SITUATION:
This past summer I was more happy and content with my life then I ever have been before. This was the last summer that I would be able to share with my best friends. I started the summer in a low, I had just broken up with my long-term boyfriend and I needed to be with my girlfriends. Instead of wallowing out the summer, they made it the best time of my life. My friend’s names are Kaitlyn and Siobhan. This would be their last summer as kids before they graduated from College and became “real adults” and began their careers. The time we spent together was by far, the most exciting, fun, and adventurous time of my life. We had a daily routine where we would all text in our Group Message and find out who was working when.
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DISENGAGEMENT:
Physically I was separated from the two people I had become so attached to the entire summer. School and Volleyball separated us and at first I thought that it was just temporary. Every weekend I would be playing in volleyball tournaments. I would end up staying in the city to go out with my school friends. I was so wrapped up in school and my team that I didn’t realize how much space had separated us. When volleyball ended in November, I suddenly had much more time on my hands then I was used to. Which is when I started noticing that whenever I asked Siobhan or Kaitlyn to hangout, they busy too.
It was hard for me to accept that because I was no longer commuting every day to Boston that just because I had more time didn’t mean that they did as well. In Transitions, William Bridges says “. . . it is very difficult for a member of it to imagine an alternative way of life, and an alternative identity.” (113) This quote resonated with me because that’s exactly how I felt when I realized that things were different with my friends. We had drifted apart and I was struggling to see how I would be able to be myself without being emotionally dependent on my friends.
DISMANTLING:
It was a very confusing time for me. I felt like no one seemed to have any interest in spending time with me anymore. I was asking myself, why don’t my friends want to hang out with me? How could
In life, there are many times where an individual may feel alone. Personally, this past week can attest to that notion. Moving into a college dorm, saying goodbye to my loved ones, and taking on a new chapter in my life, have all been accompanied by a new set of emotions that I have never felt before: homesickness, freedom, peer-pressure. However, looking around everyone seems happy, and it feels as if I am trapped in a space that no one else appears to be in. But, internally they may be battling the same struggles that I am. That is what can be drawn from “The Wisdom of Sociology: Sam Richards at TedxLacador,” the idea that behind the facade, our personal struggles are all connected.
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In school I always had great group of friends we all keep one another in line. But it was my senior year and I had so many great plans of how it will turn out. So the beginning my school year was great until a week before thanksgiving I went on a trip to Disney World with my
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To me, I was just a helpless little 7-year-old that they had ripped me away from his friends, family, home and life in Costa Rica, a relatively unrecognizable, spanish-speaking country in Central America, and moved to this rural, musty little town in the middle of nowhere, Texas in who cares, USA. We had had this same overly-emotional conversation 2 dozen times before-or that’s what it seemed like at least-but it was this 25th time that convinced me that if I didn’t choose to adapt to my new environment by becoming more outgoing and extroverted then I would end up becoming some outlandish, depression isolationist who was not useful to any aspect of society, and that thought, to this day, is the most terrifying thing I have ever
I wasn’t very happy with that considering that meant losing my best friend. I didn’t want to see her hurting anymore though so I sucked it up and put a smile on my face. Although her house is only 33 minutes away from mine, it was still really difficult to plan things. She had joined their marching band and was really involved with her family and spent a lot of time with them. We did find time to hang out during the summer but it wasn’t often. The start of freshman year was really hard, I didn’t know what to do. All my friends has bestfriends at the same school and so i always got left out, it’s still the same way this year. Formal, homecoming, sadies, aloha bash, gym night, i was always the one who didn’t have a friend to go with. I’ve definitely improved at finding new friends, but Emerson will always be my best friend.
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I’ve been in school for 13 years of my life ,i grew up with most of the same kids; We were a huge family almost, everyone always looked out for eachother. I was participating in a lot activities. Since the beginning of freshman year, I participated 3 years of color guard, i met new people with the same interest as me. Almost every friday we had a football game and Saturday's was our competition days; we all bonded as a section when we all got ready and did each others makeup. Then,