In the article, “ A Tale of Two Summers for Parents”, by Belinda Luscombe makes a point in which summer is the most difficult time especially for parents. The difficulty is mainly due to the fact that the children have 6 extra hours of free time on their hands and that the parent working works for minimum wage. At these circumstances the parent cannot get a babysitter, therefore leaving the child alone while the parent works to be able to put a meal on the table. As it was stated in the article, Deborah Harrell, was taken into custody for leaving her 9 year old daughter at the park with a cell phone while Deborah went to work at a McDonald’s that was near. These are the results of low wage income and the cost for a babysitter when it isn’t …show more content…
If someone leaves their child at a park and goes to work only to work for minimum wage income. We should not charge the people for supervision, we should be glad to help out our community. Children may get into accidents even lose their lives if they are left without responsible supervision. Would you like it if you worked at a job where they payed you minimum wage and you also had a 9 or 10 year old child? Knowing that you cannot afford a babysitter, knowing that you will have to leave your child at a park close to work or even at home where they can set the house on fire? I know I would not want that. At last, I would like to state that their needs to be an organization for taking care of children, no payments involved, serves for community service. Have Teens and Adults look after children in a park for someone who cannot afford a babysitter during the summer. It is not about the money, it is about how you make an impact on your community and those around you. It is about helping those in need without the worry about money. Where the parent can drop off their child at the park where this organization could at and have the parent have full trust. It is about helping one another even if you do not know the other person you’re helping out. To me an organization like this is something that needs to be started for the people in the community. I know there will be complications with starting an organization that provides free child supervision but it is not impossible and if we all were to play a role in it then it could be something that helps out other people in the
In the article,"How Summer is making U.S kids Dumber and Fatter," by Peter Orszag, the author states that kids are getting dumber and fatter during the summer based on their socioeconomic level. Orszag's uses a problem/solution structure in order to describe low socioeconomic students falling behind on their education during summer. This text is intended for students and adults. The problem is that U.S kids are getting dumber and fatter during the summer. The kids that are falling behind are the low socioeconomic kids. There are three solutions to help it, the first solution is to lengthen the school year. The second solution is to make a free lunch program for low socioeconomic people. The third solution is to make kids join a summer
In “The Myth Of Co-Parenting: How It Was Supposed To Be. How It Was.,” Hope Edelman lays out the many obstacles she and her husband, John, had to overcome in their first years of marriage. She admits that from the beginning she assumed that all responsibilities would be split 50/50: if she contributed to the household income, he would contribute to helping out with childcare and housekeeping. But because John was in the midst of starting a new business and was working up to 92 hours per week, Edelman quickly realized how wrong her assumption was. As her own work hours started to dwindle down to about 18 per week, Edelman started to become extremely angry with the way her household as being run. She wanted John there to help her make decisions,
In her article “The Myth of Co-Parenting: How It Was Supposed to Be. How It Was”, author Hope Edelman claims that perhaps the ideal, balanced, and harmonious marriage that many couples yearn for is merely an unachievable myth. Edelman’s anger and frustration drives her essay as she recounts her childhood, analyzes societal gender roles, and narrates her own relationship in order to explore the concept of shared responsibility in a marriage.
All parents are faced with multiple, daily child-rearing tasks, and on one hand some face unreliable transportation, unsteady work and unreliable cash inflow. Yet, the poor families have to work harder to execute their goals. Working-class and poor families may have more environmental concerns that affect their daily life; therefore affecting the time they are able to spend supervising their children’s activities. • Interactions with Institutions and
The article “a tale of two summers for parents” by Belinda Luscombe talks about leaving kids by themselves. A woman named Deborah Harrell was taken to custody for leaving her 9year old daughter in a park. I believe that elementary-school-age children do require adult supervision because of how yungo and knowledgeable they are. Even though Harrell left her daughter near by and gave her a phone, it's still not right to have leave the child all alone. In a matter of seconds harrells daughter could have been kidnapped by some person.
In observation #1, the both parents were effective in getting a desired behavior from their children. The little boy’s mother was effective by encouraging her son to tell the truth. This is long-term because the boy didn’t fear the truth and informed his mother of what had happened. Her reaction and understanding motivates the child to tell the truth. On the other hand, the little girl’s
In the article “ A tale of two summers for parents”by Belinda Luscombe, it explains how two parents have to deal with summer for their children. One who can send their kid to a last minute summer camp and one who can’t. This transitions to if elementary aged children really need adult supervision. I say elementary aged children don’t need adult supervision.
In my opinion, fairness was not apart of the theme in Kelly Link’s story, “Secret Identity.” The main character of the story, Billy Faggart, is a fifteen-year-old girl who has been chatting online with a thirty-four year old man named Paul Zell, in a game called "FarAway." Billy was pretending to be her older sister, Melinda, who is a high school teacher. Billy was wrong to trick such a lonely man into thinking that he was in love with her, when she is only fifteen. Kelly Link’s stories "Secret Identity," and “The Summer People,” are similar in that they represent themes of justice, equality, and redemption. In, “The Summer People,” redemption is portrayed when Fran leaves Ophelia and then feels guilty. Fran then lies to Ophelia saying she
During the 1900s, America’s children went to school and played. Children spent their summer in the sun by doing outside activities like swimming as well as reading books and enjoying an ice cream break. However, as recently as the early years of this century, there were many poor children that did not live the same lifestyle. These children did not have time to play because they spent their days in factories, coalmines, and in fields. Over two million children in America under the age of 16 had jobs that consisted of twelve hours without stopping. Many children were forced to work because many came from poor families who needed the extra help. The brutal conditions of working long hours and unsafe environments lead some individuals to
Leaving her children at home, is no doubt more secure than in a park filled with strangers , but definitely less guarded for unprotected mishaps for children with “6 more hours of free time” on their hands. Luscombe analyzes this thought deeper and showcases that parents who do have high paying jobs can afford to “invest in flexibility” while those without are “highly replaceable”. However, Luscombe does not further her statement by defending her case, rather she hypocritically associates herself with the same irresponsible actions. These actions also associated with absence of being part of their everyday lives, much like she recalls” sign(ing) one of my kids up for an advanced skills soccer camp, even though he didn't really play soccer.” Does Luscombe know her kids well, or spending quality time with them? This much like other unjustifiable actions show capricious behavior for a mother, and a
500 days of summer is a story where a boy meets a girl, he falls in love with her yet she does not truly love him. The movie shows the progression of the relationship of Tom and Summer. It begins when they first meet when Summer begins working as a secretary where Tom works and progresses to them casually dating. Summer is obviously hesitant and against relationships yet Tom is overly eager to find the perfect girl. The story ultimately shows the demise and after effects of their relationship. At first thought anyone could think this is the typical love story where the movie casually progresses to them living happily ever after. This is not that kind of fairy tale love story.
There are several parenting styles which guide children throughout their life. These parenting styles can be either good or bad and this will have an effect on the child; either a positive or a negative one. This essay investigates the parenting styles from which emerge questions about the role of the mother and the father. It also focuses on the ways that either too much mothering or too much fathering might have an effect on the child’s identity later on in its life.
Parenting styles are as diverse as parents themselves. Parenting is one of the most challenging and difficult responsibilities a person can face. The way a family is structured is called the parenting style. Parenting styles are collections of parental attitudes, practices, and non-verbal expressions that characterize the nature of parent-child relationships. Because individuals learn how to parent from many different examples including their own parents, role models, society and life experiences. Parenting techniques can vary greatly from household to household, however, experts believe that parenting styles can be broken down into four main categories which include permissive,authoritarian,authoritative,and
What makes a good parent? People have always tired to find out the answer, because what makes a good parent makes a good family and what makes a good family makes a good society and finally what makes a good society makes the world we live in a good one. Actually it is family where all the social ills come from. It is family that predetermines what kind of society we will have tomorrow, because the society of tomorrow will be born to and moulded in the family of today. So if we want to find out what makes a good parent and try to change the society we'll be living in we've got to start right now. So let's start.
Being a parent comes with a lot of responsibility and difficult decision making. You always have your child's best interest at heart, but sometimes your child may disagree with the rules you have set down. That is why, I believe, the perfect parenting style is democratic. You can compromise with your child, but still have basic rules you want them to follow, without them feeling targeted or that you are being unfair. When i become a parent, I want to make sure my children have guidelines. I want them to be able to make their own mistakes and learn from them. Their health, their type of entertainment and the toys they play with are three major, broad categories that I would like to have a say in, along with their input of course.