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The Consequences Of Child Abuse Children

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As children become adults, they tend to get wiser, make reasonable decisions, leave their immaturity behind; yet for an abuser, it can be a completely different story. If an adult was abused as a child, this trend continues onto the life of their children. An abuser’s childhood can lead up to them giving their children the same treatment they received. Since children learn from their parents, seeing and being the victim of abuse creates a lack of the skills, according to MentalHelp.net, “ necessary for controlling anger or frustration”; instead violence is learned and later their children receive that same violence. In the end, the trend could be passed down through endless generations. Even though an adult who has been the “helpless victim” …show more content…

These kids are learning from their parents that hitting, punching, shaking, etc. are all acceptable, and therefore can be done to fellow classmates. In the National Family Violence Survey, children who come in contact with relentless abuse had “higher rates of conduct problems and rule-violating behaviors than those who did not experience severe violence.” (“National…”). These actions don’t just cease to exist as soon as the child grows up, but it furthermore develops into their adulthood. Once the child grows up and has kids of his/her own, their actions as children create the abusive family relationship, and once again the ongoing trend of abuse continues through countless posterities. The child never learns how to interact with their peers and it evolves into “withdrawal or avoidance, or fear, anger, and aggression.” (“National…”). These dangerous and sometimes violent actions and emotions lower the self-esteem of the child and they lack the feeling of respect that they think they …show more content…

As stated by The Ohio Department of Job and Family Services, “They may discourage social contact, and rarely will participate in school or community activities.” Not only for the simple fact that they can feel ashamed of mistreating their children or feel as though other parents, family members, neighbors might know that they abuse their child; it’s much more complex and intertwining than just that. As children, these adult never learned the basic social skills that come with growing up in a non-abusive family. They never learned “how to form relationships, socialize or how to work together with others.” (“The Ohio…”), instead, they learned what it meant to feel bad about themselves. Their self-confidence level in return is very low. They see themselves as worthless and in some cases unlovable, according to The Ohio Department of Job and Family Services. The parent, therefore, “sees their children as reflections of themselves. They view abuse and neglect as behavior that is expected of them.” (The Ohio…”

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