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The Independence Born From Desperation

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An Independence Born from Desperation

In an old joke a wife says to her husband: “Hey, you promised me that when we got married we would have a maid, a cook, a washerwoman, and a nanny” The smiling husband answers “I do have all of them”. It is funny as a joke, but when this situation becomes the everyday reality for a woman, it is not that nice. Last year I met Louisa, a beautiful 23-year-old Indian lady with four kids, who came to the United States just two years ago. She was practically a slave in her own house. Since early in the morning she was cleaning, washing, cooking, ironing, etc. Once she said, “I lost my period when I was 13 years old, and I saw it again when I was 18 years old”. Louisa had two miscarriages after the last …show more content…

Having children was not only part of the nature of women; it was an obligation in order to provide a large family to men; also as the wife, a woman could learn to write and read but only to complete elementary education, an extended period was considerate a “waste of time” on a woman. Liza Picard researches and writes about the history of London holds, “In the upper classes, it was assumed that a girl would marry and that therefore she had no need of a formal education, as long as she could look beautiful, entertain her husband’s guests, and produce a reasonable number of children” (2). So failure to fulfill this requirement for a “complete, good woman”, might lead to female psychological disturbance, even craziness. “Of course it is only nervousness. It does weigh on me so not to do my duty in any way! I meant to be such a help to John, such a real rest and comfort, and here I am a comparative burden already!” (7, 252).
It is necessary to add some elements each other that led to the narrator of The Yellow Wallpaper to madness. First, although the narrator has discrepancies, “Personally, I disagree with their ideas. Personally, I believe that congenial work, with excitement and change, would do me good. But what is one to do?”(7, 250), is trying to fit into a “normal” life, for a woman by being obedient, submissive, getting married, and having a baby. Second, according to the chronology on The

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