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The Bechdel Family Analysis

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There are many things about the Bechdel family that set them apart from the average American household. The most the obvious difference is that they run a funeral home. Her childhood memories are of her and her brother being the home and among the caskets. One of the most important moments with her father, in fact, was when there was a body in between them and her father asked her to hand her scalpel. Their actual home however was also quite extraordinary due to her father's consistent and almost compulsive modifications to their home. Later on she will realize that her own sexuallity makes her unusual and her family has to deal with that as well. Alison is no stranger to the feeling of being “the other” however in her family, these feelings …show more content…

When, in the marriage he began these affairs is not known to us, no one in the family probably knew except for Bruce himself. After he was married to a women and the realization set in that he would never get to be his true self, he most likely felt trapped. For him to be able to get away with this lifestyle he may have needed an escape or even someone to know so he could keep it together at home. So the isolation he felt at home from being gay in a heterosexual relationship at the moment and in years to come he took opportunities to be with other guys when he could. Unfortunately i assume it wasn't quite easy to come across other gay men without giving yourself up, especially if you're in a heterosexual relationship yourself and there weren't exactly apps like we have today were you can quickly be paired up with people of your choice. The easiest and most guys to have relations with were adolescents. There was evidence he was aggressive or forceful in any way with them, in fact, when we meet Alison's childhood babysitter, he's drawn perfectly calm and accustomed to being there. Also in the illustrations the babysitter did not even look like a highschooler to be, he look as though he could be at least twenty. This could show that he wasn't doing this to be a predator or harm boys but mostly a way to kill the …show more content…

After Bruce felt and saw what his life would be like if he decided to live as a gay man he decided to live an acceptable lifestyle instead with lead to Bechdel family and its strangeness. After feeling isolated in this life he seeks comfort in tennagers wich leaves his wife with a lot to process and come to terms with. This will also later affect the her relationship with Alison when she learns of her sexuality. The feeling of isolation and otherness figure into the memoir significantly because there would be no fun home without

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