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Stereotypes In 'I' M Not Your Pretty Lotus Flower

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Every day I find this class interesting no week passes without some interesting and educative readings. After reading “I’m Not Your Pretty Lotus Flower”, that is something which happens all the time. And I do agree it’s not a good thing to stereotype people according to their culture, and from some history. The world has changed and it’s moving fast, women have become powerful and are not the same way they used to be some generations back. It’s a common thing to hear men discussing about females and the fetishes they have on them. It’s true that there are men with the “yellow fever syndrome”, but we should not judge all men as same. There are men who will tell you (an Asian lady) all the things that the writer says, but they might be true, …show more content…

I know people who will befriend you for the sake of being cool, or the guy who has colored friends or vice versa. But we all need to be aware of this kind of friends and get rid of them. When you entertain them, you will be the one to blame not them, because somebody cannot force you to be their friend. All the writer is saying is true, again there are nice people and who might be saying stuff to you and you overthink and misjudge them. I have Asian friends, white friends, black friends who always tell me I speak “too proper English”, (as the writer puts it) and I don’t take it offensively or overthink and over analyze it, because I know they are being genuine and they are saying the truth, and I always tell them “you guys need to adopt the British education system which I went through”. I have a white friend from Boston and we always make fun of Boston English, and he doesn’t take offense he laughs at it and even talk with a deeper Boston accent. I think some of the things that bring all this commotions is the way media portray things and how we are influenced by them, if we start taking everything people tell us and put them under the “microscope” I am sure that’s what brings even a bigger divide among the different races and …show more content…

If the holy books talk about loving others, then why are people hating each other so much? What has really changed about religion these days that is different from back in the years?” We can ask ourselves millions of questions and we can find answers. The author could have done better than putting religion in it, she could have talked about women in general (which she did on the last paragraph) not caring about what religion they are from should support each other and stand up for one objective. The author talking proudly about her new found religion may not go well with other females who are from a different religion, it sounds like she is despising or looking down at

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