding than virtual
“People can take their time when posting information about themselves, carefully selecting what aspects they would like to emphasize (Gonzales 80).” By controlling what information and self-attributes to share with the online world, an individual may present an idealized version of self that would not align with societal perceptions in the face-to-face interactions. Furthermore, Gonzales notes that recent research in computer-mediated communications suggests that online self-presentations can alter self-perceptions (80). As Orenstein says, “I tweet, therefore I am.” The online presentations of self can become the reality, or idealized reality, of the
In “Stop Googling. Let’s Talk.” by Sherry Turkle a Professor of the Social Studies of Science and Technology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology has been studying the psychology of online connectivity for more than 30 years. For the past five years, she has been focusing on topics: What has happened to face‐ to‐face conversation in a world where so many people say they would rather text than talk, families, friendships and romance. She has also studied schools, universities and workplaces. Among this topics she has talked and provided studies on how we have become distant from “who we are.” She reports that we as a society have lost a lot of virtues as a society such as a lack of empathy for one another, solitude, and communication with one another. As the “digital world” continues to grow we as a society continue to grow with it and apart from one another. Sherry also emphasizes that we
Everyday technology has become a strain on the real world. People would rather have a conversation online than face to face. In today’s society, everything is seemed to be done online, whether it is having a conversation or even trying to make new friends. In The Flight from Conversation, Sherry Turkle asserts that technology has had a negative impact on how we socialize with one another, lessening the conversation. Turkle, who has spent years researching the relationship with technology and humans, uses real world situations where technology has not only changed the way someone socializes but has changed their persona and character making the audience feel pitiful and reflective of their own actions. The author also uses logical reasoning
In a twenty-four-hour day, internet users will have communicated online at least once whether it is writing to a classmate on a message board, posting pictures on Instagram, or responding to colleges via email. It is possible that a different username and identity are used for each of these online communications, each username constituting, in effect, a separate “personality.” These online personalities may be a part of one’s authentic self or a separate identity altogether. In The Times article, "Internet 'trolls' ignore social rules: Expert: Online disinhibition effect means many people feel invincible online," the anonymous author states, “This is your brain in cyberspace: while in warp-speed from forum to
The two positions of personal identity over-time consider whether we are ‘tracking persons’ or ‘human beings’. Through analysing Locke’s account of personal identity and his definition of a ‘person’, the first side of this argument will be explained. However in opposition to Locke’s theory, the second position that considers us as ‘human beings’ will also be assessed, as advocated by animalists such as Olson. In response to this examples of cases such as amnesia will also be taken into consideration and how Parfait’s psychological continuity theory resolves prior objections to Locke’s argument made by Butler and Reid. The conclusion reached will show support towards this new Lockean theory of personal identity due to psychological
People tend to get so caught up with technology they start to get separated from the real world. In the essay "Liking is for Cowards," Franzen discuss how people, including himself, get so attached to their technology. He also talks about how people on the internet are doing some many things to be likeable. They tend to put on a persona and go to extreme lengths just to be liked. Some even get so caught up in wanting to be liked, they begin to lose who they really are (145).
Through computer applications such as Second Life and Twitter, we create personas that we wish we could be. The Internet allows us to express the side of us that is too afraid to come out in real life because of social judgement.
I totally agree to the idea when people are online they tend to transform to a whole new PERSONALITY. I am one of those people who have a personality change virtually. On a personal approach I tend to be shy, and quiet. This shyness develop into fear; fear of being laughed, fear of embarrasing myself, and fear of not fitting in to others. On the other hand, going to social media transforms me into a happy-go-lucky guy. I engaged in conversations, socializing with others, and etc. My MINDFULNESS of how I act towards others becomes nonexistent. There are millions of people around the world who acts just like me. Chaos is created due to the attitude difference when having a personal interaction or through social media or "learned
Interacting with other people can difficult and at times even unpleasant, but at the end of the day it is a task everyone has to overcome, or not. In Alone Together Turtkle writes of how we have come to readily accept a more technological based world saying, “ Technology is seductive when what it offers meets our human vulnerabilities” (263 Turkle). Today technology allows its users to communicate with others without ever having to see their face via text or email, meeting the vulnerability of being awkward and boring during a conversation in real life. Yet, avoiding actual interaction with people diminishes a persons social intelligence, making a conversing with others all the more difficult as they can no longer rely on the controlled atmosphere of messaging system and have to deal with unexpected questions and topics. Moreover, in the same article Turtle discuses the younger generation aversion to human interaction, she write, “ Teenagers avoid making telephone calls, fearful that they ‘reveal too much’. They would rather text than talk”( Turtle 272). Technology provides a controlled environment in which one decides to what degree he or she would like to interact with other, but this is not how the real world works. One can text answers for a job interview or email the news of a sick relative, somethings have to be done in person. Accordingly, in Tough’s article social intelligence is defined as, “ the ability to recognize interpersonal dynamics and adapt quickly to different social situations”( Tough 2). Online users do not exhibit social intelligence, the online domain is posses no new social situations to adapt to, is something makes one uncomfortable or annoyed they can simply “x” out of a window or go to another website. Increased reliance on technology will hinder the development of character, especially social
To be an American is to have traits of freedom the thing that the founding fathers counted on is to have the will to speak freely and to have the will of religion in the constitution it say that every citizen should have life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. This impacts and brings everyone from different places to help create a society that is free. The founding fathers also counted for the people to speak for what is right. The reason is because this helps out on what the people want instead of the government wants this goes to show that the people matter and that is what makes a person happy and also makes a person feel like they have the pursuit to be happy.
There are numerous factors that either make up or restrain the self-identity of a person or an individual. Culture, in addition to family traditions, is one of the factors that affect the self-identity of an individual. When growing up, the environment around affect the personality, values, as well as, beliefs of an individual. The environment includes friends, family members, and the people that affect the life of an individual. So, if the environment is negative, then an individual will have low self esteem.
Over the course of my life I have had many life experiences which have made me who I am today. When I was in my middle childhood, most of my life revolved around playing and having fun. I did not have to put forth effort in hardly any area of my life or work hard in order to achieve specific goals. As time went on however, my own life experiences began to have an effect on me, and shape the person I am today. My life started to change the most during middle childhood when I was around the age of seven years old. At this point in my life, I had to adjust to several big changes.