My Gran
My gran was a kind and sweet women but admittedly stubborn, however it was probably her stubbornness that kept her going in life as she had overcome many battles throughout her long life. Many of which were painful mentally for us and physically for her, despite endless times the doctors said there was no chance of pulling through, somehow in the end my gran would prove the doctors wrong and they would call her the miracle women, looking back I see why, as a lot of the times we would hear "there's not much hope "to being told a week or so later it seems like she's on the mend to getting better and should have a good recovery. Thinking about it this is what probably made my grans passing harder for me reason being i wasn't too prepared for the time she would actually pass.
Unfortunately my gran couldn't keep her miracle going, because after all we are all human. On reflection despite the fact she maybe gone she has left me and my family with wonderful and beautiful long-lasting memories. She taught us how to stay strong, be there for the people you care about and don't take what people tell you so readily.
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With hindsight the most tragic thing...personally is that the amount of people who didn't get the chance to meet this woman. Sometimes looking back and remembering my gran is what keeps me going on the stormy days where you can't be bothered. When I think about her it always reminds me to work hard as you only have one life and there is one quote my gran used to say about achieving is "you can't make something of your life from sitting in a chair , you got to get up and workhand for success to be an opinion", Another trait my gran had, being wise with her words of wisdom and slight
Helping her remember little things, like turning off the lights before she left the house, or not letting her forget her keys. It made me feel responsible and in charge and gave me a sense of purpose. It led me to become mature in many aspects of my life. It led me to become more passionate for others. I began to see things differently, and see people differently. I was there almost every day, helping with groceries, dinner, and everyday tasks. .There right before my eyes my grandmother was slowly, and each day was not for sure, every memory, name was not a guarantee that the next day she would know it. Every day was like Russian roulette, you have your bet ; a hope that tomorrow will be a better day , but when you land on that black 17 , and she is worse , it feels as if your heart breaks into a million little pieces , each inscribed with a memory you shared together, and everything becoming nothing just like
The week when I was in Cherokee, North Carolina, my grandfather was hospitalized having a heart attack. I was shocked when my mother called my brother and I coming on the way back home that he had passed away. Then a week after my grandmother passed away. My grandmother, who has been sick for about four or five years, had lung cancer and had problems with her kidney’s. She always had a smile on her face no matter if she was in pain.
My grandma was a mother of three. She had my Aunt heather, Aunt Angie, and my mother. She raised my mother and Heather while going to college, which is a fight on its own, but to make it more difficult, she had hodgkins and had spent over an entire year fighting it in Iowa’s childrens hospital and held victory her senior year.. The chances of surviving hodgkins in the 60’s was around 75% and wasn’t the end for my Grandma, she lived to fight another day. Moving on in her life,She spent most of her time studying, she graduated high school on the top of her class, then going to college of hamilton for business. During that time, she had my mom and my Aunt Heather on the way.
My grandma had survived a hard life, and yet managed to raise four responsible, well-educated, and successful children. All this she did while working as a respected psychiatric nurse and a state mental health board member. Although she had had and was still overcoming trials in life, I always knew she would be there and cared about me and my life. As my brother and I grew older and were unable to visit my grandparents as often as we
Back in the days, my wonderful Grandmother died in 1980 and left a few things around. My Mother went to her house to find out what she left in her house. I wasn’t born then but my mom told me what happened we really miss our grandmother and how she made us laugh and cry at some times. When my grandmother was alive she used to tell us how slavery was back in the days. We used to actually cry when she told us that we couldn’t believe how they use to get treated back in the days .My grandmother was a helping kind lady that helped us when she could that was the only person that looked out for us. She was the best in the world I know everybody else in the world wish they still have they grandmother. Whenever we didn’t have anything to eat my grandmother would make us something
My grandmother never stops doing what she needs to do. She always stays focused on the things she needs to get done. My grandmother never gives up once she sets her mind to it. She never wants to give up because she thinks it would make her look weak. That’s okay though, because that’s apart of human nature and it’s alright if you need to give up for a while then
In October of 2016, my grandma passed away from a hard battle with cancer. My grandma was my rock, the person who always pushed me to be better, the person who was always encouraging me to keep going, and the person who inspired me the most. During the battle, I experienced a lot of adversity. Whether it was school or cross country meets, that feeling never seemed to go away.
Mimi told you straight up if she liked your new look or hated it. She said to my mom, "I like your new haircut! It looks a lot better than the old one you had!" Relatives were astonished, but mom shrugged, knowing that was just how Mimi was. My great-grandmother had been fighting cancer for years, and was kicking cancer's butt! She lived life to the fullest and at the ripe, old age of ninety-five she had a boyfriend (her husband had passed years before). In early July, she had a massive stroke and was put on hospice. She kept on fighting until July twentieth when she could not anymore. My great-grandmother's death showed me that even the people with the most fight and spirit can be taken away at whenever.
When November 11th came and I made it through the entire show run with her still alive, I thought it was a miracle. Four days later, my dad would pick me up from school to give me the news that she was gone. A week after that, we found out from my grandmother's nurse that my grandmother had lived two weeks longer than she was expected to. The same two weeks that my show was running.
After multiple emergency room visits with her and my dad, she was admitted just days after our car ride. By this point, my beautiful, rosy haired, blue eyed grandmother had such unbearable pain in and around her abdomen, that it was hard to look at her without feeling the pain she was feeling. Despite the excrucaiting pain of the bladder cancer was slowly making her weaker and weaker, she pushed on. My grandmother was the toughest person I knew and there had been numerous events where she continued to show me and my entire family just how strong she was. Although she was the strongest person I have ever known, she was very fragil and ended up having to come stay with my family and I on hospice care. And throughout my journey with her living with us, I realized just how much we need to cherish every moment with the people that we love. From the days counting down towards her death, I felt as if I had never had done enough with her and that I would do anything to be
My grandma was a very strong woman. She could get through anything that happened to her. She survived an abusive marriage and eventually went on to raise her seven children the best that anyone could alone. Even when she was elderly, she survived falling down a flight of stairs. She only ended up with a few bruises. But one day she got into a car accident and although it was a horrible accident she only ended up with a broken neck, which is surprising because she ran into a tree and totaled her car. We definitely thought she would not make it through this, but she did.
It was a Monday night; I remember it like it was yesterday. I had just completed my review of Office Administration in preparation for my final exams. As part of my leisure time, I decided to watch my favorite reality television show, “I love New York,” when the telephone rang. I immediately felt my stomach dropped. The feeling was similar to watching a horror movie reaching its climax. The intensity was swirling in my stomach as if it were the home for the butterflies. My hands began to sweat and I got very nervous. I could not figure out for the life of me why these feelings came around. I lay there on the couch, confused and still, while the rings continued. My dearest mother decided to answer this eerie phone call. As she
I will tell you a tale of a woman of great success. This is a woman that has inspired me to be something great one day and to never give up trying. Though she may be growing into her elderly years she has lived a very challenging, joyful, loving and successful life. She is a woman of great faith and character, she is my grandmother.
At just over five feet tall, she was the kind of woman that you saw on the street and knew to move out of her way. Her demeanor was strict, her hands tied with thick blue veins, crisscrossing over her thin, frail fingers.
Of course you always hear people talking about how great their grandmother or grandfather are, I too feel the same way about my grandmother. I see her as more than my grandmother, she’s a role mole, my best friend and also like a sister when I need her. She’s always been a loving and caring person. Not for only her friends and family, but also strangers. People she has never met a day in her life she would be willing to go give her last too. You don’t find to many people like her too often.