One thing in my life that I had to dive into doing was being a single parent. I no longer had just myself to worry about and to take care of; I was going to have another person to be responsible for. I had a mixture of feelings when I found out I was pregnant. I did not know if his dad was going to be around or not to help me. I was worried, nervous, scared and excited all at the same time.
I was not working at the time, so I had very little money and his father only paid child support when he decided to, or when the courts forced him to pay. It is a very scary feeling to be on your own with a little guy who depended on me for his every need. His dad comes and goes in and out of his life whenever he feels the need to without any
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After what seemed like an eternity they finally came, we hopped into the ambulance and sped off to the ER. They stripped him down to nothing but his diaper and helped cool him off with a wet washcloth until we arrived at the hospital. After waiting for what seemed like forever, the doctor came to check him and diagnosed that the reason he had this seizure was because in just a short time he went from being a normal kid to having a such a high temperature that his body reacted in quite a frightening and scary way. They gave him a shot of Motrin and we waited until his fever started to come down.
There have been other times that have been challenging in being a single parent, but we have gotten through them with the help of friends and family. As he got older he was diagnosed as having Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of Autism, which is a developmental disorder that affects a child's ability to socialize and communicate effectively with others. He struggles in school with his homework and relating to other people.
With this disorder he gets stressed out very easily. When he is feeling overwhelmed he tends to shut down or give up. He was given an IEP, an Individualized Education Program, which helps kids reach educational goals easier than they otherwise would. It gives him leeway when it comes to certain things like homework and tests. They limit the amount homework he has
When I found out that I was moving to Dallas from the suburbs of the Chicagoland area where I have lived my whole life Due to my mom's job moving her position. This was due to my mom having a higher income than my dad. From my first 16 years of my life living in one place I found that it limits someone to what they experience, but the move from Chicago to Dallas showed me what’s out there in the world.
Being a mom is hard, and being a teenage mom is even harder. Most teen moms will drop out and not continue further with their careers. “By age 30, only 1.5 percent of women who had pregnancies as a teenager have a college degree”(“Teen Pregnancy Statistics”). Nowadays, schools like Santa Ana College can help these young mothers attain a profession and raise their kids at the same time. Now thanks to colleges like SAC, that percentage can increase, and young mothers can strive to better themselves. Giving them support is essential because it will give them a place where they feel secure and supported; it will help them realize that it’s never too late. In our postcard for Santa Ana College, we use the strategy of support to attract teen moms.
Canada's child care policy has always been a topic of heated debate. Presently, Canada is one of the only developed countries worldwide that does not have plan in place for nation wide child care (Hurtig, 2002). Howe & Covell (2007) state that "Canada has failed to make progress toward a system of universal high quality early learning and child care or even toward establishing widespread access to high quality programs" (p.47). According to Campaign 2000, early childhood education programs are an essential component in reducing poverty and providing children with the ’best start in life”. In addition to reducing poverty, early childhood education programs "strengthen the foundations of learning for all children, supports the social
The book Dating and the single Parent by Ron L. Deal is written to help single parents and people who are going to be dating single parents. This is done by asking questions of the reader to find out if they are ready for a blended family and to make sure that the reader understands how to make a blended family work. The author draws his experience on his counseling of single parents and his work in ministry. The book is broken up in three sections, with the first section dealing with the preparation of starting to date. The second selection purpose is best way of finding a partner. The last section deals with the marriage commitment and preparing the stepfamily for marriage.
I sat next to him terrified he would have another seizure. The doctors decided to give him Motrin. After an hour the nurse wanted to check if the fever went down. When she checked it had gone up to 103 degrees. They decided to give him Tylenol and checked again an hour later; it finally started to go down. The doctors said that what he had was called a febrile seizure and was fairly common in young children. It happens when their fever spikes too quickly and their small body can’t handle it. He assured us he was going to recover fine. They released us around eight o’clock that night; we went home and got some much needed rest. Although he was sick for a few more days, we felt very lucky he was ok. I am thankful every day that Kade made a full normal
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There is much debate on what constitutes as a family today. However, Ball (2002) states, “The concept of the traditional family…is not an immutable one. It is a social construct that varies from culture to culture and, over time, the definition changes within a culture” (pp. 68). There is a growing diversity of families today including the commonality of sole-parenting. In order to explore aspects of sole-parenthood objectively, I need to reflect and put aside my personal experience of growing up in sole-parent household. Furthermore, this essay will explore the historical origins, cultural aspects discussing the influences and implications of gender identity, and social structures of sole-parent families, as well as consider the
Second, Single parents should avoid blindly exclude each other. Many divorced couples not allowed to their child to contact other side, and some even find a place to move to avoid any meeting opportunity, so that children cannot see his father or mother. Some of them are conscious derogatory treat the other side uselessness, and instilling hostility to the child. Children will psychologically form a sense of exclusion. This may be an important reason the character of children from single-family deviated from the normal track.
Being a single mother with a new baby who has gastrointestinal problems can be very taxing on a family. The role of the nurse is not only to provide physical and emotional care for their patients, but to also help families find care outside of the hospital. This outside care can be social service workers or even community and state help resources to provide information and even medical care for these families. In my paper I will be discussing what GERD is, a nursing diagnosis for the family in the case scenario, community resources that can be used to help the family along with their cons, and which program I find to be the best one to use for this family.
For years, I have watched my fatherless son struggle. I have cried about my fears and failures as a mother on many occasions.
If you have ever met an Eastern European woman, you immediately figure out that her disposition tends to be small and angry, like a soda can that has been shaken too many times. She will also have a glare that can make your arteries turn into blood popsicles in a matter of seconds. This all depends on whether you have committed an enormous crime like not cleaning your room or doing your homework or something less heinous like not answering the phone in the first to three rings. My lovely mother happens to be as Eastern European as they get, from Haskovo, Bulgaria, and I am reminded of this fact every day. Every time I complain about a test or how I only got six hours of sleep, she brings up her struggles being a Turkish minority and seeking educational opportunities in a Communist Era. The truth is, although I have faced many challenges being an immigrant in this country and in some ways have raised my parents more than they have raised me, I would not give up my culture or background for the world. My mother serves as a constant reminder.
Which behalf is the best side, the single parent versus the traditional family? A traditional family is defined or described as two parents working together to solve anything that goes on in their house. The advantage of a traditional family is that they are going to have a more stable income that will buy them a reasonable house or an apartment. “The traditional families have two parents, the mom and the dad, jointly raising kids with help and advice from each other” (Magnier). An accustomed family also expresses their feelings towards one another and has respect among others in their home. A dysfunctional family is usually described as conflicted adults living on their own. Although a dysfunctional family may sound inadequate, it is
“Children with single parent families often face disadvantages compared to those from two-parent families. One in four children in the U.S. are being raised by a single parent-a percentage that has been on the rise and is higher than other developed countries” (Armario 1). This means every year single parenting is growing and a child is having trouble than the average child should. Being a single parent is ineffective parenting because there is a lack of parental supervision, it increases a chance of living a life of poverty, and suffers a wholesome healthy life in the household.
Single parent households are a sensitive topic that is highly debated today. This topic is one that has repercussions for both the parents and the children involved. However, regardless of the different consequences, these households continue to grow in the coming years. “In 1970, traditional two-parent married households dominated, making up 81 % of all households in the United States (US). By 2012 this number dropped to around 66 % … In 2012, approximately 21 million children, or 28 % of all children in the US, lived with one parent” (Kramer, 2015). It is interesting to look at the way the single parent households continue to grow throughout the years, all while being a hot topic for discussion on its consequences. When thinking about a book to read for this course, there was no real choice. I stumbled upon this book and knew right away that I could benefit from this book, as well as connect to it on a deeper level and relate to it personally.
Within the growing number of women in higher education, there is a growing population of students who are also mothers. Mothers attempting to obtain a degree contend with home and family demands that affect their degree completion rates (Carney-Crompton & Tan, 2002; Home, 1998). These postsecondary education students, unlike their traditional peers, are not developing into adult identities that are supported by a traditional college setting (Arnett, Ramos & Jensen, 2001; Arnett, 2000) but instead already have an adult identity as a mother (Wilsey, 2013) with a different set of needs and because of the familial responsibility motherhood brings with it these women are no longer “traditional” students (Cross, 1981; Bean & Metzer, 1985, 1987;