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Social Norms In Douglas Coupland's All Families

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Cosmopolitanism can be described as the formation of a community amongst people with similar social norms, notable afflictions, or cultural expressions, despite varied geographical locations (Brown). These groups of people can communicate through online chatrooms, phone calls, letter-writing, and meeting in person. Douglas Coupland's All Families are Psychotic, depicts this phenomenon through the collective bonding of Janet, Wade, and presumably Ted, who are infected with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), despite their vastly different ways of life and places of residence. Janet, the Drummond family mother, finds it difficult to stay connected to all her children, however, getting AIDS allows her to strengthen those bonds in addition …show more content…

Online chatrooms and on her personal email are the only places where Janet can meet with people and avoid having them be instantly scared by her sad and diseased appearance, or the “taint of Probably Never Being Loved by Anyone New Ever Again” (Coupland 123). However, Janet uses the internet to feel confident as they do not get the opportunity to assume how or why she contracted HIV. Rather, they can get to know the real Janet, for who she is on the inside, and she can tell them her story so that they know the truth of how she contracted the disease. Her disease gives Janet an opportunity to make amends with her ex-husband and estranged son, and allows her to eventually find relationships with people whom she loves and cares …show more content…

He finds knowing that he has the disease to be a relief, as it gives him a way to try to reconcile and reconnect with his son, Wade. Ted describes the community of HIV patients, saying, “This HIV thing, now that I think about it, is almost like a relief — it’s like we’re a part of a big death club” (Coupland 180). This quotation illustrates cosmopolitanism through the connection between people with the same disease. Ted and Wade have many skirmishes throughout their lives, however, getting AIDS is something that they have in common. It gives them something to talk about as they are so different, in terms of their ideals and methodology in the way they live their lives. In addition, Coupland uses this quotation to show the juxtaposition between Ted’s static personality at the beginning of the novel, and his change into a dynamic character towards the end of the novel. In the beginning, Ted has no interest in changing his personality to restore relations with Wade. However, by this point in the novel, Ted has begun to realize that reconciliation with Wade is necessary as these skirmishes have gone on too long. His diagnosis is a relief as Ted finds common ground to begin resolving his issues with Wade. The article, “Alienations,” by Andrew Lesk, analyzes Coupland’s comment on the

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