1. Introduction:
Practice and customs surrounding marriage, such as preferable age and selection of spouse differ from society to society, according to understandings, structures and patterns of lives of families in each society. Marriage is a basic human right which is legally defined by a set of stipulations. The existence of a minimum age for marriage is one of those conditions. Afghanistan is in the top of 49 countries for bride under age marriages. 70 to 80 % of the marriage in this country is either before legal age or forced (Grigsby, 2013). According to Afghanistan civil law the minimum age for girls to marry is 16. While statistics by UN and UNICEF shows that 57 percent of girls are married before reaching 16 (UNFPA, 2012).
This policy paper addresses the issue of child marriage as a harmful practice in Afghan society. The paper discuss the background of the early marriages in Afghanistan and then focus on the nature of this phenomenon in Afghan content and try to analyze its causes specifically; protecting girls, illiteracy of parents, traditions and bad practices, and the consequences of child marriage on the health of these girls, violence that they face and deny of their education. In the last part policies are suggested to prevent the practice.
2. Objectives of the policy: The objective and aim of this paper is to suggest policies in order to reduce the number of child marriage in short term, and in long term element it completely from Afghan society. So no
Marriage in the traditional Afghan culture has a deep-rooted process through which it treads step by step. Rarely do young men and women have an opportunity to meet each other, and the to-be wife is usually chosen in a haste. When a young man wants to marry a young lady who is from an unknown family, first his parents do some kind of background check about her, trying to know more about her morals, beauty, and other family affairs.
. The author conveys a very cautionary yet distressing tone when elaborating about the hardships of Afghanistan women’s love life. According to the thesis statement of “Afghanistan : Where women have no choice”, Sieff interprets his distressing tone when he said “ For an Afghan girl dreading marriage to a man she hates, death is of
Adults not only in Afghanistan but in countries around the world often dictate all aspects of the child’s life until they become adults themselves; thus, the children’s desires are frequently disregarded and neglected. However, as trivial as their wishes may seem, decisions made by the adult can directly impact the child’s life forever. Therefore, one, especially a foreigner who is not accustomed to their radical principles, must wonder if bacha posh, daughters chosen by their families to live and behave as a boy, enjoy their borrowed status. The palpable answer would be of course, why wouldn’t they cherish their conversion to boyhood. However, “it all depends
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10-Years-Old — A very young age for life to happen to anyone. Sonita Alizadeh was all of ten years when her parents tried to sell her into marriage. Born in Afghanistan, she was not the only girl who was being pushed into getting married at such young age. More than 57% of girls are married before they turn 19. That is the reality Alizadeh escaped.
In this paper I will be exploring the reasons why “young females in Afghanistan pretend to be males” (Norbderg). The article“Afghan Boys Are Prized, So Girls Live the Part”, by Jenny Nordberg, explores how bacha posh are present in Afghanistan and why families are doing this is discussed. The author’s point is that in Afghanistan, male children are valued much more then female children. The boys have many more privileges then the girls do is a large part of the article. Looking at the marked. The privileges that the males have span Afghan culture.
According to the new data from UNICEF, fifty seven percent of marriages in Afghanistan involve girls that are under sixteen. In Afghanistan, located in the southern Helmand province, as many as 144 forced marriages were reported. In particular, farmers have been forced to abandon their daughters to the creditor as pay off for his debts. After the daughter is sold, she would be forced into marriage with anyone the creditor chose. This pertained to girls that were six years old or some even younger. These types of marriages were deemed valid in Afghan society and were quite frequent as well. In the novel The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini, a man named Amir has an arduous time trying to deal with his past as he moves from Afghanistan to America. The text cites several examples of how some types of marriages were forbidden in Afghanistan. Common marriages are comprised of forced marriages, arranged marriages and love marriages in Afghan society.
Being a woman in Afghanistan is hard for so many reasons but some of the reasons are that over half the Afghan girls are married or at least engaged by the age of 12. 60% of the Afghan girls are married actually married by the age of 16 and up to 80% of the marriages in the poor/rural areas are arranged or forced marriages. The men these young girls marry are usually a lot older, some of the men even in their 60’s or older and the girls might not meet the man they were arranged or forced to marry till the actual day of the wedding. With the widespread of poverty parents arrange marriages for their young daughters for many reasons like to repay debt, solve a dispute, to get rid of them so they don’t have to support them, they even do it to reduce
Child marriage in the States is a serious problem. The current law for child marriage states that you must be at least eighteen years old to marry. However, state laws make exceptions if minors have parental consent. Due to the lack of awareness in this topic thirty-three states and two counties in the U.S. reported that between 2000-2015 there were a total of 170,363 minors that were married. Of which, six were twelve-year-olds, fifty-one were thirteen-year-olds, nine hundred eighty-five was fourteen years old. Not only is this number increasing but it is also alarming. The main reasons for child marriage are poverty, gender inequality, tradition/culture, education, and insecurity. Most of the child marriages happen in rural or backward areas of the country. The main reason for this is poverty for sure. Parents who have a daughter but don't earn as much choose this method to give them a better life. For the boys, the marriage does not take place but poverty triggers child labor. Another main reason behind this activity is gender inequality. Even today there are lots of countries that consider
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Fifteen-year-old girl in Afghanistan and forced to marry a forty-year-old man. Not ready for that commitment. The wedding takes place tomorrow. In Afghanistan, young girls face this problem every day. Parents of young Afghan girls arrange their daughters to marry an older men which often ties in with domestic violence. In Afghanistan, arranged marriages do not take place because the two people have found a love for one another, but rather create domestic violence.
In many societies, marriage is a celebrated institution commemorating the union between two consenting adults and the beginning of their lives together. However, this experience and celebration is different for the millions of girls around the world who are forced to wed while still children, some not even yet teenagers.
Also being married at sixteen means they were only in 10th grade at the time if they had gotten any education. Based off of the religion in Afghanistan which is Islam, women are given many rights. The students of Mount Holyoke College had came together and said, “Islam gives women rights, including rights to work, the ability to choose the man she will marry, among others. However, in Afghanistan, many times women have not been given these specific rights.” They had also said that it was almost 15 hundred years back when this had happened. When Afghanistan was not independent women were given some rights about marriage like, they didn’t have to marry the husband's closest relative if the husband had ever died. Also the women could choose to either stay with her husband that she was with after she had went through puberty or not to stay with
The practice of marrying minors can be found globally, however it is found to be most concentrated in the poor rural and provincial areas of Africa, the Middle East, and Latin America. According to GirlNotBrides.org, “India has the highest (absolute) number of child brides in the world. It is estimated that 47% of girls in India are married before their 18th birthday”. They also stated, “Niger has the highest rate of child marriage in the world. Every 3 in 4 girls marry before their 18th birthday.”
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