Nevertheless, put aside of the attributes I possess, I am unable to separate empathy from sympathy. I am a very emotional person. But human service providers should have the ability of not being affected by clients’ emotions beyond understanding. Otherwise, the helping professional will not only be burned out easily, but also unable to solve customers’ problems effectively. Thus, I will keep working on distinguish empathy, which is being understanding, from sympathy, which is putting myself in the client’s positions.
Overall, passion is my energy in a helper’s role, particularly after successfully played the role to my mother and friends. Also, my sensitivity and communication skill are going to serve me on conveying services in an effective
The importance of empathy in any helping profession, medical or social, cannot be overstated. The workers that exemplified it in their practice did the best that they could with their limited resources.
I also believe you have to become aware of other people's feelings and emotions to be able to communicate empathy, as well as other emotions. Many people don’t try to relate to others because they feel they should put their focus on doing their job. You have to be able to show people that you understand what they are going through. We have to learn how to put away our thoughts and feelings and pay more attention to the feelings of others. The company will not be able to function properly as a team if they do not have an understanding of how to relate to the emotions of others.
Hannah, B.B. & Virginia, T. (2012). The use of empathy in human services: Strategies for diverse professional roles. Journal of Human Services, 32 (1): 72-84
It has always been easy for me to feel with someone else. The characteristic of Empathy is part of my natural being. I feel as though I am constantly on levels 3-5 of the Carkhuff’s Accurate Empathy Scale. I have always treated my ability to express empathy as a true gift, and I am so happy to have been given it. I am glad that I have found a profession that will allow me to use my gift in a way that helps others.
With a great point to start off from, Cooper talks on research’s importance as something that gives this amazingly rounder concept of the working world, inner workings of our minds and depth to the complexity of the human condition. And, it comes with a catch. Trusting the skepticism of science and be skeptical of yourself and research, self-critical and to the best of knowledge just humble in the workings of science. It is not a toy to wave around all willy nilly. The talk on empathy especially got me as an individual who has went through a lot of stuff as well. When I become a counselor, say I have a gentleman that comes into my office who has an amazing career as a headliner in the best drag queen bars in Chicago. There is not a way I would be able to understand what his experience in life is like unless I use the power of conversation (more so science). Or, becoming a headline drag queen myself. Why is empathy such a difficult skill to teach or wrap around? Counselors are people who have to constantly collect data on feelings, thoughts, behaviors, aptitudes and
Sometimes, it is big challenge for me to put sympathy and empathy for particular people. Normally, I am a very emotional person. I could understand people’s struggling and problems. However, it is not always the case. For some people, I really have problems to fully understand them. For instance, maybe due to the fact that Asian cultures highly value filial piety, I personally could not understand those who abuse their parents, even though their parents did not do what they supposed to do. In this way, the culture itself can be the barrier for me.
After reviewing the article written by Lisa Moore, I began to reflect upon how I would incorporate empathy in my interactions with a client during the assessment phase of therapy. Empathy in a nutshell is attempting to match your feelings or current state of mind with that of another individual. In our field, empathy is of the utmost importance. It allows the speech-language pathologist (SLP) to meet clients where they are, to enter their world, and truly understand what it feels like to be them. SLP’s must not only view the client from an external frame of reference, but they must attempt to extract the client’s thoughts, feelings, ideas, beliefs, and values before and whilst administering an assessment protocol. There are several ways in
You've picked a wonderful topic to debate on. The issues of whether or not having empathy is improving or burdening our society and the world is a growing issue in today's times. As for your thesis statement, it's a little wordy and confusing if that makes sense. If you could sum it up a bit more clearer, that would be best.
The aim of this study was to investigate what empathy means to Swedish social workers and
Many people with complex identities exist in society. There are also other people, who, if had a rough history with a “complex” person, can heal their relationship through empathy. In the short story, “Thank you, Ma’am, by Langston Hughes, Mrs. Luella Bates Jones creates a healthy relationship with Rogers, a poor boy who does not have any discernment over what is right or wrong. In the movie, Inside Out, Joy, the personification of actual happiness, mends her relationship with Sadness(also the personification of the emotion), and through that, heals Riley’s relationship with her parents. Benedick, from the play, Much Ado About Nothing by none other than William Shakespeare, heals a couple of relationships such as one with Claudio and another with Don Pedro. In healing broken relationships, Joy, Benedick, and Mrs. Jones use empathy and understanding to better relate to others.
Empathy is a part of my every day life at work. I recently had a patient that was being treated for an abscess caused by drug addiction. The addictive mindset of a patient is not one I can have sympathy for, but can have empathy for. I cannot imagine the sequence of events that lead them to their choices, but on the other hand I am able to place myself in their current situation of, being treated in the hospital for addiction, and recognize how painful it must be to be in their shoes both emotionally and physically. Knowing how I would feel in their situation and the thoughts that would go through my mind enhance my ability to care for these patients.
Empathy- Although empathy is offered at ( 4:05) There was an opportunity to offer earlier on when the client initially expressed his concerns (3:50) . We offer empathy upfront to show care and this appears more genuine to help build trust.
Sympathy and empathy means when individuals try to let people know that they understand their struggles (Edwards, 2014). Sympathizing and empathizing means, individuals wish to comfort others in times of struggle. On the other hand, it is imperative to know that there are main differences between sympathy and empathy (Edwards, 2014). They are quite similar, but that does not mean they are the same. If we sympathize or empathize with anyone, we often make our efforts in showing how we relate to their personalities. Having a profound understanding of personality will assist create a personal determinant when we try to distinguish between empathy and sympathy. For example, an individual who known as an unsocial is going to encounter many challenges in distinguishing between the two than someone who known as an open- minded person (Edwards, 2014). To differentiate between sympathy and empathy is really hard because both words have very similar
By using the process of elimination, I determined which empathy training option I would choose to experience. Even in making the choice, there were practical considerations to make that those with the specific circumstances in their lives did not get to make a choice. For them, it was probably something that happened, or maybe that is how they were born. What they do get to choose is how they deal with or make adjustments for their situation. Dictionary.com defines empathy as the psychological identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another.
I too, scored high in the emotional intelligence category of this assessment. It has been my experience that showing empathy has had a substantial impact on my ability to form successful relationships. Trying to respond to the needs of individuals takes a great deal of time and effort. The one drawback to this approach is that implementing decisions that involve change can get bogged down by responding to the needs or feelings of the group the change will impact. Have you encountered this challenge?