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APA Learning Journal

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For this Learning Journal you will write a paper about your own experiences. Using reflective writing consider the following:
Write a 1-2 page critically reflective essay. If you use any outside citations, be sure to cite them in APA format.

Society affects our behaviors and how we interact with others. How has society affected your views? What are some things that you feel pressured to conform to, and how have you approached this issue?
Society definitely has ideas of what the perfect person is being whether you are a man or a woman, being a woman my social conformist behavior are different from those of a man. From a young age I was told I was pretty and this seemed to have some stigma attached, for example I needed to take great pains with my hair and my appearance because I was such a pretty girl. As though if I didn't take care of my appearance I was breaking some unwritten rule and letting my family and friends down. I grew up in the 70's to early 80's and Cheryl Tiegs was the supermodel of the day, subsequently, everyone wanted to emulate her looks and body. Women were supposed to be model thin and stores such as 2 4 6 became into being, (those stores specialized in small sizes for women).Being a tall girl (5'9” now) these shops made me feel especially huge. While I wasn't fat I wasn't model thin which made me feel ugly and unworthy of the title of pretty.
While still a pre-teen I began to worry about my appearance at the time looking around I felt as though I was an ugly girl because I wore glass, consequently, I turned to humor and began telling jokes to find my niche in society. However, that was short lived, desperate to find a way to be accepted and though of as pretty as I had been at a younger age when I was thinner, I tried my first diet at age 12, I was exercising every night and eating only small meals, I managed to lose some weight but the boy I liked asked another girl to the prom. I was devastated. However, life kept going on eventually I hit my stride and while I was never model thin I was at an acceptable weight for a long time (150 , 5'9”) this was the time I felt happiest with my body. But of course maintaining that size was more work than I could do and eventually I gained

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