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Relationships In William Faulkner's As I Lay Dying

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As I Lay Dying, a novel written by William Faulkner, describes the journey that the Bundren family makes to bury their mother. Along the trip Mrs. Bundren passes away and leaves behind her 5 kids and husband. The kids all have their own serious issues, and their father, Anse, is too self absorbed to care. The children transport their mother, and the hatred they have towards one another builds up and becomes exposed. Throughout the novel, Faulkner asserts that families need an understanding of love in order to form successful relationships and meaningful bonds. Lacking in compassion, Anse fails his offspring and provides them with no guidance or support during their long adventure. Stealing from his children, Anse attempts to “‘swap [Jewel’s] …show more content…

Illegitimate child, Jewel has a different father than the rest of his siblings and Darl believes that “[he] cannot love [his] mother because [he has] no mother. Jewel’s mother is a horse” (Faulkner 95). Both Darl and Jewel have the same mother, but because Addie cheated and Darl is full of anger, he blames Jewel, the product of the affair. Not only does this worsen their relationship, but it makes it difficult for them to properly grieve. Faulkner defends the idea that placing blame on others within your family will only complicate situations more and restrict the ability for connections to flourish. While Dewey Dell, the only daughter, does not blame Darl for knowing about her pregnancy, but she does despise him for having knowledge of it and once said she had thoughts where “[she] killed Darl” (Faulkner 121). Struggling to feel a sense of belonging, Dewey Dell looks for anyone to be the victim of her anger and embarrassment. She resents her brother and breaks a possible alliance with him; meanwhile, Faulkner uses this situation to point out that one must take responsibility when one does something wrong in order for love to shine through the tough moments in life. Falling apart and little hope left, the Bundren family travels together and only weakens their connections with one another. Attaining family love and appreciation,Faulkner alleges, can only occur when the members

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