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The Transnational Migration And Chicago Is Like Many Others

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The story of my transnational migration to Chicago is like many others. I was born and spent a large part of my childhood in the coastal city of Jeddah, Saudi Arabia with my family. Living there I spent a lot of time with my parents and other little girls in my neighborhood, we played together while our moms ate date pastries and our dads talked separately with espresso in another room. The boys always played outside, but sometimes we played tag together. It wasn’t until I came to America that I realized how different life in Saudi Arabia was. I realized that my own family had changed our daily behaviors and learned to become accustomed to the institutions of America. I realized the different way that religion, gender roles, and social expectations interacted within society to create cultural dynamics was vastly different in America, specifically in terms of gender roles and gendered behaviors. And as I grew older, I began to see how differently I would’ve grown had we chosen to stay there. Everything about me would be different in Saudi Arabia, and I see glimpses of that other self when I visit from time to time. Social life is organized immensely differently than in America, and because Saudi Arabia is an Islamic state, Islamic law is embedded into the culture and gender norms are emphasized in all aspects of everyday life. In Saudi Arabia, I must wear a full length Abaya that covers all parts of me but my eyes. I would not be allowed to drive. I would have to be

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