With fingers long and elegant, and nails always red, my mother’s hands once held the magic power to soothe my woes. As a child these hands wiped my tears and pulled me close enough to her to smell her motherly scent — a mixture of Nivea lotion and achiote, evidence that she had spent her morning in the kitchen. Years later, these same hands incited my tears.
In Ecuador, my mother was invincible, but upon our arrival to the United States she became a shell of what she once was. I had grown accustomed to seeing her youthful hands well manicured, but melancholy and hours of hard labor had silently taken over them in a matter of months. Blisters and dark spots invaded her smooth brown skin, while thick and stubborn blue and green veins crept up from the backs of her hands to the tips of her fingers.
Fatigue and two jobs had ruined who both my parents used to be, and I began to value the little time I had with my mother more than ever before. This little time could not make up for the time I spent alone, however, nor could it assuage
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on May 3, 2009, I woke to a soft and unfamiliar cry. Scared and confused, I put on my slippers and tiptoed to my parents’ room.There, in the moonlit darkness, I found my mother, the woman of iron, once again defeated. Phone by her side, fists clenched, curled up like a child, she sobbed uncontrollably. I did not need an explanation; I knew right away that my abuelita had passed away. I pulled my mother close to my chest and wiped away her tears. And for the first time in several years, I uttered the words le quiero mucho Mami (I love you, Mom). She looked up at me with her big, brown, tear-filled eyes, and whispered, y yo a tí (I do, too). The distance that had silently emerged between us since we left Ecuador was suddenly erased. I had become my mother’s protector, as she had once been for her mother. I held her callused hands between my own and realized that despite their smoothness, my hands were not much different from
The first time I met my little brother I was five years old sitting on a bed in Guatemala. My family decided that we wanted to add a new edition. When he was in Guatemala he was named Juan Carlos. We had to take two trips to Guatemala, one to visit my brother and one to then take him home. There was a long amount of time in between these trips. Once enough of the paperwork was done we were able to visit my baby brother.
After their major life changes, both my mom and Buck weren’t used to the new ways of life. For example, during Buck’s times of being a sled dog, Buck struggled to fight off bigger dogs and get used to sleeping out in the wild. My mother on the other hand, found it very hard to fit in all of her studying into her daily schedule. For my mom and buck to get familiar with their new way of life, they had to adapt and learn ways to facilitate life. Another struggle Buck and Rebecca faced was that they had to look after and care for their loved ones. Along Buck’s journey, he met a great new owner named John Thornton. who held Buck back from joining the wild. My mom had to multi-task by caring for her young kid and doing school work which made it harder to do the things she wanted to do. My mother Rebecca and buck both found it hard to do the things they wanted because of the love for someone. Buck and My mom thought of their new situations as challenging for various
The classic saying, “There’s always someone who has it worse than you” (Shaggy- Keepin’ it Real), didn’t come true to me until I had first-hand experience. As a child, I grew up in the lower middle class. So I wasn’t rich nor super poor. My mother came to the United States from El Salvador in the 1980’s. She has never taken my brother and me to her home country.
Would you say that life has any sense? Or Is there an answer for everything in life? Three years ago I was completely messed up about this. Gustavo Adolfo Parra Chassaigne that’s how my parents called me and I was born in Maracay a little city next to Venezuela’s capital, Caracas. I used to be the first student of all my high school, also one of the first in tennis of my state and everybody said that my family was “perfect”. So, What did happen to me?
It's significant to me because when I went with my family to Cartagena, I was 7 years old. it was the first time I was going on a trip outside of the United States. when we got to Cartagena I was amazed by how beautiful everything is, and I was shocked with how different it was from back home. The differences I saw sparked a curiosity in me, that I never knew existed. from that moment I fell in love with learning about different places around the world and the culture that comes with that place. the trip to Cartagena was also the first time I got to see some of my family members. I have always lived in Florida and only knew about the family members I had in South America through what my parents would say about them. When we arrived to South
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She grasped my hand to release my mind from the trance. I stroked my fingertips over the wrinkles that adorned my mother’s weathered hands: the past few months had aged her greatly.
I was born in Medellin, Colombia in 1984, in a loving and unconventional family. After my mother, Gloria, was discharged from the hospital, we went to live with my grandparents, Alicia and Arturo, and my uncles, Luis Carlos, the eternal bachelor of the family, and Gustavo, the divorced one. Shortly after my birth, my mother sealed my fate, when she decided to leave for the United States, as had most of the family. In particular, my Grandmother Alicia’s sisters and their daughters, my mother’s cousins, who had immigrated years before to the city of New Jersey, in search of a better life. Truthfully, my mother did not need to leave Medellin. She had an exceptional job in the same company that my grandfather worked as a CPA and was well off in life. When my mother left for New Jersey, I stayed behind with my grandparents and uncles, who raised me with love, but knowing that at any moment I will too, depart. Years passed and as with everything, life goes on. I had a typical life of a Colombian girl and spoke with my mother regularly. On those calls, she reminded me that one day I was to go to New Jersey. At the end of the eighties, my mother asked my father a signed permission to leave the
My earliest childhood memories of being read to was when I was 4 years old by my grandfather. This was back in Venezuela where I’m from. He used to read to me in Spanish, the news paper because he said we need to be informed of what was going on in the world and it was always the first thing he could find early in the morning to read and he always read while having breakfast. This are positive memories for me because they are the few memories I could remember about him. When I turned 5 years old , my mother and I came to live to united stated and didnt returned until I was 18 years old. He passed way back in 2002 and I didn’t get the chance to hug, kiss or say goodbye. Every time I pick up a news paper
My mother would start the mornings with a “Levantese que hay mucho que hacer”, in translation, “Wake up there is so much to do today”. Every day, the wakeup call was at 5:30 in the morning and it started with a list of chores. Occasionally, we would sleep until 7:30 in the morning on the weekends to more chores and whatever else was on the list. My mother was regimental and the “A” typical Latina mother, very old school. Not a day went by where my brother and me didn’t do chores and helped around the house. Lord forbit that she would have to repeat herself twice on our individual chores. She constantly reminded me that one day I would become a wife and would have to know how to take care of my family, “A man does not like a lazy wife and you would want to stay married to the same man you have exchanged vowels with”, she would say. Seeing that she was remarried two times already, I did not understand why she would expect it from me. None -the-less, I did what I was told and without any galivanting I accomplished every task assigned to me.
The plane touched down in Quito, the capital of Ecuador. Headaches and nausea had washed over me shortly after I departed from the pressurized cabin of the plane. Almost frantically, I searched for somewhere I could sit before the dizziness set in. Much of Ecuador is far, far above sea level, and because of this, my heart is not able to pump enough blood to my brain. Hence, the migraines and nausea. I was in the newly made Quito Airport for a transfer flight home, a whole week sooner than planned. I had been staying with my grandfather who lives in Ecuador, for two weeks. Most of that time was spent inside, since exertion dramatically increased the dangers of altitude sickness, which is what plagued me.
I see myself in my parents arms as a baby. I gaze up into their joyous eyes. Then I scream and scream for milk. The joyous look is gone and they look tired and sleep deprived. I cry and cry until I get my milk. Right as the bottle enters my mouth, the vision fades away.
She had little schooling, but she had run businesses. She had managed on her own, with a husband and sons, in a country that didn’t care for her or her culture, but only for their aggrandized version of it. Her experiences were rightful cause to be jaded and hard, and yet she saw brightness and she saw brightness in me. She saw the great things in life, she loved hard and appreciated the little things — us going for a walk together or just sitting in the sun on a warm day.