In the article, It’s Complicated: The Social Lives of Networked Teens, the author Danah Boyd states that “trapped by helicopter parents and desperate to carve out a space of their own, teens need a place to make mistakes”. Teens should be allowed to go online and go on social media without their parents freaking out. Yes, there are dangers to going online as there are dangers to everything. There is technology everywhere, teens can go online wherever and whenever they want, it's inevitable. Teens access to the internet and to going online is a great resource and is very helpful, so why try and take that away? Parents should not supervise their child's online activity. Parents should be able to trust their kids. Parents main objective with their kids is to protect them. What is to be protected from in terms of the internet? Viruses? That can be avoided. Information getting leaked? Don't put your information online. And being …show more content…
Social media is used to express yourself, to see how other people are expressing themselves, to meet new people, to be updated on what's happening in different parts of the world, and most importantly to socialize. And when parents supervise that, it ruins everything. Personally, when my parents want to see what i'm posting on social media or want to follow me on instagram or add me on snapchat i feel weird, it feels like an invasion of my privacy. And i'm sure i’m not the only teen that feels that way. Danah Boyd states that “Teens need a place to call their own”. Teens should be allowed to go online and go on social media without their parents freaking out and being over protective and monitoring everything. Parents should be able to trust their kids. Social media is used to express yourself. Boyd said “they want the freedom to explore their identity and the world around them”. And that can't happen if our parents are supervising our online
In the article “ Teenage Social Media Butterflies May Not Be Such A Bad Idea “ by Melissa Healy, social media isn’t as bad as you think. According to Amori Yee Mikami teenages are using social media to communicate with their friends and not strangers . Some adolescents count their parents as their friends on social networking sites. According to a L.A. psychology professor kaveri Subrahmanyam says children on and offline have the same relationship on social networking sites and in reality . Another thing Subrahmanyam said was that teens use social media in wayś that don't harm their well being. Some teens that struggle with depression or other type of behavior are most likely to be bully or harass, and also take online risks such as sexting
With social media growing and growing into a mass of accounts and profiles and different groups of people and clubs and websites and other things, what adolescents do on social media is something that many parents worry about. Not every parent is at ease with the fact that their child/teenager is out in open water; one young human being surrounded by millions of other human beings who are younger, the same age, or older than them. The article “Teenage social media butterflies may not be such a bad idea” takes a look at teenagers ' use of social media. Social media is a very important tool, allowing people to connect or continue their relationships without
One reason social media can be harmful to teenagers is that it can distant you away from people around you. The text states, “ It may draw some teenagers away from having relations with themselves and people around them” This implies that social media can take over the lives of many people. Children need to have a good relationship with the people around them and not be glued to their cell phone all the time. They even need to have a relationship with themselves. There are other things in the world that are better and more entertaining than being on facebook.
Melissa Healy, a reporter of the Los Angeles Times, in the article Teenage Social Media Butterflies May Not Be Such A Bad Idea, claims that kids who spend lots of time on social media are not the least well-adjusted, but psychologically healthiest. Healy supports her argument by demonstrating how social media is beneficial to a teen’s health. According to a three-year Digital Youth Project, when teengars use social media, it helps them develop important social skills such as communication, grappling with social norms, and developing technical skills. Psychology professor Kaveri Subrahmanyam describes that teens behave the same between offline relationships and online ones, so most teens will use the internet safely. The author’s purpose is
Social media has been a topic of debate for years. Some people are strongly against any use of it while others like the instant connection it provides. A major concern over social media is the lasting effects it has on teenagers. Social media can affect teenagers through many ways including things like their self-esteem. Cyberbullying is a raging topic of discussion centered around teens social media use. It can also effect their people skills and create a lack of community involvement. Some parents think that watching what their children do on social media is an invasion of privacy but is your concern for their privacy greater than your concern for their safety? Social media poses a great danger to today’s children. It can affect many aspects of their lives.
Theres two problems children are facing and parents included. Children shouldn’t be allowed to be on social media at the age of six between fourteen. They shouldn’t be allowed to because young children don’t have the age because they won’t be able to know what’s going on social media. I think it’s a bad idea letting your children
Parents watch their children before they get themselves in trouble. On the other hand, children don’t deserve to be watched and questioned after every interaction on the internet. The uses of the internet for teens involve following celebrities or people they look up to. They mostly follow people they know. If not, they follow people who have the same interests as them.
Parents complain that teens are always on their phones and never out in the real world, but maybe if they weren’t “locked indoors, unable to get on their bicycles and hang out with their friends,” they could have the chance to mirror what they’re learning online, outside in the “real world” (Boyd). As Boyd puts it, “Social media and smartphone apps have become so popular in recent years because teens need a place to call their own. They want the freedom to explore their identity and the world around them.” If anything, being on social media is a safer way to make mistakes and learn from them before having to face harsher repercussions for them outside of the digital
Social media is a huge trend right now, in fact over 78% of Americans have some type of social media profile. Everyone is “instagramming”, “snapchatting”, and yes still “facebooking”. This includes young 11 and 12 year olds, who use it more often than those above the age of 18. I believe minors should not be allowed to have any form of social media because minors do not know how to use it properly nor do they know how to protect themselves while using it. Middle and high schoolers are very immature for social media unlike adults. Middle schoolers and high schoolers think social media is used to post selfies and obtain ridiculous amounts of followers or subscribers. Adults often use their social media to connect with distant friends and family, which
About 80% of teenagers today, have social media and approximately 40% of social media is used for communicating. Some of the popular social sites today may include Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, and Facebook. I believe minors should be allowed to have social media because it has become a major part of today’s way of living by entertainment and has become a major form of communication.
Many parents let their teens have social media accounts but do they really know what's going on? I think internet use for teens at a young age can be used in wrong ways that can later harm them in the future.
How would parents feel if there social media were monitored by someone? I'm sure any adult/parent wouldn't want anyone snooping through their photos or messages to make sure their appropriate. So why do parents think it's fair to monitor their kids account when they don't like it to be done to them. Parents are being very hypocritical about monitoring their children's social media’s and unruly. The first article titled, “Social media isn't all bad for kids” states that it is against parents monitoring teens’ social media. The second article titled, “The truth about Social media” claims that it is for campus administration/district, teachers, or coaches monitoring teens’ social media. Each of these articles explore the ages of the children/teens that have social media whether it's Instagram snapchat or twitter. Monitoring teens’ social media is an invasion of privacy, takes away a teen’ s independence, and creates a lapse in trust.
In the article, it says trust like and mature this supports the kids that are responsible enough to use social media (Coben 1). One personal example is from when I got my phone taken away when I younger because I wasn't using it responsibly. I would like parents to just let kids use the internet when there kids are responsible.
Various individuals long for a time when technology did not take over the world. For teenagers, it is difficult to imagine a life without the World Wide Web and its countless perks at their fingertips. Social media consumes young lives more than any other form of technological advancement. Social media has a few pros, but also its fair share of cons.
Many of us have access to the Internet and social networking sites these days. They have become essential in day-to-day life. However, there has been much controversy over teenagers having access social networking sites. Imagine your daughter or son is being bullied on Facebook or Myspace to the point that they attempt or succeed in killing themselves because of social destruction. People are not aware of the pros and cons of social networking. Does the negatives outweigh the positives of social networking? Should teenagers be banned from social networking sites?