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Pre-K Observation

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Last night I went to a Pre-k graduation for my grandson. I decided that would be a great place to observe parenting styles. Little did I know that I would be observing parenting styles of the older children instead of the 4-5 year olds. There was a family standing next to us during the ceremony and after. I noticed a 10-12 year old boy talking to a man, maybe dad, maybe mom’s friend? The two of them were communicating back and forth fairly well. There was a little girl in the graduation class that was very out spoken and she was cute, for a little while. My granddaughter made a few cute remarks about the little girl and the lady beside us did too. So Chloe, my granddaughter, ask the lady if that was her daughter. She relied, no, I couldn’t …show more content…

When children are securely attached to their parents while they are young they appear to have the best outcomes compared to those that are not (152). I really do not think parents understand the importance of this concept. It was obvious to see that the mom did not have a relationship with the young man. For her to say that “she could not get that lucky” to have the little outspoken girl was degrading to the young man and his little brother. I realize there are times when as parents we are stressed out and say things we do not really mean and perhaps she was at the end of her ropes that day, but it appeared to be a norm by her actions and the young man’s actions.
As I watched the young man I tried to relate it to my childhood days and how I was raised. My mom never treated me that way and I do not feel like I was an embarrassment to them; however I do not recall everything I have done as a child. My dad was more that type of parent than my mom. I have to say things are different today with how children are raised. I had my mom and dad and I know today that is almost rare. Even with my grandchildren the two older have their dad and a stepdad. I do not know what they go through in that case. I am sure it changes things for

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