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Personal Note On The Foreclosure Crisis

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Foreclosure is a topic that is very near and dear to my heart. I must admit that it happened to me and the experience was life shattering. Like many first-time home buyers, I was ecstatic to have a home to raise my children in and to hobble up the stairs in once I reached a more mature age. However, I that dream fell apart after I lost my job as a manager and my husband left me. I was now stuck with a mortgage that I could not afford and I was paralyzed with fear. After failed attempts of finding a renter that would live full-time in my coastal town, I lost everything. I was overcome with shame. I moved as far away as I could from my beautiful home and resigned myself to a life of grief as my credit score plummeted into a seemingly bottomless pit. It have been five years since the foreclosure, and yet I still feel the absence in my heart of my family home. Though the experience has been traumatic, it has also been enlightening. I still yearn to own a home that I may one day grow old in, and hopefully pass down to my son. I know that millions of other Americans have experienced a similar hardship and are undergoing the same emptiness and grief that comes from losing a home. The light at the end of all this is that home ownership is possible again. I personally have been given a myriad of messages as to when I can buy a home again. Some have told me that I can buy a home again in as little as two years through a VA loan, others have said I must wait seven for another loan.

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