Coping with Aging Parents Many aging parents do not need a great deal of looking after when it comes to personal care but they may still be in need of other attention especially if they are housebound. Ensure that company is available if they want it but allow them some solitude if that is their wish. Coping will be far easier for you if they still have some say in matters that are important to them. Never take their choices away – they still need to feel in control however restricted their life has become due to immobility or other health problems. If your parent is still of sound mind then things will be easier to cope with as dementia is one of the most difficult situations to be faced with when it comes to coping with the elderly. The only way is to humour them when they perceive things as being significantly different from the way they really are. Even when aging parents have absolutely nothing to worry about they will often find something, however trivial and make a big deal over it. The only way to reassure them is to tell them not to worry and say it’s all been taken care of. Above all, listen to them and their stories of yesteryear – you may learn something new even though your parent will not be much use when it comes to discussing current trends and prices but they will gleefully tell you how much was in their first pay packet just as if it was yesterday. There is always a temptation as we get older for us to live in the past and remember the ‘Good old days’
In the 1800’s, many slaves were stolen from their former lives and forced to endure the treacherous journey through the middle passage. Both Amari, a fictional character, and Olaudah Equiano were forced to go through this trip and experience the suffering and torture that came with it. Their stories are very different from each other, yet have many similarities. “I became so sick and low that I was not able to eat, nor had I the least desire to taste anything. I now wished for the last friend, Death, to relieve me” (Equiano 1). Equiano and the other slaves that were on the same voyage were treated so cruelly that the only hope they had left was for death to come. The slaves were beaten and given just enough food to keep them alive. If they
Allow the person with dementia and their family plan and make arrangements for the future
Family/friends: when an individual is given a diagnosis of dementia it impacts on their friends and family too, they may feel angry or guilty but may also have an overwhelming fear of what they can do to support the sufferer and each other at present and in the future. Will they be able to cope with the level of commitment to the individuals needs on top of their own daily trials? Not to mention the added financial/emotional stress. Support services are available for care givers alongside the person suffering with dementia via Gp, social services or online forums.
the importance of relationships and interactions with others to the person with dementia, and their potential for promoting well‑being.
Reach out: Being a senior care provider to someone can be exhausting no matter how much love you have for the person you’re caring for. It’s ok to ask for help and doing so can actually make you better able to continue to be caring and healthy. Seeing a therapist, asking for professional assistance with in-home caregiving, and exploring every option that’s available to you in terms of emotional and medical support is important.
In the book, Sanchez, (1995) focuses on ethnic studies and how prior to World War II, Mexican Americans had formed a unique identity that was not oriented toward Mexico but America, their new home. Despite facing unequal opportunity in social and economic spheres, immigrants nevertheless proceeded to build cohesive communities and strove to adapt their cultural identity to the American way. Mexican immigrants were beset by pressures from America to assimilate to the American way while facing more pressure from Mexico to remain loyal. In response, however, Mexican immigrants found the middle ground where they remained Mexican while being American citizens. In the analysis, the book alludes to cultural identity as stipulated by Stuart Hall where cultural identity is regarded as becoming and being.
The journey through late adulthood can be experienced in different ways. One particular movie entitled “The Bucket List” exhibits an astounding portrayal of late adulthood. In fact, there are many accounts that the movie entails about late-adulthood. This includes the illustration of Erickson’s late adulthood stage – “Ego Integrity vs. Despair,” wisdom, marriage, friendship, parent-child relationship, and death and dying in late adulthood.
All in all, we seem to recall a well-scrubbed past. Maybe, as we cross into the next century, it's time to take another look at the so-called "good old days."
This review provides descriptive summaries of six evaluation studies on the effectiveness of Grow Your Own (GYO) teacher recruitment and preparation programs. The summaries include one nation-wide assessment of GYO programs and 5 state-wide assessments. Most all GYO programs included in these evaluations are operating in rural districts and communities, and most are geared toward hard-to-staff schools and subjects. Overall, the evaluation studies suggest that, while these programs effectively improve teaching and learning, the retention of the fellows in some of the programs seems problematic.
Dementia often includes symptoms such as memory loss, trouble doing normal everyday activities, and problem solving. Once the symptoms come, they will most likely stay. They will only become worse and worse over time, so it’s necessary to try and come to terms with the disease. Caregivers can try to make the person affected as comfortable as possible as their body is slowly transitioning. Because there is a loss of blood flow to the brain, signals that are necessary in order to keep the body functioning properly eventually stop being sent. The muscles will stop being sent signals to move, and sometimes the signal to breathe can even be stopped.
I had the privilege of interviewing a 60 year old gentlemen who I will identify as Mr. E to protect his privacy for this assignment. The goal of my interview was to gain insight on aging from an older adult. I interviewed Mr. E in his home on a weekday evening. He expressed appreciation and was surprised that he was the focus of an interview in which his life story and thoughts would be recorded.
With the advancements in healthcare and people living longer lives America is facing a caregiver crisis, due to the growth of the aging population. Statistics show that the number of people 65 years and older is expected to rise 101% between 2000 and 2030, yet the number of family members who can provide care for these older adults is only expected to rise 25% (Gupta, 2015). This significant change in the population raises many questions, who will care for this group, how will their safety be ensured, how will the elderly travel, where will they live, will building structures need to change to allow easier access, will the government create a caregiver corps to check on the elderly who are isolated, and ultimately how does the government
How can nurses ensure that older people are treated with respect and dignity whist being cared for in hospital or in the community?
Being a parent comes with a lot of responsibility and difficult decision making. You always have your child's best interest at heart, but sometimes your child may disagree with the rules you have set down. That is why, I believe, the perfect parenting style is democratic. You can compromise with your child, but still have basic rules you want them to follow, without them feeling targeted or that you are being unfair. When i become a parent, I want to make sure my children have guidelines. I want them to be able to make their own mistakes and learn from them. Their health, their type of entertainment and the toys they play with are three major, broad categories that I would like to have a say in, along with their input of course.
Humanity has come a long way as we evolve and adapt to the changing environment. Through the years, we have managed to overcome several limitations, which in the past were nothing more than dreams. We succeeded in landing on the moon and communicating over long distance, yet there are still some boundaries we have yet to cross despite our best effort. Aging is an inevitable process of nature. While we cannot stop the ticking clock in our body, we have made it possible for aging to be delayed and relieved to a great extent through advance technology and modern governance. High-tech equipments and medications are available for the treatments of more illnesses as our understanding of medicine improves and governments nowadays are doing