Someone once stated,” Tell me the cold truth, but don’t paint me a pretty lie.” As we walk our journey of life, we come to understand that the truth is harsh and yields to no one;moreover, the lie’s hurt increases as it grows. Honesty is important in all situations because eventually the truth shows and people base how they connect you in their life by your honesty or lies. When we lie, we only set ourselves up because the one whom you lie to will eventually be told the truth and it will hurt twice as much than if they had heard it before. For example, when I was younger, my father always told me my mother left; however, he did not know why. Consequently, I had given the benefit of the doubt to my mother and pictured her as one who left because she was forced to. In effect, once my godmother told me the truth behind why she left, I developed a sort of inner conflict and hurt. As a result, because I was lied to for so long I still carry the hurt from an event so long ago. In summation, due to …show more content…
For example, in the book The Glass Castle, Jeannette Walls is forced into a friendship by her mother with Billy Deel, who was an extremely forceful child, and Jeannette attempts to befriend him due to him being seemingly harmless towards her. Consequently, Jeannette is harassed by Billy Deel because he wanted her to be in a sexual relationship with him;however, she refused to engage him sexually. In effect, Billy Deel begins to spread rumors about Jeannette and, as a final decision to have real news about Jeannette, attempts to rape her. As a result, Jeannette comes to despise Billy Deel for everything he did to her and decides to cut ties with him completely. All in all, due to Billy Deel’s forcefulness and inappropriate actions towards Jeanette, she decides that she rather stop being with him because she uncovered his true deceitful personality instead of his
Children need a safe and steady place to grow up in. Kids looked up to their parents and aspire to be just like them when they grow up. Rex and Rosemary Wall have different beliefs when it comes to taking care of their children. Although they seem to love each other, Rex and Rosemary, from The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls, create chaos and instability in their home with their volatile relationship. Creating an unstable environment making it difficult for the entire family, it always made the children terrified when they fought because it usually ended up Rosemary getting injured physically or mentally, as time passed by Rex began to leave more frequently and not come back for days, making Rosemary and the children without money for food and just worried about Rex in general.
Honesty is a good principle, however it does not have to be absolute. Although we should always strive to stay honorable and genuine, deception, under certain conditions and during certain times are justifiable. This point is acknowledged and bolstered in the novel Grapes of Wrath, repeatedly throughout history and proven through scientific research.
Resilience, when asked to define and explain the act of being resilient, can be a hard thing to describe. It is something everyone must be at one point in their lives, and what some people must be every day. There are different levels to it, depending on what the person is going through at the time. However, resilience is commonly described as just staying strong in a tough situation or time in a person’s life. When something goes wrong, or something bad happens, the person affected doesn’t let it break them. They stand strong against whatever is being thrown at them, but they bend when they need to. Someone who is resilient is flexible, making sure they don’t crack under pressure. As Robert Jordan said in The Fires of Heaven, “The oak fought the wind and was broken, the willow bent when it must and survived.”
Some people may think that lying is never acceptable. Many of those people that believe lying is never ok think that telling the truth is easier. Telling the truth may be easier, however, it may hurt people's feelings. If someone tells the truth to another person about how they look, they may get offended. Also, some people think telling the truth is less stressful. That may be some people’s thoughts, but if you told someone something bad that’s happening to you they might stress out. For example, a 64 year old didn’t tell his daughter about his kidney tumor to protect her from thinking about what may happen.(3)
There comes a time in every persons life where they feel a burning sensation to lie, but is it worth it? Don’t they feel the shame and the guilt of that lie? On average, people lie between ten to two hundred times a day. But doesn't all of that lying come with a lot of conflict and trouble? The more that you lie the more conflict arises by avoiding truth then if it were to be faced head-on.
It is actually very hard to be completely honest all the time and in every situation. But I believe that being honest can be very rewarding in the end because you are not deceiving others or yourself which is beneficial to you and society.
Honesty without integrity can also lead to moral disasters. Well, honesty may be important but not sufficient for integrity. Integrity is both essential and significant. It is acceptable and one will agree with what Stephen L. Carter says about a person having honesty but not integrity. There are also some white lies present. Sometimes saying the truth or telling everything you know might hurt somebody. Harm may not be the intention but positively the effect.
Best-selling author and podcaster James Altucher once said “Honesty is the fastest way to prevent a mistake turning into a failure” (Altucher). What Altucher was saying is, honesty is a great help in pulling you out of bad situations before they can turn even worse in your life. There are many ways for honesty to work out positively in our lives, it can show a sense of trust within yourself or others you come in contact with. Honesty is also a big part of our lives in our wider culture by being able to express opinions towards various subjects.
Everyone has come to a crossroad at some point in their life where they have to either face a harsh reality or hide behind a beautiful lie. At first glance the lie always looks great, and will usually make the situation better, at least in the moment. However, we end up looking back on all of the times we lied and got in trouble for it: the beatings we have taken for telling a lie, the times we have gotten our phone taken away, and most of all the friends we have lost for having the truth come out later. But maybe all of those people were wrong, ironically they stopped us from believing the truth about the truth for all those years. The truth does not matter because sometimes you never really know what is the truth, people believe what the want, and often times telling the truth is boring.
In this response to The Glass castle by Jeannette Walls, I am going to talk about the selfishness and the neglect Rose Mary & Rex Walls put upon these poor children.
Have you ever wondered why it can be so hard to tell the truth, or why it seems better to tell a lie? In both F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby and Rob Marshall’s Chicago, characters lie because they feel that it is easier. However, lying leads to a downward- spiral. The society we live in can either lead us to a complicated relationship with the truth or easy going. The problem with constantly telling lies is that it starts off with one then leads to another until everything you say is a lie. People know it is easier to tell lies than face the truth because they are either doing it for money, or protection for themselves, people they love, or relationships. Yes, telling lies can help but imagine the damage you’re building up on the way. Nobody likes liars and liars can be found anywhere, even families lie to each other. Relationships are just like thin pieces of paper that make small tears to it every time a lie is told. The paper can be put back together but it will never be the same or be seen the same.
Before taking into consideration that honesty is extremely important when writing, we should understand what honesty means. Honesty is being sincere, truthful, trustworthy, honorable, fair, genuine, and loyal with integrity. It is the best way to gain respect and confidence from your audience. According to Linda Flower, in her work of “Writing for an Audience”, “the goal of the writer is to create a momentary common ground between the reader and the writer. You want the reader to share your knowledge and your attitude toward that knowledge.” The ability to adapt your knowledge to the needs of the reader is often crucial to your success as a writer. Even if the reader eventually disagrees, you want him or her to be able for the moment to see things as you see them. Telling the truth lets everyone know what really happened. There's less chances of misunderstandings, confusion, or conflict. If you tell the truth, you have an infinite power supporting you.
As Jean-Paul Sartre once stated, “The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you’re not worth the truth.” This pertains to several types of relationships including friendships, professional relationships, and romantic relationships. Relationships are built on a foundation of trust. Without honesty and faithfulness, there is no basis for a relationship. Anyone would choose to be with someone who is honest and trustworthy over someone who goes behind your back and is constantly lying. The truth is of utmost importance and allows healthy relationships to flourish and unhealthy relationships to be weeded out, quickly. Relationships are a key part of life and understanding the role that the truth plays in all relationships will allow a person to develop strong and beneficial relationships over the course of their life. By realizing the high value truth holds, it will prevent unnecessary heartache, defective business decisions, and wasted time. Telling someone the truth, even when it is
Anyone who has read The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls would say that Mary and Rex Walls were unfit parents for Lori, Jeannette, Brian, and Maureen. They would even say that the children would have been better in foster care. Although people say foster care would be better for Jeannette and her siblings, they actually would have not been better in foster care, because it has been proven that foster care can have a deep effect on children as they grow up, and sometimes there are worse living conditions in foster care than in the actual home with biological parents. Rex Walls and Mary might not be fit parents in many people’s opinions, but the Walls’ siblings, especially Jeannette, would not be who they are today without
In The Glass Castle, Jeanette Walls was faced with many life changing and hard obstacles. Many people who have read this book think that these hardships have helped her later in life. Her parents were never there for her when she was growing up. Her dad was a raging alcoholic who spent all of his money away at the bars. Her mom was intelligent, but still never seemed to help much with Jeanette and her siblings. Even though her parents were not much help, she loved them the same no matter what. When Jeanette was younger, she was constantly bullied at her new schools, but never went home and told on the kids her had beat her up. She stood up for herself even if she knew she had no chance at winning the fight. This showed how brave and strong