Anger is a powerful word and emotion that many people refuse to accept. "While the manifestations of anger can be problematic…" (Crump), no one could have ever thought that it has a constructive side. Aristotle said that anyone can be angry, but few who can "… be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way". For centuries, anger was considered "… a sin, a weakness, or a madness and was to be avoided or contained" (qtd. in Crump). Anger can be considered a messenger; a messenger that alerts people or provide them with a clue that something is going wrong. All people, from different classes, and different origins, can benefit from anger. They can use it as their teacher, who guides them to the right path. This research paper will discuss how racism is the "mother of all sins", and how anger can be its cure. The Help serves as an application of the beneficial …show more content…
The two "colored maids" portrayed in the novel are representations of a class of people who have faced all kinds of maltreatment and remained silent, but revolted against these maltreatments in the end. Aibileen is a woman who has lost her son "Treelore" because of the brutal conditions they were living under. She suffered all through her life because of her skin color. She suffered because of something that she can never change. Like all other African-Americans who suffered because of their origins. They were stereotyped into being slaves to white people. They witnessed cruel incidents because of the ignorance of the White Man. Their lives were turned into hell because white people thought that they are better and that they are "Superior" to any other race. Big part of humanity was humiliated and still is because of ignorance and unawareness. All the characters in the novel are representations of different classes of the real world of
The Help by Kathryn Stockett gave everyone insight to the life of an African American woman in the early 1960s. The Help criticized racial inequality, and gives society an insider's view of segregation and fear of the status quo in their own race. Throughout the 1960s many African American woman worked in housekeeping. The novel follows the lives of three maids who are have a book wrote from their point of view. The story follows them as they go through the struggles of life and how stressful writing the book is on them because of time period and how dangerous it was to be seen with a person of the different race if you weren't working for them. Being seen with a person of the different race could get you labeled or worse thrown in jail for an integration violation.
I chose to do this project on anger because for me, it is the most frequent fault I commit. In addition, it is the hardest one for me to avoid, which makes it one of the most distinctive sins to me. Moreover, writing about it gives me a better understanding of what it is. To me, anger is like a test. Imagine that your life and your decisions are like a path that has many other paths leading off of it, and the goal is to stay on the main path. Anger is like a rock or boulder that blocks the path of travel. As a test, will you keep calm and find a way around it and make
The book , The Help by Kathryn Stockett, is about a women named Aibileen who is a black maid. She is taking care of her 17th white baby now. She works for a woman named Miss Leefolt. Aibileen has never disobeyed an order in her life and never intends to do so. Her friend Minny is the exact opposite. When she is around her boss, she has to hold herself back from sassing them all the time. Skeeter Phelan is different than the rest of the white ladies. She thinks that blacks aren’t all that bad. She decides to write a book about the lives of maids for white ladies. Otherwise known as the Help. She with the help of Aibileen and Minny hope to create a book that starts a revolution about what white people think about blacks.
The Help is a story about young woman named Skeeter in the early 1960’s in Jackson, Mississippi who recently graduated from Ole Miss and aspires to be a writer. To gain experience, she takes a job writing a column about house cleaning in the local paper. Raised in an upper class white home, she was not familiar with housecleaning tips, so she turned to the black maids that work for her friends to help her with the column. While her friends are living the current social southern values of the time - being the good housewife - she is caught up with her ambitions to be a writer and to make a difference in the world. The closer she becomes to the black maids, the more she realizes that there is a story here that no one is telling. As the Civil
“‘Don’t you ever wish you could change things?”’ (10). In Jackson, Mississippi during the 1960’s, woman ahead of her time, Miss Skeeter, proposes an idea to write a book about the lives of colored maids in Jackson. Aibileen and Minny, two maids, are among the first ones to agree to help Skeeter, despite the potential danger to themselves. In The Help, Kathryn Stockett creates an engaging and immersive world that explores racism and social injustice by using well-developed writing, the ideal amount of imagery, and strong characters.
Aibileen, on the other hand, hasn’t obtained as much education as Mrs. Skeeter. Aibileen was black, and back in her days, blacks did not have the opportunity to receive the same education as whites did. Aiblieen was a very bright student and would have been very successful if she could have finished school. Even her teacher, Miss Ross, said that she was very intelligent, “You’re the smartest in the class, Abilieen.” Unfortunately, she could not finish school because she had to support her mother with bills that she could not pay herself. She stopped going to school when she was fourteen years old. She instead went to work as a maid and wait on white families. Because of her lack of education, she did not speak very well. She often used slang
In the first scenes of “The Help” there was a scene in which a black maid was telling a white female (Skeeter) about her life story and then it enters to all the scenes before until that point which are narrated by Abilene to Skeeter. The film shows many maid stories and where it helps to identify the superiority of the white over the black race. The black women were maids and took care of the white females’ children and raised them, they as well did everything such as cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing and grocery shopping etc. White females on the other hand could care
The Film follows the journey of a young woman named Skeeter Phelan. She has just returned from living in New York and somehow her experiences there have changed her view of her home in Jackson Mississippi .Along her journey, she has discovered a new found friend, Aibileen Clark. Aibileen Clark is an African-American maid who has raised seventeen white children in her lifetime, including her recent and last “white baby” Mae Mobley. The book she writes with skeeter and the other African-American maid empowers her to stand up for justice. Aibileen is a great example of the earth mother as she not only she 17 “white baby” but she also taught them that color of skin does not matter, but kindness and love do. An earth mother is considerate and encourages the good things in life instead of the dark soul within. They put other people’s needs before their own despite of having their own personal problems. Like Leigh Anne, Aibileen have also risk her lives of teaching Mae Mobley about racial equality and civil rights. This is a risk as she is breaching the law which can cause her to lose her job and eventually face social penalties. This risk that she had taken was to prove that people were not born to be racist but is eventually taught through generation , "stop that moment from coming – and it come in every child's life – when they start to think that colored folks ain't as good
She works for Elizabeth, an affluent white woman who is pregnant with her second child, even as she neglects her first child. Aibileen is the liaison between Skeeter, Elizabeth’s best friend, and the other maids.
During our lifetime every one of us feels anger and aggression occasionally, some more than others, maybe as a child in the play ground or later as an adult when somebody cuts you up when you are driving along. But what causes anger and aggression and why do we all suffer from it? Well there are lots of different theories to what causes aggression and where aggressive behaviour comes from. So throughout this essay I will examine the different concepts and theories from different psychologist and develop and show an understanding of Aggression
The treatment of black, female domestic servants living in Jackson, Mississippi illustrates the race intensity between the black and white community during the 1960's. Skeeter, a young journalist that comes from a wealthy, cotton plantation owned family has to write a novel of her choice for her job. She chooses to write about the black servants that work for her childhood friends. In order to this successfully, they must meet in secret because both blacks and whites that are against segregation during this time could be shunned or killed. The story is told from three alternating perspectives, so the protagonists are: Skeeter, Minny, & Aibileen. Those 3 are trying to change the world's perspective on black people by writing the book. Antagonist:
The Help brings light to this idea of domestic victims being very mistreated and ultimately being dehumanized because of the color of their skin. “I want to yell so loud that Baby Girl can hear me that dirty ain't a color, disease ain't the negro side of town. I want to stop that moment from coming – and it come in every white child's life – when they start to think that colored folks are not as good as whites.”(Stockett 80) This passage brings up how children are born with prejudice thoughts and how it is taught by the older generations. Aibileen tries to keep Mae Mobley's mind from being polluted from these horrible thoughts. Critics argue that the maids should not teach the child this because they are not really their parents it still seems as if it is their job to teach the child this because they are so affected. Kathryn Stockett does a great job of demonstrating the racist and prejudice thoughts that affected these innocent
Aibileen was being treated like as if she wasn’t a human, because she wasn’t allowed to use the same bathroom in the house that she cleans and takes care of every singe day, but instead was built her own separate bathroom. She was treated bad and was also paid badly. The money she was being paid is not even enough for her to put together a household and to pay bills. While all this was going on, she found a way to fight back by helping a young girl write a book that exposes how “The Helps” were being treated in the households they take care of.
It is commonplace for white families to have black maids serving them at this time. Aibileen (Davis) is a strong-willed maid who is
Therefore, the object of the anger is not the cause of the bigot’s pain, but the solution” (Gaylin 114). Anger can sometimes turn into hate. Some different terms for hate could be annoyance, irritation, hostility, or maliciousness. Some of the “symptoms” of hate include wanting to hurt, humiliate, damage, destroy, threaten, and wanting to seek revenge on someone. Some people try to justify their actions by having the motive of wanting to destroy to rebuild on a stronger foundation (Gelinas, Anger 12).