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Summary Of Junot Diaz's Instructional Manual

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An individual’s identity is strongly influenced by their ethnic background and the environment that surrounded them. Due to this, a majority of the world will perceive a person differently and create stereotypes, which then compels them to treat others differently in order to accommodate to that person. In Junot Diaz’s instructional manual, “How to date a brown girl (black girl, white girl, or halfie)”, he depicts different scenarios of dates in the perspective of a boy who is Latino and from the Terrace, a ghetto neighborhood. He talks about the different ways to treat a girl based on their race and what neighborhood they came from, as well as the various reactions each kind of girl will make. He categorizes an insider as Latino or someone …show more content…

In the manual, he mentions during the date that he hopes to not bump into one of his acquaintances that may cause him trouble. Soon after, he comments about the different responses a girl may have towards the acquaintance, by explaining, “A homegirl would have been yelling back at him the whole time, unless she was shy” (Diaz 2). Only an insider would be able to yell back at the man because she is not afraid of people who come from the same area as her. As she understands how people from the Terrace will react to certain comments, she is not scared to offend them because she knows what to say. The main reason he instructs people on how to treat a girl accordingly is to have intimacy with her, but he knows every girl will not feel the same way, as he elaborates, ”A local girl may have hips and a thick ass but she won’t be quick about letting you touch. She has to live in the same neighborhood you do” (Diaz 3). As a result of being an insider and understanding what it is like living in the Terrace, she is used to the way males act towards girls, which allows her to be more conscious of her body and be attentive of a boy’s actions. Likewise, the narrator also knows what they have to deal with so he is mindful of how to act. Since both of them are familiar with the Terrace, their impetuous responses to certain …show more content…

In the same situation of possibly meeting the boy’s acquaintance, an outsider will choose to react contrary to an insider, as described by the narrator, “If the girl’s an outsider she will hiss and say, What a f*** asshole” (Diaz 2). By doing this, she is being more conservative about her actions towards people who come from a different neighborhood than her, because an outsider should not create a situation that they will not be able to handle. Moreover, by being an outsider, she feels intimidated visiting an area where she is not familiar with the people and the environment. Furthermore, even before meeting, an outsider’s parents will feel discomfort taking their daughter to an unfamiliar area, as the narrator claims, “Neither of them want her seeing any boys from the Terrace” (Diaz 1). Compared to an insider that is accustomed to the Terrace, an outsider has difficulty being comfortable in this area because they are used to being insiders in their own neighborhood, not in a different one. Even the narrator can see that encountering others from the Terrace makes an outsider feel somewhat uneasy, considering they are not familiar with the people. So due to the fact that they feel insecure staying within this environment displays how they are seen as outsiders to those who live in the

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