Behavior Is Most Influenced by the Nurturing of Our Parents

According to psychologist Diana Baumrind, there are four different parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, uninvolved, and authoritative. (p. 339) Authoritarian parenting is a strict form of parenting that demands obedience and respect, but offers little support. Children of authoritarian parents often do not have a healthy relationship with their parents due to the lack of communication. Permissive parents are known as the “cool” parents among adolescents. This parenting style is relaxed and comes with hardly any rules. Permissive parents have a very warm relationship with their child; however, this style is counterproductive in child rearing because they act as a friend instead of a parent who sets boundaries. Uninvolved parenting is the most detrimental to a child’s psychological health. Uninvolved parents are indifferent to their child’s activities, emotional state, and overall well-being. They are neglectful and even reject their children from being a part

A parent’s parenting styles are as diverse as the world we live in today. Nowadays, parents only want what is best for their children and their parenting styles plays a crucial role in the development of children which will in the long run, not only effect the child’s childhood years, but later prolong into their adult life as well.

Parenting can be challenging for most parents, and we don’t always get it right. Parenting takes time, unconditional love and understanding. Balswick and Balswick, (2014) suggests that “authoritative parenting” is more efficient. The development of a child is a very important and impacts their life overall into becoming a mature reciprocating self. I believe that good parenting starts with prayer, commitment and loving your children unconditionally. Authoritative parents do not let their children get away with wrong behavior, bad attitudes. These children are responsible and will more likely succeed in life.

The permissive parenting style is one in which the parents care for their child, yet they don’t set rules or discipline their child. This parenting style is high in nurturance and low in maturity demands, control, and communication. According to Joseph Sclafani, a child psychologist,:

There are many different parenting styles that help children develop healthy lifestyles. Dr. Levine focuses this chapter on the authoritarian, permissive and authoritative parents. The authoritarian parent, or the “do as your told” parent as stated in the book, focuses on strict rules for their children. These parents carry a strong “because I said so” ideology and end up hurting their kids more than they help. These kids end up with low self-esteem and high rates of depression. The permissive parent, or the “do your own thing” parent, focus more on a friendship with their child other than a respectful parent-child relationship. These parents have trouble disciplining their child and don’t teach their children correct skills to take responsibility for their actions. The last parenting style, the authoritative parent, are accepting of their child, but also have clear rules and expectations. These parents have appropriate discipline while also focusing on how to better their child. The children of these types of parents have better grades, better social skills and are all around happier. In this chapter, Dr. Levine also focuses on correct ways to be accepting and invested in your child and how important it is to praise effort instead of

Kiadarbandsari, Madon, Hamson and Mehdinezhad Nouri expressed that authoritative parents display warmth and positive behaviors while setting strict rules and boundaries (2016). Authoritative parents and their children develop the healthiest relationship because of the support and discipline that these parents show towards their children (Chang, 2007). In these authoritative relationships, the child is encouraged through positive behavior. This helps the child develop a high self-esteem while building confidence. In terms of education, authoritative parenting is the most motivation parenting style. Authoritative parenting yields high academic success in adolescent children and progresses later through adulthood (Strage & Brandt, 1999). Abiding by the five C’s, authoritative parenting promotes an adolescent child’s competence, confidence, caring, connection and character. Therefore, authoritative parental styles yield the highest level of PYD in children (Kiadarbandsari, Madon, Hamson & Mehdinezhad Nouri,

Different parenting styles, which include: permissive, uninvolved, authoritarian and authoritative, have different effects on children’s development and their future success and outcomes. Many parents do not realize how crucial parenting styles are on their child’s development and future. Some parents tend to seek alternative methods such as listening to music, and staying active during pregnancy in efforts of changing their child’s development and intelligence. However, after birth and during adolescence are the times when parents play a huge and crucial role in shaping their child’s development and intelligence. According to Turner, Chandler, and Heffer (2009), parenting styles have consistently been related to youth psychopathology, behavior

The permissive style of parenting is rather fascinating. The typical permissive parent tends to be relaxed, and does not require much of the child. A permissive parent is pretty non-confrontational as they attempt to avoid arguments, or any other sort of confrontation. However, there are some pros to this style of parenting. For example, a typical permissive parent can tend to be quite loving towards their child. However, the fact that there are not many rules set in place for the child and the child is free to do as they please. There is a major lack of structure, and the child does not learn concepts of discipline very efficiently. Children require a sense of structure in their environment. Unfortunately, one of the long-term effects of permissive parents can be that children who grew up with permissive parents tend to be more likely to engage in detrimental activities such as underage drinking.

There are three types of parenting styles that affect children in various ways. The first type of parenting that seems to work the best on children is the authoritative style. Authoritative parents are neither too strict nor too willing to give in to their children’s wants. They encourage their children to grow in responsibility and give them opportunities to show they are independent. They set down rules that are expected to be followed, but are not too harsh. This seems to be

These parents have high standards for expectations and success, but they are also heartfelt and open to their child’s emotions but at the same time also teach them to control their emotions. These parents enforce boundaries and set rules by communicating and using reasoning. Parents who use this parenting style teach their children to control their actions and be independent at the same time. In addition, punishments are important in this style, but they are not violent. Authoritative parents are more likely to have children who are creative, happy, cooperative, have high self-esteem, and who usually do well academically and socially.

Thesis: The authoritative parenting style is the most effective style for producing children that have desirable traits, such as good morals, obedience, compassion and responsibility.

The most successful child-rearing practice is the authoritative style. This particular style involves warm, caring, attentive and patient parenting. Parents are also perceptive to their child’s needs. All these characteristics allow for a close bond with their child. In addition, they permit gradual autonomy by allowing their children to make decisions once they show signs readiness. Parents who use this style offer encouragement to express how they feel and think without judgement. If disagreements occur, parents involve them in joint-decision making. Parents place reasonable demands on their child, but at the same time offer explanations as to why they are enforced. Because of this, children are normally more compliant.

The optimal parenting style for child development, authoritative, can be seen in Sue’s parenting. Authoritative parenting, characterized by high warmth and control, is seen in parenting when rules and expectations are set, but these are discussed with the children before setting them into place (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2016, p. 238). Consequences for breaking these rules, or not meeting expectations, are fair and doled out only when necessary, and the children are given support by their parents that allow them to flourish as much as possible (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2016, p. 238). This is true for Sue, as she has set goals for her teenager that range from passing her classes with at least a B, to doing chores that were previously discussed with her on certain days, which are posted on a daily schedule on the refrigerator in clear view. If these expectations are not met, Sue’s daughter is given a calm description of how she did not achieve what was expected of her, and another chance is then given. If she repeats the mistake a second time, the daughter is grounded from using her phone or going out with friends for a certain period of time that matches the severity of the mistake. It is worth noting that the daughter is highly successful in school, earning

The second group is called permissive parenting. Permissive parents give up most control and rules to their children. In contrast of authoritative parents, they permit their children to do anything children like. These parents want to bring their children freedom. They want their children to develop in the free ways. They do not set any rules and routines in their children’s lives. While authoritative parents do not provide children with choices, permissive parents give children as many choices as possible, even when the children are not able to make good choices. These parents accept with all their children’s behavior, good or bad, and permit their children develop in the ways their children like. Permissive parents want to bring their children warmness and love, and they never scold or punish their children. However, like authoritative parenting, permissive parenting sometimes is not good for children. Children do things in the wrong ways and this can bring them danger; however, there is no advice from parents to put them in the right ways. These parenting style can bring children and people around them danger.

Does the way you’re raised have an effect on your development? Is there one correct way of parenting? Every parent has their own approach to raising their child and some approaches are more effective than others. Developmental psychologist Diana Baumrind developed three major parenting styles. These approaches can be categorized as authoritarian, authoritative or democratic and permissive parenting. A fourth approach was introduced by psychologist Eleanor Maccoby and John Martin called uninvolved/neglectful parenting. In this paper I will explore these parenting styles and apply them to real life situations. I will also discuss both the positive and negative effects of these approaches on adolescence. As well as introduce other contributing factors on behavior.