REBLOGGED. 60 Things Guys Should Know About Girls 1) For all we talk about how hot guys are. We mostly care about there personality. Though a hot body is a plus 2) We are just as shy as you are about relationships 3) Many of us don't let you see us cry, unless we want you to comfort us 4) We like dropping small flirts, to see if you are interested. But we will later deny it or make it into a joke 5) Most of us prefer to be call beautiful than hot or sexy. But not all of us 6) We only wear mini skirts, tank tops and skimpy cloths for you (unless it's REALLY REALLY hot outside). So if you don't like what we wear say something likely look really nice today, but you know...I think I like you in jeans better' 7) We travel in …show more content…
27) Girls daydream about their crushes ALL the time. They just don't show it. 28) When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. She doesn't need you to fix it or tell her how to. She just wants you to listen. 29) When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be all right. And more likely than not, it will endear them to you more than anything else. 30) Girls love it when guys say their name 31) Girls love confidence 32) When a girl cooks for you, you know you mean a lot to her 33) Girls hate it when other girls flirt. Yet they flirt themselves too. Ah, the beauty of irony 34) We don't enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening. 35) Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook. 36) Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships. 37) No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe to us. Not because we don't like your taste in women, because believe me WE do! its just that...we don't want to have to wonder if she is better than us. And if she is a hoe, we are better. So it makes things simple for us. 38) We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. But we CAN try and hide it. 39) Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases
because we guys take things not too personal. Guys do not like expressing their feelings about themselves to other people and man do not have a perspective in beauty when it comes to ourselves or other men, that is because men are not judgemental towards other men. On the other hand, females are always taking things too personal and serious, and they are always comparing each other with their looks to other friends and women are always asking for opinions in how they look to other friends because of the insecurities they bring since little from playing with toys. When it comes to beauty we guys are somewhat really laid back about it and it is because men are way to confident for someone else or something else to bring their self esteem down, but on the other hand women are always comparing themselves with more beautiful people or the barbies toys that the author Dave Barry talks about in this “The Ugly Truth about Beauty” essay.
So, I've seen a lot of articles about girls writing to a certain group of guys who treat girls with little thought. There are articles about guys being players and guys who can't seem to be tied down or stay in a relationship. Well, I'm here to say that I am the girl version of that guy. Even though I see myself settling down someday, I can't keep a relationship going for more than a few months.
What does being beautiful really mean? It is the possessing qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, or think about. It goes way beyond the looks but what is within. The media seems to have a different view on beauty. The concept to tell someone what they are or what they should be, is what the media exhibits to society with ideal females known as “models.” In Curtis Sittenfeld, “Your Life as a Girl,” she describes the life as a female and the way they are being viewed. Although all females are beautiful, they feel like they need to appear a certain way to be categorized as such. Living in a world where others opinions are more powerful than one’s own, makes it harder for women to actually consider themselves as being beautiful.
Social attraction is very important in romantic relationships, if your significant other does not like your friends or they do not get along, this could be a deal breaker and end of the relationship. The study was to determine which distinctive nonverbal practices were related to romantic enthusiasm for an attractive person and if these practiced contrasted as a component of relationship status and self- reveled love for one’s significant other. Impersonation was directly connected with the romantic enthusiasm for the person, impersonation was negatively connected with the self- announced love for one’s significant other. This recommends that impersonation capacities to flag favored social distance. While positive nonverbal actions such as grinning, smiling, vocal enjoyableness rose as critical affiliative nonverbal practices. The results show that impersonation of another is a relationship-support instrument, which is expressed unexpectedly, nonconscious, and automatically. People use their nonverbal behavior to show that they are available to others (Farley, S. (2014). This study shows how one’s social perception of a partner affects their
She first tried on a plain black skirt with ruffles at the bottom that fell to the middle of her thigh. “I wonder if wearing skirts are popular at this school?” she mumbled under her breath. She quickly changed into shorts that seemed to be so old that she couldn’t even remember when she’d bought them. “What if showing my legs are a bit much for the first day,” she mumbled again. “I’ll just play it safe by slipping on
In the years leading up to the feminist movement, men initiated the contact with women. Men would woo young women by their charm and with the permission of her parents, spend time together. As time progressed, dating became more common and a way of really getting to know someone. With the emergence of the twenty-first century, dating has taken an entirely new form with many stages. The first stage of dating is of course the initial “liking of someone because they are attractive” stage. This stage then leads to the talking stage. As…. says, “talking” is a time in which two people may casually get to know each other through texting, talking on the phone and hanging out casually, possibly while going on dates.
As we start our day, we try to find something to wear. Immediately, we are worried about what people will think if we wear those pants that are a little tight, or the skirt that is a little young for us,
If I allowed myself to cry I knew that I wouldn't survive. If I allowed myself to feel the pain there was nothing in this world that would save me.
From the different cultural beauty standards, to the double standards between males and females, to the dangerous ways to achieve these “ideal looks”, should these factors really define your beauty? In the essay, Pigott constantly changes the way she looks because she feels that in order for her to be defined as “beautiful”, she needed to be acknowledged by her peers and friends; in other words, she felt the need to conform herself to societal norms in order to feel “accepted”. Due to this, Pigott unknowingly wears a mask and hides her true self from the world. The societal pressure she experienced has blinded her from seeing her beauty and has lost her self-worth as a beautiful woman, as she believes that pleasing others and receiving compliments are the only factors that make her “beautiful”.
5. If something goes wrong, it’s seldom my fault. It all depends on the situation at hand, sometimes it’s my fault, sometimes it isn’t. I try and prevent it from being my fault.
2. How is self-concept affecting the interaction? Is it helping it? Hindering it? Explain using concepts from the text.
3. If a man stares at a woman, his attitude is likely perceived as innocent; if a woman stares at a
3. The biggest reason we can be incredibly insecure at times is because of the media's standards of beauty.
Self-awareness is another part of how we perceive ourselves. The degree to which we are aware of ourselves vary. There are two different types of self-awareness, your private self-awareness and your public self-awareness. Your private self-awareness is the awareness of your internal state such as your thoughts, feelings, or desires. It can make us more aware of our attitudes and values. When our behavior doesn’t match our values, a discrepancy is made. Because discrepancies are viewed as negative, we will usually seek to change our behavior.
What is beauty? How do we decide who is attractive and who is not? Society is full of information telling us what is beautiful, but what fact is that information based on? The topic of beauty has been studied, analyzed and controversial for centuries. We all know the feeling you can have when you hear a beautiful song that brings joy to your heart, stand in a field of flowers that excites your eyes, or admire a face that is visually pleasing. As human beings, we are all drawn to beauty, but what is it that makes something beautiful? The controversial issue that surrounds beauty is that some believe that true beauty is defined by someone’s outer appearance, while others believe it is something that is experienced through a person’s