Death is the end of the life of a person, and they do not want to die although people know that they cannot avoid dying as Thomas said in “Do not go gentle into that good night”[1]. Although some people do not have any disease, they will think about disease if their parents or someone in their families is dead because of serious disease. They may think that they may have the same disease and make them panic. My grandmother was dead because she had diabetes, high blood pressure, and cancer. I was not worried about those diseases at that moment because I was young who assumed to die at 80. I had been sad for a week, but I was not panic about death because of thinking as a child. I still played and did fun activity with my friends while my …show more content…
Some diseases are inheritance such as colorblindness and hemophilia, but some serious disease are inconclusive whether inheritance or not. Since my grandmother has died for 6 years and I do not think like a child, I begin to worry that I might have genes that cause diabetes and high blood pressure. With that assumption, I feel terrified again because my mind are thinking about illness and death like my grandmother, so I have to find information from reliable sources to prove it. I have been looking for relation between genetic and those diseases, but I have not found any evidence and scientific paper. Therefore, I conclude that I do not have those disease genes. Although this behavior is called cognitive bias, it helps me to get rid of horrible feeling. If people are diagnosed a hazard disease, they will be depressed and scared because their minds have already thought about death. When people know that someone dies because of cancer or other serious diseases that they are scared of, their thoughts will falsely link that death are scary. This is a type of learning called “classical conditioning”[2]; however, the link can be disappeared if they change their thoughts and believes. My blood pressure would be high compared to other teenagers every time I went to the hospital. Then, my parents were very worried about me since they also had
They used a hard vocabulary to contain the terrible softness. Greased they 'd say. Offed, lit up, zapped while zipping. It wasn 't cruelty, just stage presence. They were actors. When someone died, it wasn 't quite dying, because in a curious way, it seemed scripted, and because they had their lines mostly memorized, irony mixed with tragedy, and because they called it by other names, as if to encyst and destroy the reality of death itself. "
People need to constantly be aware of this fact and they need to be prepared for anything that life throws at them. Jobs states, “No one wants to die.” This is true. Most people are afraid of the unknown. No one person knows what happens when we die and nobody can prove anything that has been said about death because all of the people who can prove what happens after death are dead. There are people in this world who accept death with open arms or people who have a longing to die, but most never go through with it because of the fact that they are afraid of what happens after
The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” (Mark Twain). This quote from the famous American writer is the basis for what became one of the hardest ideas to comprehend, death. Death has always been a complex term, causing one to struggle with what the true definition is. It is also hard to wrap your mind around what does it truly mean to die. These are the questions we long for the answer. Whether we acknowledge it or not, death has always been feared by many. Death remains an impossible question, one that has been unexplained since beginning of time. Even though dying is a natural, we as a human race still fear it. What can be done to defeat this never-ending battle? According to Montaigne’s “To Philosophize is to Learn to Die” and Cory Taylor’s “Questions for Me About Dying” we can overcome this by living to the fullest, living with no regrets, living a legacy, and lastly not fearing the inevitable. If you want to conquer the question of life, live in the moment.
When we get older and when we deal with someone else who is nearing death we misunderstand what happens and how to understand the death process, we do not know what to expect and how to handle the process.
In this sense, inexplicable fear of death can manifest itself in an excessive desire to obtain achievements to counteract this anguish and the person takes an anxious race against time, no enjoyment of one's own achievements. The deep religious beliefs, rituals and ceremonies helped familiar with death. Friends and neighbors accompanied the suffering and the dying and provided support and comfort in this difficult time of the end of life. “Numerous Researchers now for many people believe that, continuing bonds with the deceased is a regular part of healthy adaptation” (Klass & Walter,
According to (Liming & Dickenson 2011., p.3) “thanatology is the study of dying, death, and bereavement.” I believe that the study of death will be a topic to be discussed and forever researched. There are many different aspects of death that I believe people can study, rather it be cultural believes, medically researching different processes of death, or even just what your own personal discovery of what death exactly is or what happens after death. No one can interview the dead. No one can find out if death is peaceful, or if there is life after death, or what death feels like. So for this topic of defining thanatology I wanted to look at the studies of peoples near death experiences, interviews from people who are experiencing death, the different cultures behind viewing death, and lastly the communication skills needed for health care professionals to develop in order to discuss death and dying amongst the patient and their family
Death at any stage in life is personal and holds different meanings to different people. Society places a great deal of meaning on death based upon age, situation, and their personal experiences and beliefs. The viewpoints of death and dying in early childhood are limited; however, children have a basic understanding of death by the age of two through their own observations of family members (Berger, 2008). Children who are dying often fear death as they do not have a fully developed concept of dying and associate death with abandonment (Berger, 2008). At this life stage, it is important to have guidance from his or her parents to gain a better understanding of death and dying.
People die everyday all over the world. In United States, people use hundreds of different words to describe death. Generally, people that grow up in the United States tend to view death as a taboo subject and are seen as a topic that should be kept behind closed doors and contracted with an individual or family. A belief system that so many individuals hold to be true has been shaped over the past century. In this culture, death has become something that is enormously feared and as a result, some people stop living their lives to his or her highest potential because of their fear of dying. The effect that death has pertains to individuals of all ages, gender and ethnicities. But unfortunately, how death is viewed it has become more and
Some of us come to term with the reality that everything in life is temporary, and that one day we will all die. But sometimes people face hard time facing the reality of death because is never easy to accept not breathing one day. Some people fear for a good reason because once someone dies there is no coming back and not knowing what happens in the afterlife makes dying even more painful. The sad thing about dying is that one never knows when they will die, which is why someone people hate thinking about dying because it makes them overthink when they will die. Everyone face the reality of death differently
Death is a topic that many people often like to avoid thinking about as well as avoid discussing. I believe that this is due to the fact that death is the only thing that we can be certain of in this life and it is in fact inevitable. Everyone lives up to the point of death and death is a natural part of life that many people do not want to come to terms with. Many people disregard the thought of death, whether it be hiding behind their religious views, cultural beliefs, or just overall spending their life living in denial. Often times death is thought of as an inconvenience, causing one of the most important events that occur in our life to be ignored. There are many reasons as to why people will not except death and why this
Our society finds it difficult to talk about dying and euphemisms are the norm. It is typical for both doctors and patients to be hesitant to initiate a discussion on dying. Focus instead is often more often placed on interventions and actions for managing symptoms. This avoidance can leave patients and their families unprepared for the inevitable death. (Schapira, 2010) It also often results in requests for therapies which may be excessive, costly and even painful in the hopes for a cure. One study demonstrates that when patients are aware that they are terminally ill, the majority are able to reach a state of peacefulness and also exhibit lower levels of distress. (Ray, Block, Friedlander, Zhang, Maciejewski & Prigerson, 2006) It is also important that family members are willing to discuss end-of-life options with their loved ones. According to elderly patients, they are most often the ones who initiate these conversations with their
Statistics show that most of the people in our world fear death. This is often called “death anxiety”, the morbid, abnormal, or persistent fear of one's own mortality. People are usually afraid of death because the concept of death is abstract, people do not want to leave their loved ones, and their strong beliefs in different Gods, but there are still ways to defend death anxiety.
I feel that when it is your time to go, you are going. That’s really the only belief that I have about death. Explain how level of death anxiety may be impacted by gender, age and mental health. Death anxiety in gender, women tend to have higher death anxiety scores than men on self-report scales. This does not mean that women get excited over everything it’s just that men usually tend not to show any emotional feelings about an emotional situation. Death anxiety in age, death anxiety is higher in adolescents and early adulthood. Then it decreases as we settle in life and by the time we get old anxiety gets higher again, by the time you reach seventy your anxiety will go back down. By this time in life you start looking forward to death. Most of your friends maybe dead already, your parents, siblings, and spouse by this time may already be deceased so in a way you have embraced death at this point. Death anxiety in mental health and illness, death anxiety is higher in people with diagnosed psychiatric conditions. Selective attention is when you have so much going on and you get distracted. You are not trying to avoid anything your mind is just on somewhere else. Selective response is when a person has thoughts about death but they choose who they want to talk to about it. Compartmentalizing is when you realize and understand that he is in a life-threatening situation and choose to respond to some aspects of the illness. Deception is when someone
To contrast traditional methods of defining death with modern-day definitions it is important to understand why the manners by which death is defined has changed. In short medical advancements, sociological influences, and even how one defines human life has changed our understanding of death and dying. Furthermore, although legal acts have been implemented to establish standard methods to define death, there are opposing viewpoints and legitimate concerns to these criteriums.
Throughout our lives we have instinctually feared what is considered the most horrible, yet inevitable fate of all mankind; death. We spend our entire lives fearing death as well as theorizing and developing ways to live longer and put off our own eventual demise. Death is universally feared, even from a young age we are aware of the fact that death is the ultimately the worst thing that could possibly happen to any mortal being. Death is defined as the “permanent ending of vital processes in a cell or tissue”. When thought of in these terms death does not seem like anything to be so greatly feared, it simply sounds like a scientific fact of life, so why is it that the fear of death is so prevalent? It appears that death is feared because we fear punishment from God for our previous actions, as well as because of the fact that we are concerned about not accomplishing our goals before we perish and of course because we have such a strong fear for the unknown. Epicurus however did not have any fear of death, he believed that death was simply nothing to us and that fearing being dead was senseless because we would not be present to actually experience it. According to Epicurus we should not fear death because our soul dies along with our bodies, because it is irrational to fear nonexistence as we have experienced it before and lastly because fearing death can only take away from us enjoying the short time we have on earth.