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Dear, Dad. I'm emailing you this rather than talking face to face about it because I feel that whenever we talk it ends up with us arguing rather than making any progress. I ask that you read the entire message before you do anything else. I also ask that you take some time out of your day to really consider what I have to say. The final thing I ask of you before this message really begins is that you try to not take anything I say in this message as disrespectful. If I didn't respect you, you wouldn't be reading this email right now, because I would not have sent it because I wouldn't care what you think. If I didn't respect you I wouldn't ask you questions or tell you things because if I didn't respect you I just would not care …show more content…

So I understand that neither of us will ever be world champions of cleaning, but we also both need to make an effort to keep things clean. I would like to propose an idea for how we would do things. We would take out trash bags once they have become largely filled and whoever notices it takes it out, also we would keep all dirty clothes in 2 laundry baskets, one for me and one for you, and every week on Saturday we would do the laundry, I clean my basket and you clean yours, also as far as plates/bowls/silverware, whoever uses them cleans them right after and puts them away, instead of having them pile up in the sink. As far as who cleans rooms, I believe that it is fair if I clean my room, you clean your room, you clean the toilet and floor and I will clean the bath and sink, and we both clean the living room and laundry room. We can talk face to face about the spare room and what it will be used for, etc. I would also like to propose a monthly computer maintenance day, which I am already doing but would also like for you to participate in to have your computers operate better so that we can prevent times such as when the computers refuse to work when you need to get pictures in for a deadline,thus preventing …show more content…

If Terry or anyone else has a complaint about me or something to tell me, let them talk to me about it directly. If I am absent/late to school because of myself, there are already consequences such as having to catch up on something because I missed it, so you do not have to worry about punishing me for being late, because there are already punishments that come of the problem's very existence. There are many more responsibilities that I hope we can talk about face to face as well. Please do not tell me I have not earned these rights and responsibilities, because if I don't get them, I can never prove that I am worthy of having them. I understand that you will always want to, and will, have a level of control over every part of me, which I understand and do not mind, my problem is when it seems that you want to take full control over it all. So, I ask that you allow me both these rights and responsibilities so that I may have a higher and better control over myself, while still

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