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Romeo And Juliet Gender Roles

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Gender Roles In Romeo and Juliet In William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, gender plays a significant role for central characters experiencing struggle trying to fit their gender roles given to them by the society in Verona. The struggle of how the two main characters, Romeo and Juliet interact with society is clearly related to their gender. For example, Romeo is seen as unmanly and effeminate by his peers, whereas Juliet has no privilege having all her decisions on love and marriage made forcibly for the better of the Capulet family. Romeo struggles with the display of his emotions separating him from his expected gender role and Juliet also struggles with family members specifically her father who will not let her make her own decisions because she is simply a girl. Romeo does not live to his specific gender role in the city of Verona and by expressing his so called “unmanly” emotions and feelings he endures hardship. Romeo is vexed in act 1 scene i while conversing with Benvolio about the trouble he has gone through trying to get over Rosaline who does not share his feeling of love for her: “Be raid by me, forget to think of her’ ‘O teach me how I should forget to think’ ‘ By giving liberty unto thine eyes, examine other beauties” (l 219-222). Romeo struggles with Benvolio's harsh advice, telling Romeo to look for other women because Romeo still loves Rosaline and he wants to show his true feelings of rejection. Romeo later experiences more struggle with the violence involved in Verona, witnessing the Capulet Tybalt slay his good friend Mercutio. Romeo reflects to himself on how his emotions and feelings shared with Juliet made him effeminate: “ O sweet Juliet, thy beauty hath made me effeminate, and in my temper softened valour’s steel!” (act 3 scene i l 109-111). Romeo even realizes that he has started to behave in an unfitting manner than expected of him by the society of Verona when he sees violence as a terrible event which is what the men of the society depict as their pastime and the normal. In another instance of Romeo’s restlessness, specifically over Juliet his newly-wed wife, Romeo is troubled after becoming exiled from the city of Verona and encountering Nurse and Friar Lawrence. The

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