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The Giving Tree Thesis

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The book the Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein holds more of the qualities from the second view that was presented to us. Which was one connecting this story to an abusive codependent relationship and pointing out the similarities between the two. The majority of people who read it would not believe that a children’s story could have an underlying connection with abuse and taking advantage of others for personal gain. After all they are suppose to send a positive message to the youth not a negative one. This story though shows many similarities between the boy and his tree and an abusive relationship. When I first read this book I was astounded by how selfish the boy was toward the tree. He would go to the tree and ask more and more from her, even is doing so would end up hurting the tree in the end. He would not only ask the tree for all these favors but he would give her nothing in return for doing so. He would use her and then not return again until he needed something else from the tree. This could easily be compared to an abusive relationship like the second view prompted. When you are in an abusive relationship the abuser only wants what is best for them and doesn’t think twice about their partner’s feelings or how what they are doing might affect them; …show more content…

In this book the tree would be an example of the one who just wants love and acceptance. She loved the boy very much and would do anything to make him happy because that is all that she wanted, the boys happiness. On the other hand the boy was very greedy and knew that the tree loved him and would do anything for him. So he took advantage of that fact and took every last thing from her. The tree didn’t understand how much she was giving up until she had nothing left because she was blinded by her love for the

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