Andrew Hickey
English 102
February 8, 2012
Response to “Say Yes”
Before I started my reader-response paper, I read an article by Steven Lynn to help me know the right approach to a reader-response. There is two ways that I can approach this “by describing how readers should respond to the text or by giving the critics’ own personal response or by giving the critic’s own personal response.” I found this to really help me understand the concept of a reader-response paper. I decided to mostly give my own personal response but react on how some other readers might react.
I looked at the title and author to form a perspective on what to look for. “Say Yes” seems to be a desired answer from some person. This could be a threat given by
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Foreigners and blacks both have different cultures and tendencies, so what is the difference? Their skin color, but I still believe the husband isn’t racist. This leads me to believe the appearance of someone is more important to the husband.
In this part of the story, I found out the wife’s name: Ann. She cuts her hand and the husband immediately reacts by helping his wife by getting a band aid. He makes sure she is alright and comforts her. It seemed to me that this was some kind of peace offering to drop the conversation that his wife was so upset about. At this part of the story, I sided with the husband because of how considerate he is to his wife. He then let his wife go and relax while he finished the house chores. The wife, obviously wanting to finish the conversation, didn’t accept the peace offering. She made it quite clear when the first thing she asked was “so you wouldn’t have married me if I’d been black?” The husband becomes frustrated by the repeated topic and snaps back. This reveals the stubbornness of the wife and almost fake image of the husband. The husband seems to put on an act that he cares for his wife and does chores around the house, but does he truly care and understand his wife’s true self?
The story takes a huge turn as the unlikely event of the wife agreeing with the husband occurs. She agrees with the statement of how “If you were black you wouldn’t be you”. The husband knows he is right but the wife’s stubbornness might
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There was no clear understanding of each other. Each acted on their own perception and did not talk out to each other. John worked all day and Ann was feeling lonely in the marriage. She either did not talk to her husband. She goes on an adventure by sleeping with his neighbor on john family bed where he finds them.
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Moving from a childlike bliss to an awakening of the world's prejudice, the author makes the words take on flesh. The story is made alive as she breathes life into a time that is unpleasant yet not void of hope. "The hush-hush magic time of frills and gifts and congratulations" disappeared when they were told the cold hard `truth' of their fate that some white man had already decided for them.
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A murder crime happened during her high school time. There is news about a black boy dead for whistling at a young white woman. It also makes Anne to question the difference between black and
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In Russel Banks “Black Man and White Woman in a Dark Green Rowboat” The author implies that dealing with an unexpected pregnancy may be a difficult and uncomfortable situation. This story discusses a couple that is dealing with a unique circumstance and they have to make a decision. As a reader, you won’t want to miss the tension of this interracial couple as they battle against the pressure of society. I will be discussing symbolism as well as setting throughout this entire essay. In the first section I will be addressing the surroundings; establish a foundation , and illuminate some background on this story. The next part of my essay will be focusing on the conflict and how the setting demonstrates the tension between the main characters. The final section will focus on the resolution, how the lack of change in the setting is symbolic, and has a deeper meaning.
Marriage is a full-time job on its own and people should communicate with each other in order to have a healthy marriage for them to love and appreciate each other so they can grow old together. Most of us know by now that the fairy tale happily ever after stories are full of holes. Carver emphasizes that when there is no communication in the marriage the wife starts to feel unhappy and frustrated with him. The wife’s attitude with her husband suggests that the marriage doesn’t seem to be working for her. Carver states, “My wife finally took her eyes off the blind man and looked at me. I had the feeling she didn’t like what she saw. I shrugged (38). ” There was unhappiness in the marriage and the narrator and his wife didn’t seem to get along. In other words the
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Attitude: Writing has never been my thing, at least when it comes to essays and research papers. It can take me awhile to get my ideas flowing. I’m very excited to complete this course so I can become a better writer. Although I often don’t like writing research papers or essays, I don’t feel that any personal feelings towards writing will have any negative effects on my quality of work. I’m looking forward to what this course has to teach me.
The essay question: Using reader-response theory and the quote by Bob Cameron, discuss how effectively Mitch Albom, author of Tuesdays with Morrie, uses plot and story, character development, point of view, theme, and symbols to convey his mesage. Include your personal thoughts and views, as well as textual references, to support your opinions.
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