A conflict I recently had was with my father. My father is a conservative Evangelical Pentecostal Christian, and I identify myself as a Christian. He continually keeps forcing his religious beliefs down my throat, by trying to make me go to his Church every Sunday and if I don't, he claims that I'm straying away from God and in danger of going to hell. Another reason for the conflict is that he wants my brother and I to go there every Sunday, because people would ask him why his children weren't in church, which he thinks will ruin his reputation. I don't care at all if my family has the best reputation or the worst reputation, someone's opinion of me is totally irrelevant to me. We continually argue if going to Church every Sunday is needed …show more content…
My brother or I not going to church. Also, that my father is very close minded and intolerant to beliefs other than his own. What other problems surround the occurrence of the central problem? My father thinks that everyone in his Church is eying him and his family very closely, and if he doesn't have the perfect Christian family, his reputation will suffer.
Step Four: Identify the Root Cause(s)
Why does the causal factor exist? Because my brother and I don't want to be forced to follow my father's religion. Also, we will sometimes miss church because we're tired or that we have other things to do. What is the real reason the problem occurred? My father is a religious bigot and he thinks that his reputation will suffer if he doesn't have the perfect Christian family.
Step Five: Recommend and Implement Solutions
What can you do to prevent the problem from happening again? By forcing myself to go to his Church and pretend like my family is a perfect Christian family. How will the solution be implemented? By going to his church. Who will be responsible for it? My brother and myself. What are the risks of implementing the
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