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Comparison Of Escapism In Cathedral By Raymond Carver

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Author Mandy Len Catron once said, “[l]ove didn’t happen to us. We’re in love because we each made the choice to be”. While Raymond Carver frequently illustrated alcohol and relationships in his stories, it was never in a positive light. Perhaps that was due to his work being a written reflection of life as he knows it. When reading Carver’s stories, it becomes evident the characters made the conscious decision not to love or be in love as did Carver. In “Popular Mechanics”, a short story written by Carver, the readers are immediately presented with a couple in the middle of a break up that results in the male partner, now ex-partner’s, relocation. As the male partner prepares his belongings as well as himself to leave, him and his female counterpart engage in a very physical fight where pushing, shoving, cursing, and even tug-of-war, with their baby as the rope, takes place. The story concludes with not only a split of the couple, but the baby as well. It is apparent the couple displayed in “Popular Mechanics” engaged in a very unhealthy, unstable relationship that lacked compromise. Unlike the couple in “Popular Mechanics”, the couple in “Cathedral” is not violent, but full of guilted compromise and jealousy as well as the use of forms of escapism. In “Cathedral”, a second short story by Carver, a couple has a disagreement over the wife’s male friend, a blind man named Robert, temporarily staying at their house. The husband is not a fan of blind people nor is he a fan of the fact Robert and his wife have a long history, romantic or not, together. Despite the husband’s feelings, he is guilted into allowing her to have Robert over. The two men bond over scotch and a television show about cathedrals. Throughout the story it is evident the couple lacks trust in one another as well as lacking an open mind. It is no surprise Carver believes marriage puts an end to a relationship having assumed it will always bring up new disagreements and force compromises as well as the occasional inability to reach a compromise; however, his belief is also a reflection of life as he knew it. While most people view marriage as the beginning of a great life ahead of them, Carver deemed it the end of it. Marriage brings upon

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