Communication Theory Essay- “The Rebound”
" The Rebound " is a romantic comedy movie, which described about a single mum, Sandy, discovered her husband's infidelity video, then she decided to divorced with him, and moved to another city with her two kids so as to start over again. She got an apartment that was above a coffee house. She met Aram; a guy who only 25 years old and work in that coffee house, then they started befriends and knew more each other. Not long after she was moving into the apartment and started hiring Aram to be her nanny while she took on work for the first time. He started to have an inseparable relationship with her children day by day; and have a chemistry effect to ferment between Aram and Sandy. After that they became a couple and have a sexual intimate interaction. Notwithstanding, two of them encountered many difficulties; and the biggest concern was that they have an age difference of 15 years. At the end five years later, they broke the rules, ignored the age problem and back together.
In this essay, I am going to use “The Rebound” movie to go deeply in order to discuss the “Social Penetration Theory”, and more focus on the stage of social penetration process and self-disclosure.
Altman & Taaylor(1973) developed “Social Penetration Theory”
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Due to Sandy met regularly with Aram and stared being friends. It is then anticipated that their orientation stage started when Aram was still an adolescent, and Sandy as an adult who had two kids. During then, Sandy only knew that Aram as "a waiter from the coffee house, and a new friend from the new city”. In this stage, they only disclose the small part of themselves, their communication is superficial, simple and it is a public level. They only talked about what they are preferences in clothes, music and food. Also, their norms of appropriateness are
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