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What Determines When A Boy Becomes A Man?

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What determines when a boy becomes a man? Is he supposed to reach a certain age or are his experiences the things that distinguish him as man. Maybe it is a combination of motivation and guidance that mold a boy into a man. These thoughts and theories have taken a clear spot in the infinite stack of unanswered questions throughout history. During The Odyssey the reader can experience the theories of Homer’s ideas on how to become a man. Throughout the epic, Homer establishes a clear hypothesis of this transition directly with the character of Telemachus, a feeble child that eventually surprises many. With the help of the goddess Athena, Homer connects the theme of becoming a man with Telemachus’ actions. In The Odyssey, the sub-story of …show more content…

Homer slyly hints through his use of the goddess, the admiration and sympathy within Telemachus’ words for his nonexistent father, Odysseus. Although he actually has respect for Odysseus the warrior, the fact that he has no respect for Odysseus the father causes him to be emotionally inept to confront multiple situations. When Athena explains to him that his father is alive, Telemachus hastily responds that he was born of a man “with the most dismal fate”(1.230-237). If read in depth, Telemachus is hurt that he never knew his father personally, but underneath his foolish hate, he actually admires his father as the leader the stories make him out to be. With the help of the goddess, Telemachus finally is able to reach the point of maturity that enables him to let go of the past and focus on the future.
With Telemachus unhealthy grudge against his void father figure gone, he is able to overcome his abandonment and focus on his new responsibility as man of the house. His transformation becomes slightly clearer with his view on hospitality, otherwise know as xenia. Xenia back then was considered the most important value of a domestic Greek lifestyle and was believed to gain the person who practiced it best, favor with the gods. But when this sacred act is violated... what should one do? At first when the suitors came to court his mother, he was blinded by his imprudent hate for the absence of his father. He did not realize that the act of xenia

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