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The Social Consequences Of Heteronormativity

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As children, we are indoctrinated into the social construct of heteronormativity. Based on our biological sex at birth, we are given blue or pink clothes, play princesses or superheroes, and are told either, “cross your legs and sit like a lady” or “act like a man and stop crying”. As adults, we watch movies and TV shows where the husband comes home from a long day at work to greet his wife who has just finished making dinner. Heteronormativity refers to those norms related to gender and sexuality which keep in place patriarchy and compulsory heterosexuality as well as other systems and ideologies related to power (Sharma 2009). Gay, lesbian, queer, homosexual, agender, androgynous, bigender, bisexual, butch, femme, dyke, stud, lipstick lesbian, gender fluid; There are a seemingly endless terministic screens used to label women who love women, but they all come down to one meaning, we aren’t normal. “Even if any given terminology is a reflection of reality, by its very nature as a terminology it is a selection of reality; and to this extent it must also function as a deflection of reality” (Burke 1968). Viewing lesbians through heteronormative gender roles oversimplifies complex identities into false dichotomies.
When I was around five years-old my step-sister, Kelly, came to live with us. I thought that she was the coolest person that I had ever met. It was 1990 and she was around 25, drove a lifted jeep, had a short haircut, and wore baggy jeans and Timberland boots in

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