Thinking of the word childhood, what comes to mind? Is it happiness, laughter, or maybe endless possibilities? These are the thoughts that should come to mind of a person who has had a normal to semi-normal childhood. Like everything in this world, there are always different vantage points or perspectives. For those who view the world from the other side of the fence; these thoughts are the less than perfect characterizations of the word. Childhood is abandonment, one being alone and a constant state of anger.
Human beings are social by nature. This is why most people tend to live, work, and even relax in an area concentrated with other people. A childhood should be full of friends, family, and parents. What happens when those parents who are supposed to be the caregivers, mentors, teachers and heroes do not want that child? Abandonment. The feeling of being that box of kittens that someone dropped at the corner by the stop sign; cast out like a McDonalds Double Cheese Burger wrapper. Those who birthed new life, and with one look decided they were not ready. How in the world is anyone else ever going to want them? This feeling of abandonment creates
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Loneliness begins to creep into every fracture of ones being. There is no one to support the child, with no hope of ever finding someone who will. That emptiness in the heart and soul takes a person to a dark place where the light from the outside world can never touch. The space created by the cold and solitude becomes comfort. Being alone makes the heart and mind cold. From foster home to foster home leaves lasting scars visible to none; a number in the system that no one truly knows or cares about. Like a prisoner in solitary confinement, wishing and hoping for the faintest sound of the correctional officer arriving to release the darkness in the room. Circumstances like this create an individual who desires companionship, but is content and familiar with the
may become unable or unwilling to adequately care for their children . Children often times experience a loss of parental availability and as a result, feel lonely and Isolated. More often
Our childhood plays a significant role in defining the kind of person that we become and the type of life that we live.
Loneliness is usually a common and unharmful feeling, however, when a child is isolated his whole life, loneliness can have a much more morbid effect. This theme, prevalent throughout Ron Rash’s short story, The Ascent, is demonstrated through Jared, a young boy who is neglected by his parents. In the story, Jared escapes his miserable home life to a plane wreck he discovers while roaming the wilderness. Through the use of detached imagery and the emotional characterization of Jared as self-isolating, Rash argues that escaping too far from reality can be very harmful to the stability of one’s emotional being.
Abandonment indicates a parent’s choice to have no part in his or her offspring’s life. This includes failure to support the child financially and emotionally, as well as failure to develop a relationship with his or her child. Sadly, parental abandonment leaves a child with doubt and uncertainty about the future. Throughout his or her life, this particular child could suffer from lasting questions of self-worth. In the opposite direction, the child could learn to resent his or her parents and remain incapable of trusting anyone. Regardless, intentional negligence of children leaves them with an unbearable pain that they must carry around for the rest of their lives. Child-care and the consequences
Previously unnoted, abandonment and the resulting loneliness in children have lasting impacts on adult life. As abandonment becomes increasingly more common, studies place emphasis on such impacts. Dr. Frankenstein’s monster is essentially a newborn baby when created. Caregivers teach infants to seek comfort,
In America it is stated that 1 in every 84 children live in foster care circumstances via "Statistics on Foster Care". There is a numerous amount of contrasting children from various backgrounds and ages living within these special housing homes, and many are repeatedly in and out from unstable circumstances. As children grow and mature into the new faces of the world, they face many obstacles and tribulations that will alter their lives. Living in fostering homes is a substantial example and the effects of living in these institutions can truly be great.
Many children are suffering due to various complications in their life. Children of all ages end up in the foster care system year after year. Their hardships influence them to feel really depressed and stoic. Many people do not read autobiographies, but the book, Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes-Courter teaches people about the complications of a first-hand foster child, how the foster care system is, and book reviews of famous authors and well-known magazines, as well. The story gives hope to people who believe there is no way out anymore, and it influences upon the world’s culture greatly.
suffers horribly so that the rest can be happy” (Brooks). The child’s pain and loneliness is a
Everywhere across the world, more and more children are being placed into foster care or a welfare type system. Foster care can benefit children or harm them; the effects of foster care differ for every individual. These types of systems often have a major effect on young children’s physiological state. Children entering in foster care are often malnourished and have untreated health problems. A high percentage of children who are placed in these types of systems have mental health, physical health, and/or developmental issue which often originates while the individuals are still in the custody of the biological parents. Children in foster care should be provided with a healthy and nurturing environment which often provides positive long term results. The age of children in a foster care varies across the world, but it is often seen that majority of these children are young (George para. 1). There are more young children in the system because younger children require more adequate care than older children that are already in the system. Placing these children in welfare systems is supposed to be a healing process for them. Although this is supposed to be a healing process, statistics say these children have a negative experience while being in these systems, but this is not always the case. A number of children in foster care fall sucker to continuous neglect and recurrent abuse with the lack of nurturing and an unstable environment. These same children often have unmet
Childhood. A word that should radiate in your memory and not lie with frivolous thoughts or a painful existence.
Marx points out that man is objectified by alienation, to the institutions they belong to, and “he can only affirm himself and produce objects in practice by subordinating his products and his own activity to the domination of an alien entity” (Bhushan, Sachdeva and marx 2012/1844). I believe that this quote from Marx is relatable to the beings in the social structures of institutions created for those who are orphaned. Children in these institutions such as group homes, foster care, and orphanages, are objectified and degraded to the status of the institutions they are placed in. they experience alienation as they are dominated by the forces of these institutions, as they experience estrangement from living in these institutions that form a subculture of society, arranging almost a separate social class from the rest of society.
Childhood has its own ways of seeing, thinking, and feeling which are proper to it/ child’s mind considered as a blank state to be inscribed by experience: the infant is often compared to a ‘white paper’ to be written over or to a plastic substance (wax) to be molded
Childhood was a word that I would never forget. My childhood was full of embarrassment. When I was in elementary school in Hong Kong, there was a 10-minute break everyday. The short breaks were precious moments for all of the kids there except me. When the bell rang, every child rushed to the cafeteria. Some bought snacks while some played games. And there were many waiting to make phone calls.
I think that childhood should be embraced and treasured because it only lasts so long.
A child cries for one moment and is ecstatic at the other. Childhood is filled with fairy tales and is in fact the most beautiful and justifiable way of escapism every person would like to go back to. The happiness and light heartedness of this phase makes it philosophically interesting. Wordsworth in his poem, Thechild is the father of man explains the wisdom a child can impart to adults.