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Descriptive Essay About My Grandmother

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My father is of both Italian and French decent. My grandmother arrived on Ellis Island in 1909 with her nine siblings. My mother is also of Italian decent with her ancestors arriving on Ellis Island in 1899 from Naples Italy. I am the first born (1960) of a stereotypical, outspoken, boisterous Italian/French Catholic family. I have two sisters Jannine (1962) and Yvonne (1964). From the time I can remember, there was laughing, loud talking, hand waving, hugging and kissing with an abundance of unconditional love. I struggled being in such an outspoken atmosphere at times because my personality as a child was more of an observer rather than a willing participant. I was at heart shy, sensitive and insecure. Both of my parents descended …show more content…

My dad was the provider and the head of the family. My mom was the Harriet of Ozzie and Harriet. She never worked outside the home, her job was to take care of us and our home. She was the stereotypical submissive housewife. After my tenth birthday we moved from New York to California. Shortly after moving here my dad experienced a difficult challenge and began to drink and have affairs, resulting in my parents divorcing. Society at the time considered divorce taboo, as did the catholic church. I felt ostracized as friends, church members and family ended their relationships with my mother, and ultimately us. I was angry, confused and scared. During that first year my mom was always crying, some days never getting out of bed. Those were very dark and confusing times for us as a family. We went from always having our mom to becoming latch key kids as my mother began to put her life back together. My family had fallen apart as everything I had trusted, believed in and valued shattered. I began to drift away from my friends I had and began hanging out with a new crowed of friends. I was introduced to smoking cigarettes, pot and hash. When we weren’t smoking we were drinking. I found my voice when I high and I really believed that had my parents had ruined my life. I ended 9th grade with 120 absences, my counselor told my dad if I passed all my finals he would give me my credits, to this day I truly believe he thought I would fail them all, yet I

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