Michael Claudy
Ms. Diana Leach
English Composition 121
30 October 2017 Technology Does Not Enhance Our Ability to Socialize
One of the primary reasons people access the Internet is to interact and socialize with others. Having numerous options to choose from including Twitter, blogs, social network sites, email and messaging, gives us instant access to friends and family. Does this give us a positive or negative impact on having a quality social relationship with others. The time we spend online has a negative and disjointed effect on our social life, family, friends, children, and well-being in general.
According to Nie and Hillygus, they state that the time we spend socializing online is a form of “Time Displacement” (1:1-20). Most research hypotheses suggest that Internet usage has a negative effect on our cognitive skills, permitting us never to fully develop healthy face-to-face communication skills. Thus, disallowing us to build strong, emotionally, healthy relationships.
Given the question of nurturing relationships, does the Internet allow more time to build a larger network of relationships? The more online connections one has does not mean they are quality relationships. Some may be superficial while others may be connective and supportive.
On line relationships can lack in true personal intimacy and developing strong
In the novel The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to Our Brains by Nicholas Carr, he argues that the internet is slowly limiting our physical and emotional interactions with both ourselves and our loved ones. Although in some aspects, people might believe this is true, we cannot possibly classify the internet as a negative platform in total. To look at it in another perspective, the internet is also a positive tool. There are two sides to everything and however the author, Nicholas Carr, did acknowledge that the internet has its perks, he didn’t go further in detail. The internet is a place where everyone can interact with other people living all over the world, be socially aware of current news, and it’s a part of evolving as a species.
The ease with which people are able to share and communicate over the Internet has had the effect that people no longer feel the need to interact in with one another in person because they feel that everything they want to do can be done over the Internet. An example can be seen in “Connectivity and its Discontents”, where we are introduced to Randy (Turkle 621). Randy’s younger sister was recently engaged to be married, something that most people would consider a significant event. She and her fiance decided to make the announcement to their family and friends via e-mail, something that made Randy feel very far away from his sister emotionally. Social media can also have the effect that constantly updating our information and giving second by second updates on the ordinary events of our daily
The internet can be used for socializing with people in the article "Social media as a Community" it says that" An average user of a social networking site has more close ties and was half as likely to be isolated as the average American."Social media makes you have more friends than people who don't use social media. Social media users also know people from a greater variety of backgrounds.
However, like genetics, it also has many negatives. Technology does improve the world’s ability to communicate quickly and easily, but it also separates people socially. Social media and smartphones for example, have dramatically reduced human interaction. Everyone would rather communicate online than in the real world. According to Pew Research Center, “Roughly two-thirds of U.S. adults (68%) now report that they are Facebook users, and roughly three-quarters of those users access Facebook on a daily basis” (Smith and Anderson 1). This a huge portion the the American population that is using Facebook alone. There are many other social media platforms such as Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest that attract even more users. The more people use these services, the less they interact with others in person. Aldous Huxley once said, “Technological progress has merely provided us with more efficient means for going backwards” (Huxley 1). Before the technology that exists today, people were unable to communicate with others that weren’t in their area. Now, people tend to communicate with those around them less. As technology continues to improve, this situation will only become worse. Preventative action must be taken to prevent this from destroying human
When people spend all their time communicating via internet it does not develop the skills they need when it is time to speak with someone in real life. In essence, using technology for unreasonable amounts of time causes everyday responsibilities, such as sleeping and communicating with people, to suffer.
Is the advent and increasing use of social networks for human communication a net gain or loss? It is my point, and the point of this essay, to argue that even though we are communicating much more, we are going backwards in the overall experience and in interpersonal development as humans.
The epitome of a Good Life is the strong relationships humans are able to construct over time, but this can be affected by social media. Even though it connects individuals around the globe, social media can have a devastating effect on the establishment of communication in solid relationships. In Robert Waldinger’s “What makes a Good Life,” TED talk, he believes strong relationships are the framework of achieving a good life. Dr. Waldinger debates that the development of inter-social relationships could highly influence our life in a healthy manner, more than wealth and career success could. The need for relationships is seen through: (a) the Harvard Study, and (b) a healthy lifestyle. Clive Thompson’s article, “A Brave New World: I’m so Totally Digitally Close to You,” discusses how social media has revolutionized the way our community interacts. Instead of having one-to-one interaction with someone in person, now with just a “tweet” or “DM” a person easily contacts another person. He argues that the advancements of technology have led to our society developing an endless addiction to
Are people still feeling lonely even though they are connected online? Stephen Marche, in his article " Is Facebook Making Us Lonely ?", explains the correlation between using Facebook and loneliness. Facebook has been used worldwide for a long time and it has always been an interesting topic to debate on. Some people argue that Facebook is harmful by isolating people from others around, and that using Facebook might make people less satisfied, sadder and lonelier than ever before. Conversely, I and other people think this most popular social network is great, it makes the world more open and connected. Facebook is useful, it does not separate or make people lonely because Facebook is just a tool and everything depends on how it is used.
It goes to show that the more time spent using the internet, specifically social connection sites, the more depressed a person feels over long periods of time. According to these results it is hard to notice any change in emotion at first, making it hard for the general population to see the slow, gradual decline of productivity and enjoyment of life. Based on a plethora of different studies the idea that the internet is just a useful tool to help connect others to information and each other is a world-wide lie that is easier to believe than the truth; the internet, specifically social connection sites, are slowly eating away at productivity and positive self
But this has ceased to exist after the introduction of Smartphone 's and the internet. People prefer to chat in the many social media offered on the internet and accessed by their Smartphone 's, play games, listen to music and even blog than strike a conversation with a person sited next (Tuckle, 2011, 23). As much as people are communicating more, a threat of communication becoming more of quantity than quality is emerging. As much as the use of Smartphone 's and internet has expanded people socially and geographically, it drives people from authentic relations. Too much use of Smartphone 's and web results in declining people social circle. It is a fact that the more time people spend on their Smartphone 's and the internet the less time they has with their families, friends and other people in the society.
“Spending too much time online could lead to social isolation, loneliness and a negative outlook. These types of psychological symptoms could eventually lead to more serious health concerns, such as heart disease, cancer and dementia.”
With the development of internet, people are able to meet new friends who have the same interest or hobby through the internet. Although, it is easy to make friends on internet, people do not know whether the person they are talking to is good or bad. Some people will also spend most of their time on internet which leads them to less interaction with friends and family. Parents should concern more about their children while they are meeting new friends on internet. Although the internet allows people to stay in touch with distant family and friends, I think the negative effects
Social networking has become a major part of society. Many people wake up each day and check social media websites specifically throughout Twitter and Facebook first thing in the morning instead of reaching for a newspaper. Since people are spending such a large amount of time surfing social networks, it is important to point out some of the positive and negative effects that social networking can have on a society. The positive effects of social networking sites are allow people to create new relationships and reconnect with friends and family. Increased communication, even online, strengthens relationships. And the other is social networking sites make people share everything that they want and bring people with common interests together, offer exposure to new ideas from around the world, and lower inhibitions to overcome social anxiety.
Socialization is “the process whereby an individual acquires a personal identity and learns the norms, values, behavior and social skills that are essential appropriate to his or her social environment.” Socialization applies to our daily life and it’s the most important process of human society. Without socialization the human would not be able to take part in group life and develop human characteristics. The world wouldn’t never be organized and everyone would have their own ways of doing thing. The general rules that we follow every day tells us what we should and shouldn’t do and how we should interact in situations. There are always consequences if we violate the rules and everyone recognizes the rules. Individual personality is really important in socialization. As a child, we start to learn and imitate others behavior, and as we get older, we start to understand the social life and accustom to the environment we live in, which can have effects on our personality. Personality refers to the patterns of feeling, thought, and action that characterizes human beings. The experiences we go through in life can change our personality too. Socialization essentially represents the process of learning throughout the life course. The important theories of socialization are defined by Charles Horton Cooley, George Herbert Mead, Erving Goffman, Sigmund Freud and Judith R. Harris. Charles Cooley, George Mead and Erving Goffman mention the importance of the social side of
The first effect of using the internet is social isolation. Ordinarily, we have lost our face to face communication with people by social isolation. The outcome shows that people nowadays prefer utilizing the