Ever since I was a little kid my parents always told me that I should always tell the truth and that I should never lie to them or anyone else and that if I did lie I would get in trouble. But telling the truth all the time was no easy task even when I was a kid. Telling the truth is heavily emphasized in our everyday lives. People on trial must take an oath and tell the truth and nothing but the truth. People must tell the truth about their past when trying to get a government related job. But can telling the truth be a negative thing? Can you lose your home, family, job, friends and everything else by telling how it is instead of sugarcoating it?
In the book, “Morality Stories,” (Braswell, Pollock, &Brasswell, 2012) in part three of
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Geraldine Stevens was going through a rough patch with her husband and was telling this story to the bartender who could carless. She was ready to leave him and go live with her parents. The no name overhears the conversation but does not say anything and decides to leave the bar and go home to his beautiful wife Natalie and his daughter Natasha. The no name goes outside of the bar to wave down a cab when all of sudden Geraldine Stevens walks up and stands right next him. She asked him if he would help her catch a cab; but for some strange reason, the no name thought she said, “Will you help me” (Brawswell et al., 2012, p. 145). Thinking back to the conversation she was having with the bartender earlier, the no name spoke his mind without a filter on his mouth about her situation. He says, “Geraldine, you need to leave that worthless bastard and go home to your parents before you lose yourself or worse --- your son’s life” (Brawswell et al., 2012, p. 145). Geraldine in disbelief, grabbed the money and hoped in the cab and left. From that day on; the no name started telling what was on his mind in every situation. He got fired from work, his wife kicked him out, and then he lost his second job as well until he had nothing but self peace (Braswell et al.,
Someone once stated,” Tell me the cold truth, but don’t paint me a pretty lie.” As we walk our journey of life, we come to understand that the truth is harsh and yields to no one;moreover, the lie’s hurt increases as it grows. Honesty is important in all situations because eventually the truth shows and people base how they connect you in their life by your honesty or lies.
There comes a time in every persons life where they feel a burning sensation to lie, but is it worth it? Don’t they feel the shame and the guilt of that lie? On average, people lie between ten to two hundred times a day. But doesn't all of that lying come with a lot of conflict and trouble? The more that you lie the more conflict arises by avoiding truth then if it were to be faced head-on.
It is actually very hard to be completely honest all the time and in every situation. But I believe that being honest can be very rewarding in the end because you are not deceiving others or yourself which is beneficial to you and society.
Honesty without integrity can also lead to moral disasters. Well, honesty may be important but not sufficient for integrity. Integrity is both essential and significant. It is acceptable and one will agree with what Stephen L. Carter says about a person having honesty but not integrity. There are also some white lies present. Sometimes saying the truth or telling everything you know might hurt somebody. Harm may not be the intention but positively the effect.
Lying: it’s something everyone is guilty of. Whether they be big or small, lies are everywhere. We live in a society full of lies, so we take the consequences of lying with a grain of salt. There’s no doubt about it; lying can be dangerous. Therefore, we should be more wary of our lies and their consequences. Lies can be detrimental and do have the potential to change society for the worse.
Lying is only okay sometimes. Sometimes telling a small lie is better than hurting someone. However, if lying becomes a habit, the people around you might start to mistrust you. You should think about the consequences before lying, the outcome will be different if the truth is told. This is why lying is only okay sometimes.
Lies, they're everywhere, are they worth the trouble? Throughout these three articles, “It’s the truth”, “Honestly tell the truth”, and “Rejecting all lies”, the authors precisely analyze who agrees, and who doesn’t agree with lying, and why. Lying may be the first thing to come to mind when in a bad situation, but does anyone realize how much damage it can cause towards the other person or to the liar themselves?
“The bias of the mainstream media is toward sensationalism, conflict, and laziness.” Jon Stewart (Stewart). Media misconstrues stories to make us believe it is more sensational than it truly is. Jon Stewart defines the media to be bias because it steers toward sensationalism through conflict and laziness.
“I remember only this: I plunged down into this ocean, down to rocky rocky bottom, and I could see the base of Beechwood Island and my arms and legs felt numb but my fingers were cold. Slices of seaweed went past as I fell.” That is a quote that describes how the conflict was made in the book that I read this summer “We Were Liars” By E. Lockhart. This book was about a girl, Cadence Sinclair. The entire Sinclair Family always goes away to a private island off of Massachusetts every summer. Her and Johnny, Mirren and Gat made up a group called the Liars. Johnny and Mirren are her cousins and Gat is her friend that comes with Johnny every year. One day in summer 15, Cadence could not find any of the Liars to play with,
“The truth is always an insult or a joke, lies are generally tastier. We love them. The nature of lies is to please. Truth has no concern for anyone's comfort” Katherine Dunn perfectly describes what attracts us to lies from a quote in her book Geek Love. Most people lie to help themselves make it through day to day life. If people lie all the time, can all that lying really have an immense effect? Delays for telling the truth is not always a bad thing.While some lies are more helpful to some people more than others. Lies can make people seem untrustworthy, although lies help protect innocence, maintain self-esteem, and prevent harm from yourself or others.
Honesty and deception both play valuable roles in all parts of personal lives and society. Richard Gunderman stated, “To tell the truth is to live authentically and responsibly, to really live.” Living honestly is a way to have less stress to your life, proven by Richard Gunderman in “Is lying bad for us?” However, dishonesty seems to at an all time high with the growth of communication as stated in “On Bullshit” by Harry Frankfurt. In addition, lying can provide incredible short-term benefits discussed by Stephanie Ericsson in “The Ways We Lie.” Gunderman’s claim on authenticity is valid because most cultures see honesty and trust as two of the more lauded values. Telling the truth relieves stress and adds trust. Yet, there is a seemingly
Lying can save you in severe situations such as life or death. Elie lied about his age and said he was eighteen instead of fifteen. “‘Your age?’ he asked, perhaps trying to sound paternal. ‘I'm eighteen.’ My voice was trembling.” (Wiesel 31). Not telling exact information to strangers about yourself can prevent bad things from happening. He told the doctor he was sick so he didn’t have to get his crown taken. His crown could buy him an extra ration of bread and soup, so he decided it’d be smart to keep it. He said he was a farmer because it could save him from being killed immediately. Lying is one of many ways that can help people survive in certain situations.
Growing up, my mom always taught me to always tell the truth, one of the first times that I can remember this was really stressed to me is when I was just a young boy. At the time I was a trouble maker and would always altercate the truth to save myself from getting in trouble. I thought that this was the most ingenious thing because I could get away with anything by just telling these little “white lies”. In history these small lies can make huge impacts on the path that we take to move forward. For example, a native American figure in history that went by the name Acorn Whistler victimized others by lying and finally fell victim to it himself. Now Is lying just something we as humans do to get what we want or is there a deeper ethos behind
Lying the one form of communication that is the untruth expressed to be the truth. Immanuel Kant states that lying is morally wrong in all possible ways. His hatred for lying has made him “just assumed that anyone who lied would be operating with a maxim like this: tell a lie so as to gain some benefit.”(Landau,pp.171) This is true for a vast number of people, they will lie in order to gain a certain benefit from the lie rather than the truth.It is similar to if you play a game of truth or dare, some rather pick a dare because it would release them from having to tell the truth. However, those who do pick truth still have a chance to lie to cover up the absolute truth.People lie in order to cover who they truly are. Even if you lie to benefit someone or something else, it would not matter to Kant because he does not care for the consequences. If you lie but have a good intention it is not the same for Kant, he would argue that you still lied no matter the consequence that a lie is a lie. “ While lying, we accuse others for not being transparent. While being hypocrites ourselves, we expect others to be sincere.” (Dehghani,Ethics) We know how it feels to be lied to by a person, so in order to not have the feeling returned, we hope the person will be truthful. We rather be surrounded by truthful people constantly despite all the lies that some people tell. No
As a whole, being truthful to one another can reflect on another’s behavior. For example, as a parent, showing a reflective behavior of truth to your children helps them understand the importance of being honest to somebody. In The Aeneid, Aeneas displays veritas when he tells Dido the truth about their marriage and how he never agreed to it. Some examples of how our culture lacks truth can be exhibited through criminal investigations. Testifying in court involves an oath where anyone who is up on the stand is required to tell the whole truth, if not they face the consequence of perjury with fines and/or imprisonment.