Family teaches us the importance of knowledge, education, hard work and effort. If you don’t put enough effort in anything you do, don’t expect the best in return. Not everyone will knows the true meaning of family until the situation is bigger than you can handle and when you need someone there to listen or grade you to do the right thing, also to educate you to make the right choices. Never underestimate a person in your life that’s always there for you, that will go out of their way to make sure you’re alright. People have different stories to how they live their life. Whether it is it going to church every day with your family living a good life or at the bottom where you’re selling weed to make money so your family can have a roof over their heads. The four texts I have …show more content…
When their father died, their mother got depressed. She was drinking alcohol daily and was never sober. So June being the oldest had to step in and take care of his family. June had to sell weed to put food on the table and have money for his family if they needed anything they want. In this film the director gives the message that you should stick with your family and trust your instinct no matter what the situation or what people say. Also some issues of class/wealth. In each of these films we see how important it is to never give up on your family and how important it is to stink with your family through anything and everything. The director’s Patricia Riggen (Miracles from Heaven) and Jamal Hill (Brotherly love) of these films give the same purpose. That you should always stick with your family and trust your instinct no matter what people say about what’s happening. For an example from Miracles from Heaven is when Anna was in hospital. Christy went to church and people came up to Christy saying maybe this isn’t a mistake, bad things happened to bad people. Christy didn’t take
Parenting played a big role in shaping the two boys lives. Having a parental mentor is important because they assist and guide children to take the right decisions about their lives. The author had his two parents at the beginning of his life. Also, the author’s parents, especially his mother, tried to raise him in an effective way wanting him to know the right from wrong at an early age. “No mommy loves you, like I love you, she just wants you to do the right thing” (Moore 11). This quote was a live example of the author’s life with his parents. It reflected the different ways his parents used to teach him “the right thing.” Though his mother was upset from his action toward his sister, his father
Families can mean a lot of different things to different people. For some family is everything, just knowing that someone is there for you during a personal crisis to help you and provide you with love is comforting. However, at the same time a family can be heartless and relentless providing you with no comfort, instead just pain and misery. We all can agree that families shape our development and how we view the world. From childhood our thoughts and actions are shaped based on experiences from a sibling or parent that went through them. However, the influence of a family could be positive or negative, whether it is showing us the right side or perhaps making the same mistakes. In literature many writers have been influenced by their families two great examples are “A Brother’s Murder” by Brent Staples and “My father’s Life” by Raymond Carver, both writers express in great detail how families have shaped and affected them as individuals.
An unknown author once said, "Families are like fudge—mostly sweet with a few nuts. My family is the most important aspect to my life. No matter how much they sometimes pester or annoy me I still love them. I do not think people can live through life without the support of family. My family mostly supports me throughout all my actions, and they make me laugh. I do not really think I resemble either my mom or dad. They both had very difficult lives growing up, and I do not think I will ever experience that. Before there was me, there were my parents whose struggle against communism led them to the United States to find the life they deserved.
In more ways than one, your family teaches you things that are true to only you. Like, in Amy Ma’s essay she
Going through tough times made Jeannette’s parents fight each other more often which had an effect on the entire family. “In the morning she slept late and pretended to be sick. It was up to Lori, Brian, and me to get her out of bed and see to it that she was dressed and at school on time” (Walls 74). This is showing how when the family is facing hard times, they stick together and help each other out. Because this family is treated unfairly by society, they go through many struggles.
People from all backgrounds also appreciate the way the movie shows a family with having good times and bad times, especially in relation to the relationship between the family members. As Tom grew up, he had a good time with the mother and his brother mike as he shared in the warmth of the family. However, his life became the source of bad times when he decided to engage in
There father son relationship was ruined because they lost sight of how it is when you have family and how you are supposed to help each other out no matter what both of you are going through. So his father finally gave up living that was the last thing he could take before he finally died. That why family is so important while going through life especially the tough
The movie basically did a metaphorical domino affect, as you see the family slowly falling down. Like I mentioned earlier when a family gains or losses a family member it is now considered a whole new group. Sadly for the Jarrett family they lost a son and were now dealing with adjustments of living, in a sense, as a new family. Calvin, the father, does a very good job staying positive but still recognizing that something horrible happened to their family and things still need to be dealt with. Beth seems to only worry about the material things as a form of a distraction. You see her focusing on setting the silver just perfectly; worrying about what clothes her husband is going to wear, and she worries more about making sure that what is happening inside the family stays between the family. Conrad is emotionally going through a lot but tries his best to keep it inside.
In the beginning of the film, each member of the family feels isolated from one another,
In a different story and a different life, the same connection that responsibility to one’s family is important. From the eyes of a school aged girl who came with her family to america from the Dominican Republic, it is clear to see that family is always important. When the girl and her family came to America, all her mother wanted to do was invent. Her mami wanted to just do something great. But her home and job needed her first. She would work full day then come home and run her home. Only once her house was settled down for the night, would she think. With her husband asleep next to her, she “in her lighted corner, like some devoted scholar burning the midnight oil” (Alvarez 1) would the devoted mother invent. She would do her duties to
The story focuses that regardless when things don't appear to go your direction, you have to remember the significance of family since they will acknowledge you for your identity. This
In the film the family struggled with showing equal attention to each other because they are dealing with biological problems that are breaking them apart. Also
”Maybe a person is just made up of a lot of people. Maybe we’re accumulating these new selves all the time. Hauling them in as we make choices, good and bad, as we screw up, step up, lose our minds, find our minds, fall apart, fall in love, as we grieve, grow, retreat from the world, dive into the world, as we make things, as we break things.” I’ll Give You the Sun by Jandy Nelson illustrates the need for individuality, the necessity for family, and consequences with a relationship to how they affect others.
It also highlights simple pleasures in life that are often taken for granted like visiting a loved one or taking a walk. One thing Morrie said was, “If you don’t have the support and love and concern you get from a family, you don’t have much at all”. I often take for granted the love and support my family shows me every day in everything I do. The relationship that is shown between Morrie and Mitch helped me to realize that no one is guaranteed tomorrow. It also inspired me to appreciate the time I spend with the older people in my
The movies start out with a semi regular family, considering it is only a mother and a son, and the son is a heroin user. Dean Schmitz a movie reviewer for Variety says that, ¡§Many of the tragedies in the world are accidents; sad blunders of luck, but some, like the four stories in this film are the results of a chain of events that started off with ¡§normal everyday folks¡¨ and ended in the worst kind of way, and in a way that was not accidental, which is maybe the saddest thing of all.¡¨ All four characters start off as normal good people, other than the fact that three of them occasionally ¡§push off¡¨ which is the term used in the movie for shooting up heroin. The movie is broken down into three seasons of the same year, summer, fall, and winter. Summer is a great time for all of them, they seem to be doing well in life and most of their dreams seem to be within reach. Fall, is just what it says, all of the characters begin to fall into, or at least begin their decent in to their drug educed slumps. Finally comes winter, it is this season that all four characters hit rock bottom. Which is graphically depicted in a final montage of disturbing and shocking clips of all of them in their personal hell.