Jared, I greatly enjoyed reading your experiences with conflict in the military. Conflict is seemingly inevitable when there are many individuals spending large periods of time together (Fischer, 2009). There are times when conflict can be constructive and helpful by generating new ideas or solutions (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 333). However, the majority of conflict is unhelpful to the organization and can be very costly (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 330). It distracts employees from their tasks and generally decreases productivity. It is not unusual for managers to try to ignore conflict and hope that it will simply go away (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 335). Ignoring the conflict is not effective and organizations have begun to realize …show more content…
350). Managers that have an integrating style typically approach the conflict as a problem to be solved (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 350). Some managers will try to facilitate a compromise (Kinickiand Fugate, 2016, p. 350). Other managers tend to try to smooth things over or completely avoid the problem (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 350). In some cases, managers simply use their position to force compliance (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 350). Some styles obviously work better than others and are more helpful in an organization. It is understandable why conflict makes some managers uncomfortable. However, conflict must be effectively handled or it can be costly for an organization. References Anderson, A. (2015). Workplace conflict. AJN, American Journal of Nursing, 115(8), 13-13. doi:10.1097/01.NAJ.0000470384.95028.04 Fischer, K. (2009) Worldview and OB [Power Point Slides]. Retrieved from Lecture NotesOnlineSite:https://learn.liberty.edu/bbcswebdav/courses/BMAL500_C01_201720/BUSI500_LUO_8WK_DEV_ImportedContent_20110311033412/BUSI500_LUO_8WK_MASTER_ImportedContent_20110218040324/Course%20Content/Module/Week%206%20—%20Leadership%20and%20Power/Reading%20%26%20Study/Lesson%207/7-Power_Conflict_Negotiation/index.html Kinicki, A., & Fugate, M. (2016). Organizational behavior: A practical, problem-solving approach plus Connect. …show more content…
One aspect of decision-making that can be very difficult is sticking to ethical guidelines. Managers who are unsure of what action to take might do well to create a decision-making tree to help them (Kinicki and Fugate, 2016, p. 387). Maybe the decision seems to be, or feels like, a gray area. The most important set of tools, and the most powerful, that a manager and Christ follower can use is prayer and scripture. Repeatedly, believers are reminded of the wonderful God we serve who wants nothing more than to guide us. The one who has a plan for us, according to Jeremiah 29:11. The one who asks us to lean on him for understanding in Proverbs 3:5-6. The God, who we are told in Philippians 4:6-7, that wishes to give us peace. And, according to James 1:5, the God who can grant us the wisdom to make wise choices. Christ followers can take heart in all of
There are five conflict-handling styles: Forcing Style, Collaborating Style, Compromising Style, Avoiding Style and Accommodating Style. The compromising style “refers to behaviors at an intermediate level of cooperation and assertiveness. (Hellriegel, Slocum pg. 392) ” The person using is style tries to meet a goal by give-and-take. The accommodating style “refers to cooperative and unassertive behavior. (Hellriegel, Slocum pg. 393) ” The person using this style tries to accomplish a goal by using unselfish acts that will promote cooperation in others by complying with their wishes. The collaborating style “refers to high levels of cooperative and assertive behavior. (Hellriegel, Slocum pg. 391) ” The person using this style is using a win-win approach to working with others and handling conflict. When the CEO of General Hospital, Mike Hammer first attempted to control physician-driven cost he used the collaborating style by trying to convince the Director of
Whether you work for a manufacturing facility or the health care system, conflict is unavoidable. As a manager, you must learn to deal with conflict in the workplace. In this paper I will describe the different styles of conflict management. I will also discuss my preferred conflict management style with examples of its use. Lastly, I will describe a situation at work and how a conflict management strategy could have improved that situation.
Conflict is something that some people can't handle it.how people best respond to conflict'i am Malala'' she responded to conflict by trying to make a difference in peoples lives when things were not ate their best she really tried to make a difference in the world not with her hands but with the most important thing in the world her voice she spoke out to people who gave up in the world to try and them to rise up and also speak what they think is right and what needs to change if they want the people to remain neutral,to all that they are doing wrong to all the people. the Taliban hated how malala spoke out and tried to gain people's trust but the Taliban wanted the people to remain scared and helpless because if all the people spoke
In a dispute, it's often easier to describe how others respond then to how we respond. Each of us has a predominant conflict style that we use to meet our own needs. By examining conflict styles and the consequences of those behaviors, we can gain a better understanding of the impact that our personal conflict style has on other people. With a better understanding, you then can make a conscious choice on how to respond to others in a conflict situation to help reduce work conflict and stress.
Personal experience regarding organizational conflict as a result of leadership will act as the example for this paper. As mentioned in the previous paragraph, workplace conflict as a result of leadership tends to occur when new staff, or staff persons in new more authoritative positions, use management styles different from their predecessors. For my example, a new property manager was hired at a building where I served in management for a different, though interrelated department.
Family violence, I believe can mean different things to different people. Based on what I read, family violence is an act of physical abuse, which causes injuries between members who are related somehow. The violence can also be psychological and mental. There has been great debate however on what constitutes family. It does not necessarily mean related by marriage or blood. It can also be between partners of any kind. I feel the term should be more classified as relationship or intimate as the book states. Violence is to give a broader variance to the subject. The most accurate and reliable way to measure family violence is by using the Conflict Tactic Scale (CTS). This method measures 3 variables: use of rational discussion and agreement, use of verbal/nonverbal expressions of hostility, and use of physical force or violence. The CTS is deemed to be more reliable due to the sampling procedure, the expansive numbers The CTS is deemed to be more reliable due to the sampling procedure, the expansive number of respondents and the validity of the CTS as a measuring device. The theory that offers the most hope of understanding family violence in my opinion is the social learning
“There are two distinct types of conflict: conflict that is functional and can build stronger teams, processes, and working relationships, and dysfunctional conflict can destroy the cohesion of an agency” (Reynolds, 2014, para. 3) There comes a time when the company must pull everyone together, bring them back to the beginning, and restart the process of getting things done (Reynolds, 2014). When the level of conflict starts to threaten the cooperation of all members, it is time for the command staff to including human resources to gather everyone and have them refocus on the mission at
Conflict is a fact of life - for individuals, organizations, and societies. The costs of conflict are well-documented - high turnover, grievances and lawsuits, absenteeism, divorce, dysfunctional families, prejudice, fear. What many people don't realize is that well-managed conflict can actually be a force for positive change.
There are four distinct conflict styles which are the levels of assertiveness and cooperativeness that are employed by a person in a conflict situation. Everyone has their own individual conflict style; my own style tends to be accommodating. This means that I am not very assertive and I am very good at cooperating with those I am in conflict with. In this essay I will examine each conflict style and my own choice of style and why I tend to default to this style. I will also examine whether or not my choice of the accommodating style is the best approach to resolving conflict, and discuss the advantages of learning to use each of the styles in specific situations.
Integrating; this style of conflict management is concerned with identification of joint problem, confrontation of attitude and proposing the possible solution for the conflict. This style of conflict management is more effective for solving complex issues. Additionally, this style of conflict management tends to be more effective in long run. However, this style of conflict management may not be effective in managing the conflicts that surface out of differing values of employees.
The second form of conflict management is Compromising. This form brings along the idea that losing something is adequate when an individual gains a little. Both sides come to the middle to help serve the team and project on hand while making it possible for each person to maintain a portion of his or her original idea. The drawbacks of using this method are values and objectives can be lost in the process if they are compromised. Some of the demands from the other side may be too severe to come to a middle ground on. This method can also create other conflict if no respect for the compromise or the other team members exists. When this method is used to its full potential people of equal roles are equally committed to the team. “When the issue is to complex to just abandon the others ideas or perspectives and when the specific task that is being dealt with is only moderately important.” (Improving group, organizational or team dynamics when conflict occurs, 2008)
In trying to resolve the conflict between Reece and Patel, Edwards used an avoidance strategy. Instead of speaking directly about the root causes, or sources, of the conflict, Edwards focused on the behaviors and treated Reece and Patel like children. Edwards scolded them, and sent them off without bothering to find out what was bothering the two. Of course, this type of conflict resolution is ineffective because it fails to address the underlying issues. As Anderson (n.d.) points out, addressing the problem is key to conflict resolution. "When a conflict does happen, a manager needs to focus the conflicting parties on the issue and have them leave out any personal problems they may be having," (Anderson, n.d.).
Conflict is inescapable, having the ability to recognize, understand, and resolve conflicts are important in both personal and professional lives. Myatt (2012) states that conflict in the workplace is unavoidable; if left unresolved, workplace conflict may result in loss of productivity and the creation of barriers that can inhibit creativity, cooperation, and collaboration. It is vital to embrace conflict and address problems through effective conflict-resolution tactics because if not handled appropriately, conflict will escalate. “If not handled properly, conflict may significantly affect employee morale, increase turnover, and even result in litigation, ultimately affecting the overall well-being of
For many of us, every day is a struggle to avoid conflict. Yet avoidance is practically impossible since the core characteristics, ideas and beliefs of each individual often conflict with our own. Differences of opinion, competitive zeal, and misinterpretations, among other factors, can all generate ill feelings between co-workers within an organization. While we can’t avoid conflict, we can learn how to sidestep negative confrontations by becoming familiar with the types of conflicts that most commonly arise in the work place and by learning how to resolve them.
The conflict phenomenon has great role in all human life conditions, we can see the conflict among people, groups, organizations, and nations. World War I and II are best examples. Many organizations see the conflict as wasting of time and money, and should be avoid it. On the other hand, other organizations translate the conflict as important factor to great constrictive and high performance teams, by transforming the differences to functional conflict.