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Being a Single Mom Essay

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One thing in my life that I had to dive into doing was being a single parent. I no longer had just myself to worry about and to take care of; I was going to have another person to be responsible for. I had a mixture of feelings when I found out I was pregnant. I did not know if his dad was going to be around or not to help me. I was worried, nervous, scared and excited all at the same time.
I was not working at the time, so I had very little money and his father only paid child support when he decided to, or when the courts forced him to pay. It is a very scary feeling to be on your own with a little guy who depended on me for his every need. His dad comes and goes in and out of his life whenever he feels the need to without any …show more content…

After what seemed like an eternity they finally came, we hopped into the ambulance and sped off to the ER. They stripped him down to nothing but his diaper and helped cool him off with a wet washcloth until we arrived at the hospital. After waiting for what seemed like forever, the doctor came to check him and diagnosed that the reason he had this seizure was because in just a short time he went from being a normal kid to having a such a high temperature that his body reacted in quite a frightening and scary way. They gave him a shot of Motrin and we waited until his fever started to come down.
There have been other times that have been challenging in being a single parent, but we have gotten through them with the help of friends and family. As he got older he was diagnosed as having Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of Autism, which is a developmental disorder that affects a child's ability to socialize and communicate effectively with others. He struggles in school with his homework and relating to other people.
With this disorder he gets stressed out very easily. When he is feeling overwhelmed he tends to shut down or give up. He was given an IEP, an Individualized Education Program, which helps kids reach educational goals easier than they otherwise would. It gives him leeway when it comes to certain things like homework and tests. They limit the amount homework he has

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