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Riding The Bus With My Sister By Beth Simon

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In the book Riding the Bus with My Sister by Rachel Simon, she explains her travels with her sister Beth. After recognizing that the two sisters have grown apart, Rachel promises Bath that she will ride the buses with her for a year. Beth Simon has intellectual disabilities, but with a great deal of studying and practicing she has mastered riding the bus and takes Rachel with her throughout her travels to everywhere and nowhere in the Pennsylvania city in which she lives. Whether Beth is going to an appointment or just riding the bus for something to do, she interacts with many people throughout her day. Some of those that she interacts with are kind, some are not, and this includes the other bus riders as well as the bus drivers. While the …show more content…

By Beth having a disability, this actually gives her a great deal of freedom in her occupations. For example, her main occupation is riding the bus all day almost every day. If Beth did not have a disability, she would not receive a check each month from the government to give her a “salary”. Even though Beth does not want to have a job, she would have to get one to best support herself if she did not receive this money. If she gets a job, this check would stop, so it can be compared to unemployment, however, at least today, these checks amount to more than unemployment. The way that people in the community react to Beth generally occurs one of two ways: as a person who is unable and should be supported or an annoyance. This response of the community to Beth’s disability also allows her to do as she wants. Furthermore, as one of the common difficulties with her disability, is that she has a hard time with adaptive behaviors, such as social skills, which limits the amount of communication that people in the community have with her. Many of the individuals that ride the bus do not always treat Beth kindly, and this can also be due to the fact that she is not always nice either. For example, when Rachel is talking to Beth about whether Rachel should stay with her or not, Beth says yes. However, only because Beth needs someone to drive her to …show more content…

From a young age, Rachel’s mother made Beth and taking care of her Rachel’s responsibility. This was hard for Rachel which was why it was hard for her to regain this role in Beth’s life. In the beginning of their journey together, Rachel found herself getting very frustrated by Beth’s behavior and words. Again, Beth’s disability makes adaptive behaviors hard for her, which also makes her very stubborn and not a pristine communicator. Of one of many examples of situations like this, Rachel was discussing with Beth how she wished that Beth would eat healthier. First, Beth did not see the meaning in this occupation that Rachel finds very meaningful which caused friction, but also that Beth did not nicely tell Rachel that she was not interested. Rachel then bought some healthier food anyway, even though Beth said that “[She] won’t cook it”. When Rachel got back to Beth’s apartment and tried to cook the food she bought on the stove, the stove did not work and Rachel wondered what Beth had not shared this with her. Then again, Beth responded that she said she would not cook the food, which was true, but Rachel thought it was simply that Beth was too stubborn. Lastly, a great deal of friction occurs between these women because Rachel does not understand Beth’s disability. Rachel very much distanced herself from Beth after having to take care of her throughout her

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