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To Kill A Mockingbird: The Fear You Shouldn T Have

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The Flinch

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The flinch is the fear you know you shouldn’t have.
”Fact: You can just watch yourself flinch. Act anyway. Forget the internal voice and go forward”
[It’s kind of like when you bungee jump. Once you go over the edge all you can do is watch yourself fall. The fear is there as you fall, but it can’t stop your body now. Put that in your head next time you feel the flinch.]
Ignoring the flinch is rarely fatal and often doesn’t hurt at all.
Every time you give in to the flinch you make it stronger. You make that path easier for your brain to follow. But the opposite is also true. Every time you ignore the flinch, you become stronger.
”Fact: Those who face the flinch make a difference. The rest do not.”
Strangest Secret
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It will return what you plant, but it doesn’t care what you plant.” [I think he is referring to the subconscious mind to a certain extent and the science shows this is true, but you still need to conscious work on what you want in life]
”Decide now; what is it you want? Plant your goal in your mind.”
”It’s the most important decision you’ll ever make in your entire life.”
”Life should be an exciting adventure. It should never be a bore. A man should live fully, be alive. He should be glad to get out of the bed in the morning. He should be doing a job that he likes because he does it well.”
”Write down on your card, specifically, what it is that you want. Make sure it is a single goal and clearly defined. You need not show it to anyone, but carry it with you so that you can look at it several times a day.” [I think the point of this isn’t to rely on your subscious or the “vibrations” of the Universe to magically give it to you, but rather to remind yourself what it is you really want so you actions will align with your desire. This is clear as he continues to say...]
”Do this knowing that your returns in life must be in direction proposition to what you
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I see appreciation as part of awareness. Focusing on just those two help me to take action. However, one thing you can’t forget when it comes to appreciation...]
...to make progress you must appreciate that nothing will be fixed overnight. It is a process you must stick to.

Facing Your Fears
But what you often don’t want to face is often what you need to face (and the more you do it, the easier it gets).
To help you take this difficult first step remember this: just as your emotions affect your actions, your actions also affect your emotions.
In other words, ->start by taking actionFocus on the genuine love for another when you are tempted to do your bad habitRemember to face the resistance, step out of your ego and focus on genuine love for another In order to get what you want in life, you have to make other people happy Stop turning to self-help books If you EVER complain or blame someone else for your life, you aren’t taking 100% responsibility. ANYTHING you can complain about can be fixed by YOU making new choicesSo make changes or STOP complaining<-
It’s your choice
Remember, we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with
And the friends who complain all the time are the ones who don’t make changes better their
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