The last Thursday in November, also widely celebrated as Thanksgiving in the United States. The smells of sweet corn, stuffing, and mashed potatoes with gravy swirl around the households of many Americans. Thursday night the family cleans their leftover turkey and mashed potatoes off the table while listening to the radio station. An all too familiar genre of music starts to play on the radio. Christmas music has been a tradition for many years in the United States. Radio stations often start playing the catchy holiday jingles the second the average Thanksgiving dinner has ended. However, one song stands out in particular among the rest. Anyone with a radio during the Christmas season has heard this overplayed, subtly disturbing song. …show more content…
Lisa Millbank writes about serious feminism topics, such as sexual assault and rape. In her article, “Under Duress: Agency, Power and Consent, Part One: ‘No’” Lisa discusses language used around sexual assault and rape cases. She goes into detail about the “No Means No” rule that feminists around the world have spread and stuck to. In the song, the woman says “I simply must go, the answer is no” (Martin). The woman directly says no to staying at the man’s house. According to Lisa, this gives the woman the responsibility to say no and the person listening the option to respect it. In the song, the man does not respect the woman saying no and wishing to leave. Instead, the man simply interrupts and makes the excuse that the cold conditions outside will cause her more harm.
The next portion of Lisa’s article discusses the topic of being drunk and consenting abilities. In Baby, It’s Cold Outside, the girl agrees to have a “half a drink more”. This implies the drink has alcohol in it. After tasting it, the woman says, “say what’s in this drink?”. The man knows the woman has had alcohol, but still continues to get her to stay in his home. (Martin) Lisa says, “someone who presses on with sex while knowing that the other person is sufficiently drunk that their consent may be unclear, or that they themselves are sufficiently drunk that they may not notice signals of non-consent”. Even though the man in the song
The story titled “Let it snow” written by David Sedaris is about a fifth-grader whose mother’s alcoholism affected his family. In the story the author comes up with a plan to teach his parents a lesson. The story centers a snowstorm and children playing in it. The story talks about the narrator’s mother who has a drinking problem and how she mistreats her children. Disturbing Episodes in the author’s life, and all the anger the children felt for being abused by their mother. The narrator, as a fifth-grader, thinks he can teach his parents a lesson by having his sister get hit by a car and that will be the solution, a way of punishing his parents for being treated unjust.
In "Living like Weasels", author Annie Dillard uses rhetorical devices to convey that life would be better lived solely in a physical capacity, governed by "necessity", executed by instinct. Through Dillard 's use of descriptive imagery to indulge her audience, radical comparisons of nature and civilization, and anecdotal evidence, this concept is ultimately conveyed.
Alex Kotlowitz’s There Are No Children Here is a documentary exploring life in inner-city Chicago during the late 1980’s. The book follows the lives of two African American youth, Lafeyette and Pharoah Rivers, who live in Chicago’s Horner Homes over the course of two years. It tells of a lifestyle that is a reality for many Americans and forces the reader to acknowledge a broken system that so many turn a blind eye toward. Kotlowitz does not sugarcoat the struggles and hardships that the citizens of the inner-city face every single day. The Rivers’ boys, like all the children of inner-cities, experience situations and know of unimaginable horrors that rob them of their innocence and childhoods. Lafeyette and Pharoah have to face and overcome many forces that can change their lives for the worst, such as: gangs and drugs, the social system, the Chicago Housing Authority, and the battle within them to give into the worst of society. Sociological concepts, including: racism, strain theory, and social stratification can explain some of the exploitation of Lafeyette and Pharoah.
The novel “The Coldest Winter Ever” by Sister Souljah follows the life of the lead character Winter Santiago and her family. Born in Brooklyn,New York, Winter Santiago was the daughter of a young mother and the notorious drug dealer Ricky Santiago. From the beginning of the novel Winter lets it known that she was born into luxury, and just because she lived in the projects of Brooklyn didn't mean she was poor.In fact it was the exact opposite for the Santiago family.Winter came into adolescence as a shallow, self-centered individual, motivated solely by physical attractiveness, material possessions and the desire to attract as many men as possible. On Winter’s six-tenth birthday her father Ricky Santiago decides it's finally time to move his family out of the ghetto. Winter’s mother and sisters were very excited for the move although Winter was livid. The family’s move to a mansion in Long Island did not stop Winter from desiring her ghetto culture. It also didn’t help that neither parents were actual parents to Winter. Shortly after the family moves to Rhode island the FBI raid the house and arrest Ricky Santiago on several charges. After Santiago’s arrest his empire begins to crumble. All of the family possessions are seized leaving Winter, her mother and her three younger siblings to fend for themselves. Winter selfishness didn't let that happen,she decided to go on her own and hustle her way back into the lifestyle she once lived.Unfortunately things didn't work out for winter the way she wanted. Instead of getting things done on her own Winter looked for a man to take care of her, because that was the only thing her mother taught her. The same man that was supposed to love and take care of her let her take the fall for his crimes, and ultimately sent Winter to jail for a fifth-teen year sentence.
In Cold Blood, written by Truman Capote, is a book that encloses the true story of a family, the Clutters, whose lives were brutally ended by the barrel of a 12-gauge shotgun. The killers were 2 men, each with 2 different backgrounds and personalities, each with his own reasons to take part in such a harrowing deed. Capote illustrates the events leading up to the murder in sharp detail and describes its aftermath with such a perspective that one feels that he is right there with the culprits, whose names are Dick Hickock and Perry Smith. They had very critical roles in the murder and how they themselves were caught, and in many ways they were foils for one another. Through Capote's extensive descriptions
Strong bonds built upon trust and dependability can last a lifetime, especially through strenuous moments when the integrity of a bond is the only thing that can be counted on to get through those situations. In Elie Wiesel’s memoir, Night, he writes about his life spent in the concentration camps, while explaining the experiences and struggles that he went through. However, not everything during that period was completely unbearable for Wiesel. When Wiesel arrived at the first camp, Birkenau, the fear instilled in him and the loneliness he would have felt forced him to form a stronger attachment to his father. That dependence towards his father gave Wiesel a reason to keep on living. In turn, his father was able to support Wiesel and make the experiences in the camps a bit more manageable.
“Colder Than Hell: A Marine Rifle Company at Chosin Reservoir” is a memoir written by Joseph R. Owen, a lieutenant of Baker Company, 1st Battalion, 7th Regiment. Lt. Owen narrates his experience as an officer in the Korean War, in an attempt to show the public what war is from a soldier's point of view. Readers are shown what sacrifices soldiers have to make during times of war, they are shown the experience of war through a different pair of eyes. The Chosin action is justly called majestic; and in this memoir, Lieutenant Owen tells the tale of the common men who made it so. Joseph informs the public about the experiences of the 7th Marine Regiment and the tragic end of the Chosin Reservoir where many Marines lost their lives. He shows us what sacrifices a soldier must make for his country, and he helps readers understand the impact of war on a man. The memoir was an extraordinarily detailed and realistic account of war, allowing the public to read the tale and enjoy not only a thrilling retelling of Chosin Reservoir, but also a memoir
Salvation Through God’s Grace: Analysis of Asbury Conversion in Flannery O´Connor´s Story “The Enduring Chill”
Book Summary- In Fablehaven, two kids, Seth and Kendra Sorenson are dropped off at their grandparents house while their parents go on a cruise for “family reasons.” When they arrive at their grandparents house, Grandpa Sorenson acts suspicious when the kids wonder where their grandmother is. Grandpa Sorenson introduces them to Lena, the housekeeper and Dale who helps with yard work. He then leads them to a spacious attic space where there are many things to be entertained with. Grandpa only has two rules for Kendra and Seth: No going into the woods and never enter the barn. Kendra is given three keys, over a couple of days she finds that one key goes to a jewelry box and one to a dollhouse. In the dollhouse, there are two more hidden
"Where there 's a will, there 's a way" is a phrase often used here in America and it holds true to all walks of life including migrant workers. The desires range from the simple want to make an honest living to wanting to support the family to just wanting to live the American dream. However, the "way", does not always possess the same innocent light of the optimistic saying. In Eric Schlosser’s article, “In the Strawberry Fields” he discusses exactly that. Immigrants often end up doing the laborious farm work most Americans are unwilling to do with good reason. More specifically, he discusses the working conditions of migrant workers in strawberry fields, one of the most difficult row crops to grow. This work is largely done in California where the farming industry is allowed to bend laws as they please, routinely exploiting the vulnerability of immigrants’ legal states. Though, the concepts of small fruits and workers ' rights are not completely relatable to one another until we move past the happy connotation of the vibrant red, juicy fruit and into the grittier efforts that go into making them what we know in grocery stores. Many of us have the pleasant memories of the cool fruit on warm summer days but this image is quite the opposite to its production. Bent at the waist, hundreds of migrant workers, pick fruits under the sweltering summer sun and it would seem like a way a farming that vanished long ago but it is most certainly here. Though the conditions are worsened
Annie Dillard’s essay “Living Like Weasels” exhibits the mindless, unbiased, and instinctive ways she proposes humans should live by observing a weasel at a nearby pond close to her home. Dillard encounters about a sixty second gaze with a weasel she seems to entirely connect with. In turn, this preludes a rapid sequence of questions and propositions about “living as we should”. Unfortunately, we tend to consume our self with our surroundings and distractions in life, which is not a problem until we are blatantly told. How have we strayed so far from our once instinctive lifestyle?
One’s wellbeing is determined by physical and emotional health. In health sciences students learn about body and brain functioning. Emotions,stress and decision-making have a significant impact on mental and physical health. Alcoholism is often a coping mechanism resulting in negative health consequences. David Sedaris’ mother is probably and alcohol, and her addiction has a negative impact on herself and her family. A common trope in pop culture is the drink a mother or a father pour themselves after a long day to relieve some of the stress of a daily routine . In fact, many studied have shown that in moderation, alcohol can actually have health benefits. However, when one abuses alcohol, the consequences are oftentimes disastrous and the repercussions of alcohol abuse are longterm. In his essay ”Let it snow”, David Sedaris demonstrates the consequences of his mother’s alcoholism. The emotional, physical and long-term effects of alcoholism are central to his family’s health.
Celebrity Lena Dunham, however, is protesting this aspect of society. She has decided to make use of the word “no” more often in 2016, and encourages women in the working world to do the same.
The lack of logic behind all intoxicated sex being categorized as nonconsensual can be seen in an example given by Keith Burgess Jackson in which he jokes that couples are raping each other whenever they engage in intoxicated sexual intercourse. Even though Keith Burgess Jackson is light heartedly poking fun at the current state of laws regarding intoxicated sex and consent, it something that should actually be taken seriously because it is evident that citizens of the United States are being misinformed about this situation. A person could engage in intoxicated sex one day and be facing criminal charges the next day, even though both parties agreed to the act. This all occurs because the person someone had sex with blindingly decided to conform to the notions that drunken sex is nonconsensual and “nonconsensual sex is rape” (United States). People are wrongfully being jailed because all forms of intoxicated sex are deemed nonconsensual because of the confusion our society has on whether all forms of intoxicated sex is consensual sex.
In the 2003 movie “The Cooler”, the main character, Bernie, is an extremely unlucky man whose job is to end the hot streaks of players at the Shangri-La Casino. Due to his contagious bad luck, he only needs to be present at the table to make the players around him lose. The film takes place in Las Vegas, presumably in the mid 1990’s meaning it takes place right around the fourth wave of Gambling, or the “Triumph of Casino Gaming” (McGowan 2012). The opening credits show the strip with newer buildings already erected, and matched the description given by Rothman, who described Las Vegas as vibrant, bright and well-developed by the beginning of 1990 (Rothman 2002). Shelly, the operations manager of the Shangri-La Casino, is struggling with the transition of the casino industry from mob to MBA. Larry, a young Harvard graduate, proposes to renovate and modernize the casino to Shelly, leaving him conflicted and nostalgic. Contrary to using typical casino income strategies, Shelly relies on Bernie to cool off tables, thus generating revenue. Bernie wants to leave Las Vegas as he is sick of working at the casino and working for Shelly. He then falls in love with a coworker, Natalie resulting in his luck flipping from terrible to terrific. Bernie’s contagious good luck leads the gamblers in the casino to collectively win $1 million in one day. Losing profits to Bernie’s good luck, Shelly threatens Natalie into not seeing Bernie anymore. At the same time, the audience