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Communication Patterns

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As the time passed both reconnect in a very superficial manner, such that they put the past behind but never communicated about their feelings. Additionally, there is hostile relationship between Cynthia and my mom. My mom did express Cynthia was at fault for their relationship break-up. My sister would feel bad about herself. Now instead of feeling sad over it she expresses anger, once my mom triggers it. For example, when my mom makes comments about how Cynthia has my dad’s personality, Cynthia becomes frustrated and both go back and forth with each other. This communication pattern has decreased, but is still there. Another pattern on the intergenerational transmission is divorce/marital separation. On my paternal side my grandpa and grandma divorced. Looking that my paternal side of the family, all my uncles and aunts including my dad divorced their first spouse. All of them are in their second marriage. The only exception is the youngest, she never married, but is in her third cohabitation relationship. On my maternal side, the only divorce is my mothers. All my maternal family members married only once and are still with their spouses. Those individuals of divorced parents may view marriage of impermanent. This could also explain the reason why my dad …show more content…

Being Mexican means being family-oriented and family members, immediate as well as extended, are treated with love and respect, in other words it is a collectivistic culture. Family is everything! The family portrays well-boned social and emotional system. I am very close to my maternal side of the family. For every birthday and celebration there is always a family reunion. Additionally, when tragedy occurs we can all rely on each other. A huge help that everyone has contributed in was babysitting. At some point, they all have taken care of each other’s children. So, they too have contributed to my upbringing as much as my

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