Kabanata II.
Mga Kaugnay na literatura at Pag-aaral
Ang “bullying” ay ang pananakit o panloloko sa kapwa na nakakapagdulot ng kakaibang depresyon sa tao.
Ayon sa isang blog na pinamagatang “Kapamilya News Ngayon ni Ted Failon” talamak na ang nagaganap na pangbubully sa loob ng Pilipinas. Ayon dito, maramingdahilan kung bakit nabubully at nambubully ang isang tao. Maaring nabubully sila dahil sa kakulangang pinansyal, pisikal na kaanyuan, at pisikal na kapansanan. Bunsod nito, maraming kabataan ang katutuwaan siya at gagawan ng mga panloloko. Sa kabilang banda, ayon sa pananaliksik ni Ted Failon, maari namang nambubully ang isang tao dahil sa inggit, galit o kaya’y impluwensiya ng barkada sa kanya. Karaniwan na ngang laman itong mga
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However, adults can be repeatedly aggressive and use power over each other, too. Adults in the workplace have a number of different laws that apply to them that do not apply to kids.
Early Childhood
Young children may be aggressive and act out when they are angry or don’t get what they want, but this is not bullying.
Young Adults
Behaviors that are traditionally considered bullying among school-aged youth require special attention and different strategies in young adults and college students.
The Roles Kids Play
There are many roles that kids can play. Kids can bully others, they can be bullied, or they may witness bullying. When kids are involved in bullying, they often play more than one role. Sometimes kids may both be bullied and bully others or they may witness other kids being bullied. It is important to understand the multiple roles kids play in order to effectively prevent and respond to bullying.
• Importance of Not Labeling Kids
• Kids Involved in Bullying
Importance of Not Labeling Kids
When referring to a bullying situation, it is easy to call the kids who bully others "bullies" and those who are targeted "victims," but this may have unintended consequences. When children are labeled as "bullies" or "victims" it may:
• Send the message that the child's behavior cannot change
• Fail to recognize the multiple roles children might play in different bullying situations
• Disregard other factors contributing to the behavior such as peer influence or school
Victims do not report bullying because they are afraid of the bullies and do not want the problem to get worse (Cohen, 2008). Bystanders who witness the bullying are also reluctant to report the bullying because they do not want to get bullied in the future or because they do not see the attacks as pertaining to bullying (Cohen, 2008).
Background: Many reports show over the last decade, studies demonstrate that a bully culture dominates our schools. In a 2005 national survey, 65 percent of teens reported having been verbally or physically
It is important that teachers and other school staff are monitoring the school and all areas. Bullying can occur anywhere from the hallways, bathrooms, cafeteria, classroom, locker rooms, outside areas, and even the school bus. The school needs to constantly educate the children the importance of informing someone that bullying is happening in order for someone to properly and immediately put a stop to the bullying and help all involved (Bullying, 2018). In the video “bullying: what every adult needs to know”, some school are incorporating role-playing in order to educate the students about bullying and its effects but also help the children and adolescents who are the bullies be able to step in their victim’s shoes and be able to experience what they were doing and what hurtful emotions they were or can cause their victims. With role-playing, the school, parents, and the community can help educate and teach the proper skills to the students on how to handle the situation if they are being bullied or witnessing someone being bullied. Many children or adolescents who are bullies have been known to have been bullied themselves, or they have witnessed bullied behaviors in their home and are acting out their emotions and pain onto others who may seem vulnerable. With the intervention, education and role playing on bullying that should be implicated in schools, it can help show bullies the proper way to handle situations and also teach them the proper skills to control their emotions in a more appropriate
Bullying is defined as “verbal, physical, or psychological abuse or teasing accompanied by real or perceived imbalance of power” and is usually targets what children perceive as different (Olweus, 1993). Bullying is prevalent across the nation. It has devastating effects on students each day. Bullying is a problem for all students, regardless of race, gender or class. The National Education Association reports that 160,000 children are absent intentionally from school each day because they fear being bullied whether it is an attack or just intimidation by other students. This accounts for 15% of all school absenteeism (Hunter, 2012). Dan Olweus (1993) from the National School Safety Center tells us that bullying includes three parts: (1)
Even though bullying affects everyone, boys tend to bully more, and often towards other boys; also, younger children that bully typically do this through physical aggression a nd verbal abuse. Other more elaborate types of bullying such as cyberbullying, spreading rumors, and m any others are less gender assigned. In this sense, girls tend to be both the bull ied and the bullies just as much as the boys. It is extremely possible to be a victim of bullying beca use of one's racial status. It is difficult to distinguish which group of people are more
Bullying is a problem that is on the rise in society; however, many individuals have a distorted view of what bullying entails. Usually when someone thinks of bullying, they assume that it is a standard part of a child’s life. This view, on the contrary, is erroneous. Bullying is actually abnormal behavior, many times, leaving victims with a dismantled self identity. Since some people do not understand the consequences of bullying, the actions of the bully often go unnoticed and are perceived as “kids being kids”. The issue of bullying goes deeper than that nevertheless. Despite the erroneous views that many individuals hold towards bullying, it is still a distortion of normal behavior in children.
Notar and Padgett provide a review of current research on the roles adults play in bullying. Adult roles are divided into three subgroups: parents, teachers and adults in general. There are two common themes demonstrated throughout these groups.
Bullying behavior, broadly described as intimidating or harassing another person through physical or verbal assaults and insults, can begin at any age, but it seems to be a particular problem among children and adolescents. Although bullying is usually a one-on-one behavior, it also has a broader social impact. Victim may feel
Bullying is bound to happen anywhere at any time but occurs mostly within school limits. Kathleen Winkler defines bulling in her book, Bullying, as “...any kind of ongoing physical or verbal mistreatment, done with the intent to harm, where there is an imbalance of power between bully and victim” (Winkler 14). Bullying has an extremely important impact on one’s everyday life and can affect their life negatively getting to the point where they can no longer take the blow. To try and prevent bullying from taking place in schools, one needs to know how bullying effects a person, what the role of each person involved in the situation is, and have knowledge of specific methods on how to prevent it. Bullying in schools is a serious problem and a handful of school do their part to prevent it; others, not as much, which means there is room for improvements.
There are many roles that individuals can play when it comes to bullying. Some participate in bullying others. Others are the victims of bullying, and sometimes they might be both, bullied and bullies. Bullies search for any reasons to pick on or ridicule their victims which put them in a position of power. Victims can take control, but this will require adult intervention. When victims are made to feel loved, respected and
Is bullying an epidemic or is it just kids being kids? Some would suggest that our kids are becoming more aggressive lending to bullying. Others argue that kids are being kids, they need to learn how to survive in a competitive, cruel world. The U.S. Government defines bullying as unwanted, aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Actions may include making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a group on purpose. Dan Olweus, developed a three-part definition outlined in Bully/victim problems among school children to help determine if bullying is
Bullying is a pervasive problem among children and adolescents, and may take various forms including physical (e.g., hitting), verbal (e.g., name-calling), relational (e.g., social isolation), or occurring in cyber space. Previous studies have consistently shown that depression is associated with exposure to bullying. Bully-victims, a group of individuals who are both bullies and victims, are a distinct group at highest risk for psychosocial problems.
When it comes to bullying nearly everyone has heard of the old saying, “kids will be kids.” This was during the time when this behavior only happened on the playground. With a changing society the term bullying has also been altered. No single factor puts a child at risk of being bullied or bullying others. Bullying can happen anywhere. The term bullying is defined as, “unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real
Bullying is defined as an act of peer aggression in which a more powerful child or adolescent repeatedly exerts actual or perceived power over a weaker victim (Olweus, 1993). Bullying is a serve problem in all schools around the world. Victims do not report bullying to their parents or teachers. Victims fear if they report bullying that it would make the situation worse. There are different types and characteristic of bullying. Bullying has many contributing factors. The Rational Emotive Behavioral Education (REBE), ViSC, and Youth Matters (YM) are prevention programs to prevent bullying.
With school-aged children, bullying more frequently happens while they are at school, or afterward when the students are not being supervised by their teacher in places like the cafeteria, bus, lockers, playground or neighborhood. Now that kids have access to online technology, bullying can also happen on the internet. With this in mind, teachers must now research and understand what bullying is, and develop methods to help fight against bullying. Bullying is the aggressive, unwanted behavior that occurs between kids of all ages. Children that bully are using the power they believe they have over other kids to try to control and harm them. Bullying can happen via verbal, social, or physical abuses, such as name-calling, threats, spreading rumors, isolation, embarrassment, spitting, hitting, destroying personal things, etc. In order to be considered bullying, these bad behaviors are repeated over time.