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Everything I Never Told You By Celeste Ng

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For centuries now women have been degraded to a lower standard and have not been able to accomplish their aspirations. One of the relevant themes in Celeste Ng’s novel, “Everything I Never Told You”, points out women’s loss of effort to reach their goals after marriage and having kids. The most prominent example of this was portrayed by Lydia’s mother, Marilyn. She goes through ups and downs throughout the story indicating her lifelong struggle to settle into her position as a housewife is not where she thought she would end up. The book documents Marilyn’s stages of acceptance and denial about how she ended up marrying a Chinese, American History professor and becoming a mother of three children, one of whom passed away. During the flashbacks throughout the novel, Marilyn is a college student trying to get an education in order to pursue a career as a doctor. She then falls in love with her professor and gets pregnant, disrupting her from continuing her studies. Moving forward a couple of years, she now has three kids and no job, but when she tries to obtain a job she is mocked for even trying. Women are oppressed and are told that they belong in the house in order to do “women’s work,” and because of the forcefulness of this injustice many women, such as Marilyn, believe that they should just give up and accept the life they have. Mothers are so often overlooked, children do not always realize it but mothers sacrifice a lot in order to make their kids happy and live a

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