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What Are The Roles Of Women In The Yellow Wallpaper

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In Charlotte Perkins Gilman’s story, “The Yellow Wallpaper” the husband, John, is conventional for the time. During the 19th-century, men were at the top of the patriarchal order, this meant that his wife, Jane, had no say in what he did for her or to her. Being that John thought nothing was wrong with Jane and he was a well-known physician, he took her to a house for the summer so that she may get some rest.Jane due to circumstances had no say in the matter. John at times was controlling, but at the same time, he loved his wife. Most of his actions were typical of men in this time period and really say a lot about how men treated their wives back then and how they always imagined that they were the divine leaders of the household. Men in this …show more content…

Sometimes in “The Yellow Wallpaper” when he was controlling it was him trying to show love for her because he cared for her and wanted her to get over her temporary mental depression as he called it. John moved them into the summer home just for her sake so that she could get some air and start regaining her strength. John always took care of her as the narrator said, and he always made sure that she had special direction wherever she went. He forced her to take pills daily in hopes that his wife would recover. John probably thought that this was a good way of showing love to Jane, but in reality, he was just forcing her to become more and more mentally ill as time went on. John thought that if he did what was best for her then maybe she would have recuperated when really it was the opposite. John’s love and mindset were more of a straight and narrow path instead of a long, winding road such as a woman's. His love was not an extensive deep love for her but more of a companionship which is really all he could provide for her being that he did not really know how to love deeply. John did not know how to feel about things that were not to be felt and seen. This, though, is what John thought love was. John never asked her what she thought was best for herself which shows that there was not a lot of communication going on in the relationship. This really was the only way that John could show his love though because during this time period men did not take woman’s ideas seriously. John truly did care for his wife though because he put forth so much effort to try and make her better. Not being able to love deeply and communicate openly was a common recurring theme throughout the whole of the 19th-century between the husbands and

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