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Dana Yeakley's The Gentle Art Of Discipling

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In The Gentle Art of Discipling Women Dana Yeakley shares a system of discipling women that she has developed through years of experience. While reading this book I learned the difference between mentoring and discipling, ways to connect with women with the purpose of making them disciples of Christ, and helpful tips on how to structure our time together in order to build relationships as well as help the woman grow in her maturity as a Christian.

What I found disheartening in the beginning was the structure the author chose. Instead of jumping into why, who, and when of disciple making, she spent the first 4 chapters reviewing foundational truths - our forgiveness by grace, the guarantee of eternity for those who believe, access to God through prayer, and our ongoing sanctification. For women who are buying the book with the intention of discipling a women who is younger in the faith, it was a dull way to begin. In my opinion, these chapters belong in an appendix titled "Ideas for Your First Meetings" or "Laying the Groundwork." In Chapter 2 and then later in the book, a couple of personal stories felt disconnected from the point the author was trying to make. For example, as she recounts her experience during the …show more content…

Chapters 6 & 7 were the most beneficial to me personally. In 6, Yeakley discusses different ways in which we may come to meet the women we will disciple. One of my favorite bits of wisdom in this chapter is our need to, "agree upon why and for what aspect of her growth God has brought us together." She also discusses setting a period of 6-12 months to work towards this growth goal. Chapter 7 warns disciple makers to evaluate and not assume the maturity of the woman you will be working with. Then based on her readiness, prepare the proper diet of milk (1 Corinthians 3:1-2), solid food (Hebrews 5:11-14) or meaty content for the two of you to

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