Every day I find this class interesting no week passes without some interesting and educative readings. After reading “I’m Not Your Pretty Lotus Flower”, that is something which happens all the time. And I do agree it’s not a good thing to stereotype people according to their culture, and from some history. The world has changed and it’s moving fast, women have become powerful and are not the same way they used to be some generations back. It’s a common thing to hear men discussing about females and the fetishes they have on them. It’s true that there are men with the “yellow fever syndrome”, but we should not judge all men as same. There are men who will tell you (an Asian lady) all the things that the writer says, but they might be true, …show more content…
I know people who will befriend you for the sake of being cool, or the guy who has colored friends or vice versa. But we all need to be aware of this kind of friends and get rid of them. When you entertain them, you will be the one to blame not them, because somebody cannot force you to be their friend. All the writer is saying is true, again there are nice people and who might be saying stuff to you and you overthink and misjudge them. I have Asian friends, white friends, black friends who always tell me I speak “too proper English”, (as the writer puts it) and I don’t take it offensively or overthink and over analyze it, because I know they are being genuine and they are saying the truth, and I always tell them “you guys need to adopt the British education system which I went through”. I have a white friend from Boston and we always make fun of Boston English, and he doesn’t take offense he laughs at it and even talk with a deeper Boston accent. I think some of the things that bring all this commotions is the way media portray things and how we are influenced by them, if we start taking everything people tell us and put them under the “microscope” I am sure that’s what brings even a bigger divide among the different races and …show more content…
If the holy books talk about loving others, then why are people hating each other so much? What has really changed about religion these days that is different from back in the years?” We can ask ourselves millions of questions and we can find answers. The author could have done better than putting religion in it, she could have talked about women in general (which she did on the last paragraph) not caring about what religion they are from should support each other and stand up for one objective. The author talking proudly about her new found religion may not go well with other females who are from a different religion, it sounds like she is despising or looking down at
In the world of film, there is usually a stereotypical role for each gender. For example, the man is usually portrayed as the hero and the woman is in some sort of distress and needs to be saved. Women in movies are generally shown as weak and needing a man to survive. For example, in the Disney movie “Cinderella”, Cinderella lives a horrible and unhappy life until she meets Prince Charming. When Prince Charming rescues Cinderella, they fall in love, she becomes happy, and they live happily ever after. There are a few movies out there, though, which show the opposite. Both “She Done Him Wrong” and “Scarlet Street” are films that portray the main female characters, Lady Lou and Kitty March, as strong and independent women, both acting how
“Our society tends to regard as a sickness any mode of thought or behavior that is inconvenient for the system, and this is plausible because when an individual doesn't fit into the system it causes pain to the individual as well as problems for the system; thus the manipulation of an individual to adjust him to the system is seen as a cure for a sickness and therefore as good.” This quote provides a lucent and focused direction to the prevalent predicaments of language discrimination. Unfair treatment, due to the way or type of style used while speaking can be seen in most everyday cases. The comparison between the book “Beyond Ebonics: Linguistic Pride and Racial Prejudice” by John Baugh and the continuously transpiring, real life event of
No matter where in the world you may find yourself, you almost certainly are always going to be judged or stereotyped. Being judged and stereotyped by people has been around for a while and will probably never change. In the essays “Size 6: The Western Women’s Harem” by Fatema Mernissi and “Mother Tongue” by Amy Tan, both women share their stories about being stereotyped and judged. Both Mernissi and Tan use the nonfiction elements of characterization, as well as point of view. Although both Mernissi’s and Tan’s essays have a relatively similar theme, their situations are completely different.
As I explained, there is more going on here than just harmless guidance in "Lessons for Women". Ban Zhao was a woman who embraced the sexism and strict gender roles in ancient China, she wrote for and taught women how to be like her in this way, her style and perspective were proved this, and so was her word choice, intent, and audience. In conclusion, sexism from before still leaks into today, and prejudice can come from anyone, no matter who they are, and this is clear in "Lessons for Women" by Ban
This class has brought a lot of change to my views on the seemingly everlasting prevalence of sexism in America. Before taking women and writing this semester I had not realized how the stereotypes surrounding masculine identity have taken hold of much of the Greek life on college campuses, male-dominated/labor intensive jobs, as well as influencing a significant portion of the mainstream advertising and media that my peers and I consume on a daily basis. The readings that accompanied the course were clear, informative, and provided me with more insight to the challenges and inequality that women have had to confront in the past and continue to face in the present. This class taught me many things about the current
In today’s society, men and women are confronted with gender stereotypes daily. In the texts Ten Things I Hate about You, The Big Bang Theory, I’m Glad I’m a Boy! I’m Glad I’m a Girl! By Whitney Darrow and ‘Stupid Girls’ by Pink, the roles of men and women are perceived in different ways. Some characters in each text challenge the typical stereotype whilst others accept it.
The portrayal of many stereotypes in a cliche set of fake, made up, pageant girls within Libba Bray’s novel, Beauty Queens, surprisingly moves away from this idea of satire when looking at the bare bones of the storyline. It’s a simple story of women, moving past the patriarchy they’ve been raised where beauty is everything, growing into who they truly are and celebrating their differences as humans, all while surviving being stranded on an island.
It was unbelievable to know that women were seen as nothing more than servants or slaves. Being a woman it was heart wrenching to read what most of these women had to go through just to satisfy a man. However, not every woman from the past was treated like a slaves or a servant, but in addition these women had no rights to begin with. Women were to remain at home where they were more easily controlled, and if a women were to attend to the outside world that caused fear and tension to the patriarchy world. Furthermore, yet it might not be as vivid as before, but sexism and discrimination against women still exist today. Although, humanity is progressing when it comes to being sexist, it is still carried on in most religious
God tells us to love each other, regardless of race, gender, orientation, or social standard. We all wish that this was the case, but it’s not. Maybe one day, it will be.
Like race, gender can be used by a sexist society to throw up a barrier to women's development and negatively affect their learning experiences. In a culture where the default human is seen as a White male, the model for individual human development has been structured around White, male life experiences. As a result, when compared to these androcentric models of development, women are often seen as lacking. Race, gender, and class, in addition to other characteristics such as geographical location, ability/disability status, and religious backgrounds affect everyone not only in our development, but also in how we experience educational environments and our learning process. Because of racism and sexism, certain learners may feel that they
Racial and gender stereotypes are vague assumptions that are generally negative in the novel, Forbidden by Beverly Jenkins. They are false beliefs abstracted by judgmental people based on a person’s gender or ethnicity. Each person has their respective thoughts, ambitions and passions despite their gender or race. These stereotypes are ignorant and do not define every single person. Most people realize that stereotypes are inaccurate, however they continue to make presumptions based on ethnicity or gender. The author of Forbidden, challenges racial and gender stereotypes by explaining how they are only crude generalizations which cause disruptions in society because of people’s belief that as long as they exist that they must follow them.
When I first enrolled in this class, I never thought I would get anything out of it besides the knowledge, which I found to be completely interesting. But now I can honestly say that this is probably one of the most useful classes I could have possibly taken in college. We live in times where people are very exclusive and frightened of what they do not know. It is in times like this when those who possess knowledge must do everything in their power to be as inclusive and accepting as possible. This class also showed me that we cannot categorize things as “normal” or not. Instead, we should look through the beholder’ eyes and try to empathize in full measure.
After visiting the Framing Beauty: Intimate Visions exhibition, my knowledge and understanding of the basics of gender studies has broadened tremendously. Many key terms like: mythical norm, privilege, oppression, and institutions were displayed in a way that required critical thinking skills. To see these concepts put on a canvas in front of me really improved my understanding of the terms.
Throughout history and today, we women are constant victims of stereotyping from our society. Certain “rules” have to be followed and certain “ideal” women images have to be kept. We are raised in a way to fill certain position where the society wants us to be and as a result, the opportunities are always limited for us and ideas of our importance in the society are diminishing. Even though women gained some independence, where women can work and take various position in society, the society’s idea of typical role of women never seem to change.
Religion is a major cornerstone of human identity and culture. Anywhere you look on earth where there are people, there is a religion or set of beliefs that those people follow. Many times, the teaching of these Religions can be twisted and manipulated to justify gender bias. The Simple truth is people are treated very differently based on their Gender by followers of two of the most popular religions in the world: Islam and Judaism. I am going to examine some ways the teaching of these two major religions are used to oppress, abuse, and differentiate women.