Throughout Residential Education, I have learned many different skills which can be applied to various aspects of my life. These skills include time-management, conflict management, social-media management, and sexual consent advice. Each of these skills have been, and can be continued to be, applied to my life at NCSSM, in my personal life, and in college. Each of these four topics were covered for one week each in residential education with corresponding powerpoint or discussions, and required out-of-class assignments. Accordingly, one of the skills which residential education taught me was time-management. Residential education introduced me to the quadrant system, which I previously had no experience with. The quadrant system involves …show more content…
At NCSSM, I have been able to utilize this concept to slow down my thoughts and allow me to respond more professionally to conflict. With the principles of creating empathy for the other person, responding respectfully, and being ready to grant forgiveness, I have been able to respond to conflict much more efficiently at NCSSM. By using these principles, me and my roommate avoided a few conflicts such as missing food and sleep schedules. These principles also help to ensure that my reactions to conflict don’t lead to problems with administration, and ensure that I keep a clear mind, controlling my reactions. This has been especially useful in my personal life, as I have been responding to conflict much more professionally, which leads to healthier relationships and decreased stress levels. Down the road, these skills will be especially useful as my conflicts will increase in importance throughout my life, especially in my college career path. Later in the trimester, we learned about social-media images and how we present ourselves on the internet. Before the serious discussion which we had in class, I had never considered social media creating an online image and never appreciated the consequences of internet posts. The application of this concept could have beneficial outcomes in various aspects of life as having a good image is especially important in sociability. Often times, being sociable is an important side of business
Residential schools were viewed as a way to refine the Aboriginal population and keep children from keeping their language and their cultural traditions. The purpose of residential schools was to civilize the Aboriginal people and to make them useful and good members of society with strict punishments for any of their wrong doings. Richard Pratt is the person who founded the Carlisle Indian Industrial School and he said “you must kill the Indian in him; to save the man”. (Kill the Indian in him) The goal of residential schools was to combine the Aboriginals into white society when they were children since they were much more gullible. My research paper will focus on the residential schools and will contend that the Canadian government and churches committed genocide against the Aboriginal population in an attempt to eliminate the Aboriginal culture.
In “Impression Management in a Networked Setting”, the reading focuses on how people and mainly adolescents project a type of fade on social media sites. The author states how many young people today are sad, but when on Facebook only take happy looking selfies and hide their true feelings, so they can get more likes from friends. And even how your social media profile page can make a good, or bad impression for a future employer; forcing teens to be more warry about what pictures, videos and reshares that are on their profile page. In the book, it goes into the scenario that teenagers
During the time residential schools existed, the Aboriginal population of Canada was forced to endure appalling treatment. Residential school is regarded as a thing of the past by high school history books, but is that really true when the oppression and abuse that occurred in residential schools has had a long-term effect on Aboriginal peoples? Intergenerational effects of residential schools include post-traumatic stress disorder, high rates of addiction, abuse and violence, probable deadly illnesses, and elevated statistics of suicide in Aboriginal communities. A substantial number of authors, historians, and researchers attest to the fact that residential schools have influenced a number of generations of the Aboriginal people of Canada.
In her article “Social Media’s Impact on Self-Esteem” Clarissa Silva analyzes the effects of social media. She is able to show how disconnected people have gotten because of being online. Which is causing many to suffer from the paradox effect and vanity validation, that has also contributed to negative impacts in many relationships. Different sets of data are used as evidence, the percentage of peoples fear of missing out (FOMO) being a prime example. Social norms have shifted from face to face conversations to online discussions. Silva demonstrates how it plays a big role in self-esteem because of the decrease of social skills. She sheds light on the issue to decrease the irresponsible use of social media without knowing
For years and years, the internet has progressed so much. So much that communication and our lifestyles have reached a whole new level. One of the many revolutionary inventions is called social networking sites or social media. Social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and many more, are where people gather on the internet, create a personalized profile about themselves, and interact with other people around the world. Social media can help contact friends, family, and other people long distance. However, our priorities have completely changed to “life isn’t measured by the number of breaths you take, but by how many likes you get on Instagram.” With social media, people seem to lose touch from reality. This whole “me, me , me”
Although many argue that social media is an easier way to interact with others and that it has the ability to improve relationships by keeping those that are far apart together through technology, social media can also cause people to further distance themselves and it can also have a negative impact on relationships. There has been many studies that proves that technology harms our relationships and how one interacts with other in social situations. Many people use technology as a way to escape the real world. Even though social media can be used in a positive way, it can also be used negatively. Before technology was as developed as it is in today’s society, people had different realities; separation between work life and personal life.
The residential college system is central to the Yale experience. Because of its place in the infrastructure of Yale, even the most smallest of changes can have enormous outcomes that affect the entirety of the community. The system itself tries to cultivate a community that can gift individuals the two main goals of Yale College, academic and social growth. This growth is hindered when the community is not healthy. Student life at Yale is not always the easiest. As expressed in Professor Brackett’s course this year, many students are plagued with negative affect like stress, anxiousness, and tiredness, especially during the busiest times of the semester. Contrasting these feelings, students want to have less burnt out, less stress, more balance,
With evolving technology comes new types of social media, people have begin to question the internet’s effect on our mentality. It is a bit difficult to compare the pros and cons of social media, it has more to do with an individual’s experience. Some could be having a horrible time due to social media, but others could be thriving off of it. The more negative implications of using social media could be the way that we share our personal lives and how much of it we give to the public, regardless of social relationships, to consume. Along with this, we are deeply impacted by what we see from others based on our viewing of what they share because of the ability to create falsified identities and unrealistic interpretations of who we are
Treating everyone the same is a noble aspiration, perhaps the noblest, however this ideal is suited to fantasy worlds where humanity hasn’t suffered indignities and loss under their fellow kin. To hold such beliefs requires one of two things: Either limited knowledge on a topic or a willingness to disregard past events. Subsequently, years in the education system presented limited study opportunities on the Aboriginal peoples of Canada, in fact, most information came from stereotypes or depictions in the media, such as depicting uncaring, troubled Aboriginal student. Accordingly, the images I chose were those of empty classrooms feeling that they were accurate depictions of treating everyone the same while highlighting the ignorance towards
Social media is on a steady rise and the more popular it becomes, the more people debate whether it is benefiting or worsening our daily lives. Kelly Wallace discusses the pros of social media when it is used properly, while Rachel Zupek argues the danger we put ourselves in by using social media to express ourselves. In spite of the negative depictions of social media, Wallace proves that it boosts self-confidence and strengthens relationships showing that the positives outweigh the negatives.
Living in the 21st century requires one to stay current with latest technological advancements. Ever since the development of social networking sites, people are now able to create a carefully-crafted identity for themselves. This has led psychologists to question how well these online personalities match the person in front of the computer. The innovative branch of media psychology looks into how social networking portrays individuals and initiates human interactions within a society.
In today’s century social media is the main way to communicate with people with people all over the world. It has become very popular... even more popular than a text or video message. Social media is a computer technology that facilitates the creation and sharing of information, ideas, career interests and other forms of expression via communities and networks. The variety of social media services that are currently available can help benefit businesses, introduce an event, or even help you find a friend, family member, or long lost soulmate. Some social sites even help you find love. However, there are many positive things that can come out social media but there are many negatives too.
The social media is one of the most common ways of communication and pretty much of knowing anything and everything around the world these days, and it is growing very rapidly. It changes and affects each person in a different way, or ways. Some may argue that social media has a bad influence on children and young adults, and that it negatively effects their brains, character, or personalities, while most people see that the social media has a more positive effect on them than a negative one. Moreover, social media has helped many people around the world to connect, or re-connect, with each other, easily. Social media is basically the new way of keeping in touch with everything and everyone, and of even strengthening bonds between each
The label, “Social Media”, is due to its ability to encourage people to be more social and communicative through the internet. Yet, it is now known that the name might not live up to its expectation. With less face-to-face interaction, relationships and communication skills are being sacrificed. Although one may have one thousand
Women lurk on a man’s page seeking for their materialistic items such as cars, money, and the way a man dresses. Instances such as these causes low self-esteem of individuals who do not portray these specific items or lifestyles on social media. USA Today asked 23 Chicago college students about social media and 20 out of 23 students believed social media caused anxiety or added stress to an individual’s life. One female college student believed that social media adds a lot of pressure to be the perfect person, because that’s how individuals can make themselves look online. A lot of women on social media with low self-esteem issues show their skin and wear revealing outfits to feel “better” about their own body by taking into account how many likes on Instagram or Facebook they receive. The college students have realized it was easy to portray a different version of them on the internet. Individuals believe the number of likes on Facebook/Instagram or retweets on Twitter is used as a tool for verification for acceptance within their group of peers. This can cause a domino effect of problems on an individual’s self-esteem. An individual will post photos that are outside their character just to seek approval through the likes from their peers. This may boost an individual’s self-esteem temporarily, but once he or she logs off social media their self-esteem really hasn’t improved. Valkenbur, P. M., Peter, J., & Shouted, A. P. (2006). Friend